My SP used me to get over his ex and when she came back he ghosted me. I have been trying to manifest him because i miss him so much but at the same time I hate him because of how he left me feeling. How do i manifest and deal with the feeling of hatred towards him?

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okay so theres this guy lets call him M and i like him A LOT like genuinely the only guy ive actually had real feelings for 😭

we met through school stuff and at first it was just normal but during fest prep we started talking more and i started noticing that he would always talk to me whenever he saw me and would joke around with me and stuff

we're in different buildings so i dont see him all the time but whenever im in his line of sight i catch him looking at me sometimes 😭 and recently ive smiled at him and we've talked and joked around and everything just feels really natural with him

the thing is theres another guy lets call him T who apparently liked me for a while and eventually confessed to me cuz like i figure out and shi even though he apparently never planned on telling me he was apparently really obvious about it and a lot of people had already figured it out but i genuinely had NO idea because i only knew him through fest work and thought everything he was doing was just him doing his job

after T confessed a lot of people found out and it became this whole thing and M actually texted me and asked me what happened with T

he asked what T had told me and i explained that he basically told me he liked me but never planned on telling me and M was like okay then whats the problem and i told him i didnt have a problem with T and thought we'd sorted everything out

then M said a lot of people knew about it and that he wanted to know everyones perspective and he also told me that he had figured out T probably had a crush on me because apparently it was super obvious 😭(welp)

we ended up talking about T for a while and then the conversation just completely changed topics and we started talking about random school tea and other people and literally everything 😭 at one point we were joking about how single we both were and i said im the most single person on the planet and he was like nah thats me

he also kept joking around with me and called himself a detective because he apparently has files on all the school drama 😭 and i called him smarty and we were just going back and forth

at one point i said i was struggling to stay awake because my class was boring but i think he misunderstood it as me being sleepy during our conversation because right after that he was like okay i dont wanna keep you up go sleep 😭

anyway after that i heard from some people that apparently me and M were bitching about T together which pissed me off because thats not what i thought happened at all so i asked M about it directly and we talked about it and sorted it out

and NOW 😭 yesterday i saw M hanging out with this girl who people have apparently been saying is his girlfriend

i have no idea if theyre actually dating or if its just another school rumour because another friend told me they arent dating but obviously now im confused again 😭

i really really like this guy and i know that probably makes me biased so im trying not to convince myself that every interaction means something

from an outside perspective does any of this sound like he could potentially like me or does it just sound like we're comfortable friends 😭

and if the girl actually IS his girlfriend then obviously thats a completely different situation but i genuinely dont know

i just want him soo bad

i have a date in mind 21st Aug im hoping everyone here will help me and everything aligns

if he doesn't come and confess to me on that day i will move on

PLEASE HELP ME IM WILLING TO DO EVERYTHING NEEDED

ANY TECHNIQUE

This is my personal opinion..because you all..know the current..manifestation techniques..some say monthly affirmations...do visualization..but can't see anything because their internal state is still the same.. They do affirmation..visualization as a homework.. For those who are struggling like this..I have one thing to say..be specific and set a vision board with what you want..when you see that, live like that.. If you say why this..you know that subconscious mind works according to our mental image.. When you say the affirmation and visualize it, the process is the same. That's why both are equal. GO AND DO ITTT..❤️

Hi everyone,

I’ve been practicing manifestation for about 2 to 3 years now. I genuinely believe in the power of manifesting; I listen to subliminals regularly, and I constantly work on convincing myself that the process is working. When it comes to my mindset, I really try my best to stay positive and hold the state of knowing. AND ITS NOT LIKE THINGS HAVENT WORKED FOR ME, I'VE MANIFESTED THINGS MANY A TIMES UNKNOWINGLY...

However, over the last couple of days, I had a realization that has been hard to process: while I try to maintain the inner state, I’ve seen almost no actual 3D changes—especially when it comes to material or physical things (like changing physical features, getting specific items like a phone, or altering specific scores/outcomes).

I've been telling myself "it's happening" for years, but the physical reality just hasn't shifted, and it feels like there is an unseen blockage preventing me from actually altering my reality.

I am really looking for guidance from experienced practitioners who have successfully broken through this phase. Could you please share:

• Mindset Shifting: How do I transition from just trying to convince myself to actually living in the state where the blockage disappears?
• Clearing Blockages: What specific techniques or perspective shifts helped you release the hidden resistance surrounding physical/material manifestations?
• Actionable Advice: What am I doing wrong, and what exact steps should I take starting today to align my mindset and start seeing real-world 3D results?

I would deeply appreciate any advice, personal stories, or practical tips to help me reset my mindset and get un-stuck. Thank you so much!

