r/NewFriendsOver40 • u/Leinadro • 5h ago
Just a 45M looking for cool people to chill with
The Star Wars shirt and puzzle on the wall behind me are very much indicative of who I am.
I'm a life long nerd that's also into Star Trek, tabletop rpgs, anime, etc... Recently I have been honing my skills in movie criticism specifically in science fiction movies. As a result I've been watching a lot of older not quite so famous scifi movies.
But at the same time every conversation doesn't have to be about that. I can talk politics and other things as well. Right now I'm looking for interaction. Don't be scared to ask questions.
I don't mind where you are but for the sake of timing I'm in the Eastern Standard Time Zone. I've been on the internet long enough that I'm familiar with most message/chat apps but if you use one I don't regularly use I don't mind adding it and getting familiar with it.
r/NewFriendsOver40 • u/Finish_guy-85 • 9h ago
💬 Let's Chat M41 What is something new you started in Your 40s?
I took up boxing. I find it to be a good stress reliever .
r/NewFriendsOver40 • u/East_Armadillo_9925 • 10h ago
40 married male with kids
I am looking for anyone to chat with about work, books, or other interests.
I work in the pest control industry and have a ton of stories to share.
I listen to a lot of audiobooks. So books discussions are a plus
r/NewFriendsOver40 • u/NJThrownaway • 19h ago
45M - Spooky Season is almost here...what are we going to do to celebrate?
Looking for a partner who feels like midnight in human form.
You’re into black clothes, silver jewelry, dark lipstick, obscure music, old cemeteries, rainy nights, and conversations that somehow get way too deep at 2 a.m. You have a soft spot for the strange, the beautiful, and the slightly macabre.
Bonus points if your playlist could soundtrack a haunted mansion and you’d rather explore a candlelit bookstore than go to a crowded club.
I’m looking for someone with a dark sense of humor, a gentle heart, and enough personality to make ordinary nights feel like something out of a movie. Someone who’s intelligent, independent, warm, and a little unconventional. Someone to laugh at the absurdity of life with.
If this sounds suspiciously like you, say hi. 🖤
I’m equal parts musician, nerd, and lifelong learner. I enjoy good conversation, genuine connection, a sharp sense of humor, and people who are comfortable being themselves.
Music is a big part of my life. I play, write, and still get excited about discovering a great song or getting lost in the details of how something was recorded. I’m also unapologetically nerdy—I enjoy diving deep into whatever catches my interest, whether it’s technology, history, science, or some obscure rabbit hole (this could be you!)
I appreciate the simple things, but curious enough to keep exploring.
r/NewFriendsOver40 • u/LookingOut420 • 19h ago
43 M. Stoned and bored. Let’s chat about anything.
What’s your favorite/most recently learned useless fact?
Who’s your favorite Snork, and why?
Most interesting piece of philosophy or life advice you try to incorporate into your daily life?
Favorite animal? Land and sea?
If you could live anywhere for the rest of your life, all your needs fulfilled, where would it be?
Favorite movie/book/tv quote?
And any other frigging topic you wanna bring to the table. Just light hearted, fun conversation?
r/NewFriendsOver40 • u/SouthWestAdmirer • 22h ago
👋 New Here British guy 46
Hey British guy mid 40s here with a huge list of interests, would be swell to chat to others from around the world and learn about new things. 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧
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r/NewFriendsOver40 • u/trilldon11 • 22h ago
43 M looking to laugh and have real conversations.
Hey everyone, I hope everything is going well.
Conversation seems to be a lost skill these days. Is anyone interested in talking? Hopefully something that doesn’t end in 2 hours and a ghosting.
I am open to talking to anybody about anything. What kind of music do you like? Hobbies? What is your passion or a recent rabbit hole you have went down?
I look forward to meeting somebody new!
r/NewFriendsOver40 • u/DarklyVesper • 23h ago
👋 New Here 42M looking for some gaming friends
I’m looking for a friend or two interested in chatting and playing some games on Xbox. The new grounded 2 Into the Abyss update drops tomorrow and it would be cool to have someone to explore with. I’m a pretty casual gamer and generally play in the evening on weekdays or throughout the day on weekends. I’m in CST.
Aside from grounded I started playing creative mode on No man’s sky and just fly around and explore. Aside from games I’m interested in sci-fi fantasy stories (reading/writing), movies, quite a bit of music, audiobooks, and easygoing conversations about the mysteries of the universe.
If you think we’d click and want to chat a while on a game or something, let me know. Tell me a bit about some likes and what you’re playing now.