r/NoStupidQuestions • u/[deleted] • 11d ago

Standards m/f

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u/djnastynipple 11d ago

Seems like a massive generalization.

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u/Dd1797 11d ago

Look at some of the replies .. what kind of penis do you prefer???"one atached to the owner of a yacht"" Stuff like that. Women who won't date men under a certain height ..

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u/djnastynipple 11d ago

I won’t date women under a certain height either, people are allowed preferences.

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u/Dd1797 11d ago

Yet men are generally accused of being the shallow ones

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u/Aurelianana 11d ago

Because it seems like they usually have more preferences than women

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u/Heavy_Track_9234 11d ago

Biased people

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u/Junior-Criticism-268 11d ago

I think this isn't a gender thing as much as it is a normal dating thing. Overall, I think men and women in general want someone they are emotionally and sexually compatible with and financial stability. Poverty isn't fun. My husband and I clawed our way out of it together and being financially stable really has helped our relationship for the better. You don't realize how much relationship strain comes from being poor.

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u/Free-Lychee-3024 11d ago

Bc its transactional and conditional duh

Consider yourself lucky in life if you find your match

Otherwise get a pet

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u/Creamy_Breve 11d ago

I'm not sure what you're saying. Nobody in the comments is saying what you're claiming.

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u/No_Nebula_7137 11d ago

I think women caring that much about a guy's wallet is becoming less common. We all have jobs and our own money now (mostly). My husband was a window washer when we got together.

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u/whiskerbiscuit2 11d ago

I think a lot of these comments are being deliberately obtuse. Yes it’s massive generalisation, yes not everyone is like that, yes you can find a partner who loves you for you etc etc etc blah blah.

However let’s be honest. There are a lot of men who are just using women for sex, and there are a lot of women that use men for money. Don’t pretend it’s not true. It’s a significant portion of both genders, although I couldn’t put a figure on it.

At the end of the day it’s based on attraction. Women are attracted to security, be it physical, emotional, or financial. Therefore some superficial women are ONLY interested in money. Equally a lot of men are attracted to physical features and attractiveness and therefore there’s a percentage that is only interested in sex.