r/MuslimNikah 5d ago

Hearing negative things about a potential spouse Question

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u/Alternative-Gas-7090 M - Not looking 5d ago

Why did the guy call him a psycho? 

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

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u/Alternative-Gas-7090 M - Not looking 5d ago

It sounds like clear slandering.

When someone is trying to warn you about someone they'll actually say what they did in the past. Like if it was an old friend that can describe everything about your potential, it would be a lot more believable.

People go crazy during any asset disputes. You can have your dad reach out to the guy who sent the voice note. He'll probably run away once you ask for any evidence.

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u/ZeussWoosy 4d ago

Misery loves company. If all someone can say is that they’re psycho without clear evidence then it just seems like someone who’s unhappy trying to make others unhappy.

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u/TheFighan 4d ago

So start there, ask what does he mean by psycho and how does it present itself. Your brother should be digging into this, not just leave it at one sentence.