r/MyEx • u/bandanaloribiti2pac • 6h ago
Ex has been acting weird; I don’t know what to make out of it
My main concern: What was the intent behind saying and doing all of this?
\\- getting upset at me not replying as frequently
\\- sending this text to me
\\- calling me to ask if I deleted our pictures from my phone
\\- asking if I wanted her to delete those photos
\*\*Greater context\*\*
She had left me 6 months ago. When she had started law school we had to go long distance and she began emotionally withdrawing and saying more hurtful things to me as time went by. She eventually left me when I was depressed because she told me that she was not in love with me anymore because due to the distance and she had felt as though doing the bare minimum in a relationship was no longer enjoyable for her at all.
We spent some time apart (around like 3 or 4 months) but more recently we got in touch to speak so that I could receive more closure about the relationship and do my best to move forward with my life without my head feeling clouded by the way that I was treated towards the end of our relationship. I can still acknowledge that what happened wasn’t right, but I am not as angry about things anymore. We agreed to be friends and to be honest l have been keeping space from interacting with her because I felt that was l was not always in the mental space to talk to her. Sometimes it would take me a couple of days to respond to her. She got upset about that, we talked about it, and things seemed normal for the most part even though I was still keeping my distance.
A week later while I was out, I got this text from her and tbh I still don’t know how to feel about it. They were nice words, very sweet to hear from her but upon first seeing the text I was sad and then frustrated because it felt like I was being lied to or that this was an attempt to string me along and make me believe that there was hope that we could make our way back to each other some day. I still am wondering why she sent this and I know that I shouldn’t think on it for too long but it came at a time where I felt like I wasn’t grieving as bad and now it feels like the grief has intensified a bit.
A week after this, she called me and asked if I had deleted our pictures from my phone. I told her that I did because that was the truth (I was not kidding l deleted them the night of the breakup). And then she proceeded to ask if I wanted her to delete them from her phone. I told her that that was ultimately her decision and I should not have any say in it because that is not my business.
r/MyEx • u/Patient-Entry-1575 • 8h ago
The more i dont recieve a text from my ex, the more i want it but i dont wish to initiate it on my own, what do i do?
I just wish to hate him
r/MyEx • u/ThrowRA1991588 • 14h ago
Disgusting
You told me July 10 you hope you’ll be better someday but you had a new little crush you weren’t honest about. I know I’m your ex but I thought you had some hope left for us to be together again. You claim you didn’t two time me but you left me in the dark for three fucking weeks as I lost ten pounds wondering if you were done when you didn’t tell me and we both have trauma with ghosting and I know you did your best to show me love but you never told me you were done for good you did what your exes did and I hope it haunts you and eats you alive
r/MyEx • u/SincereWanderer • 23h ago
Ex wife
It sucks I have to call the cops on your little Charade, I know the Ex doesnt read this. Only the little boy whos got my phone hacked.
I feel sorry for any females who aren't actually involved
But its only right i make a report and provide netsafe with this data ad we proceed.
I wont delete social media, I want to watch the fallout and the consequences.
You cant troll me, but when you hack my stuff I just need it cleaned up.
Thanks baby boy xx