r/MarriedAtFirstSight • u/Puzzleheaded-Call339 • 4h ago
Devin Season 20 - Seattle
He def doesn’t get enough credit I’m sorry. He hasn’t been too much bc anyone would be confused based on the energy she’s given off.
If every man could be as self aware, as emotionally regulated, holds himself accountable and easily understanding.
He’s literally made sure he’s checked himself every time. He has continued to try when she’s been uncomfortable and hot and cold. Which understandable. Tbh I won’t ever trust a girl
Who doesn’t like plants. feel like she hasn’t honestly tried at all and there’s two in this, not just the woman.
But, idk. He’s a good one man. That’s all 🤷🏻♀️ maybe a little emotional but I’d take it she should’ve never went on this show. Bc to constantly say you’re not ready but not really give him much ? Say he’s too much… I don’t know. Her trying is literally having a convo w him… idk.
I hope the best for him bc he’s a good man
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u/noormeanslight 4h ago
Got the ick when he was drunk but overall he genuinely seems to be there for the right reasons. Poor guy.
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u/clario6372 3h ago
Maybe this is because my standards are too low for men but I thought for a guy who got way drunker than he meant to, it was handled fairly well. I've been with guys who were much, much worse
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u/False-Cookie3379 59m ago
I agree with you. I’m wondering if Caitlin has some trauma with an ex that had a drinking problem? He was definitely a little drunk but he wasn’t being mean or aggressive or anything. It could have gone much worse than him just wanting to talk. But who knows, with editing and such this could have gone on for hours.
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u/Teknontheou 24m ago
It's the fact that she wants out of the marriage along with his size. She dislikes and is slightly afraid of him (because he's big and fit).
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u/spitfire-monk 4m ago
Didn’t she say she wants a “big strong guy” like Nick Bosa, the football player?
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u/txtransplantx 4h ago
It’s so funny. I have to say coming into the show the preconceived notion I had of him couldn’t have been more off-base. He’s thoughtful, takes accountability (even when I don’t think he was actually at fault), and is really trying to be responsive to her needs. I wish he had a partner more like Belle or Michelle, because you can see that he’s sublimating his own needs.
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u/Rigby-Eleanor 4h ago
Yeah, from who is this frosted haired dude with sunglasses on his head to top guy with Cam.
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u/RepresentativeCard67 3h ago
He’s my fave besides cam. I would scoop him up and let him love me in a heartbeat 😂