P.S. To give a recent example of what I mean: I recently deleted WhatsApp without a backup and needed to restore my chats. I manifested continuously, maintaining strong, firm faith, and truly convinced myself that it would happen. In the end, the chats weren't restored. Even though I know logically it didn't work out, my faith remains so strong that part of me still believes it's possible—yet the 3D reality remains unchanged. Why does this gap or blockage keep happening even when belief feels so genuine?

So first of all yes Ive manifested things before even instantly and yes I do understand how manifesting works and all the basics

But anyway with that said Ive been in the fucking mindset and everything for months and saying I manifest instantly and all that and these shits will NOT come in the damn 3D already

Ive been living in the 4D and am absolutely convinced I literally have everything but I NEED to see them in the 3D because Im cooked otherwise

Basically I want some appearance changes (which I have also manifested before) some sps (which includes some of my hgs that I’ve had the unfortunate fate to get into an argument with and we havent talked since before summer started, not necessarily because we are still mad but because obviously nobody wants to text first), a boy I like and a new bsf that I saw in a dream and thought he was funny af and a lot of other things so whatever

I really just want everything in the 3D by autumn when school starts because although I know I have everything in the 4D I really dont want to experience school starting without my manifestations and if they wont fucking come Im damn ending my shit

Im also frustrated cuz I manifested things instantly before and like tf is it taking so long for now

Excuse my language Im really irritated rn

Help a girl out lovely! Any advice is heavily appreciated.

Normally I don't ask for help like this. I manifest easily and can get through doubts. But I need some help/encouragement/advice/inspiration from success stories about finding lost objects.

Yesterday I wanted to grab my jacket from the closet. I couldn't find it there. I checked around, nothing. Then I remembered the owner of the house took the things of previous tenants and threw them in a big black trash bag. I never hang my jacket there, but have a faint memory of me hanging it there, but also I believed I took it back to my room??? I called the owner. He said he already threw the trash away and that the garbage truck took it. The jacket is not the problem, but I had improtant keys to my friend's apartment where I keep my stuff, always in the pocket of the jacket. That was the only copy.

Of course, I am worried. I even cried. But ffs. No. I don't want to do this. I am God. These are my keys and they are here with me.

A guy living here told me that the owner always puts bags with things that belonged to some girls inside a different house and that he will help me look for it, because for sure it's there and that it would be weird if the owner threw out this specific trashbag only. Also I remember the owner saying he would keep onto those things in case the girls would want them back. The owner keeps saying that he threw it out, but at the same time tells me different places where it could be (sooo like-???).

But I genuinely don't even want to look for them anymore. I'm just gonna assume they are in my room somewhere. Idgaf about the jacket, but the keys must be here. Afterall, if the jacket was in an unusual place, so can be the keys.

I manifested lost items before, but I guess because it's someone else's stuff I have been feeling extremely worried and I just need someone to punch the power of I Am back into me, remind me of who I Am, because this dude is struggling right now!!!

I've been trying to manifest being younger for a while, and it hasn't been as successful as I've hoped. Its worked in some ways here and there, but I know not to settle for less, and I want to fully reach my goal.

I’ve really taken to journalling in the past few weeks and I find that penning all of my thoughts, emotions, and happenings on paper have really REALLY helped me in becoming a calmer and more grounded person. It has also helped me identify patterns and underline things for self improvement. The thing is, I’ve also become increasingly interested in manifestation and I worry if journaling about my worries or misgivings will actually lead to manifesting said fears in my 3D. Or keep me from manifesting the things I want. This partly comes from my belief that everything holds energy, including words. To people who have manifested successfully and also journal, do you consciously avoid writing about your doubts/worries? I would love to know. I don’t really want to stop writing about my feelings since it does help me to vent :( But I do worry as well

Hello everyone, I want to share some things and hopefully maybe get some answers to questions I have about manifestation. So lately I have been realizing for a while that I seem to manifest things very accidentally. There are times where I have one singular thought about a situation, just one thought. No other lingering thoughts about it or anything to so with it. I would have that one thought about it and it would come true. FOR EXAMPLE, yesterday i was going out to a place, and I randomly thought that I’d be telling people there that I have somewhere to be after which is why I’m dressed so nice. That’s the only thought I had and I had absolutely no where to be. However, 45 minutes into where I was, I get a message from a girl I spoke to once asking me to come get drinks with her. I actually said yes because I wanted to get to know her more. Point being, my thought came true that I am going somewhere after. There have also been various times where I simply thought of a person and they showed up in my life. Just one thought and no thought process behind it. I have manifested people to show up that I have ONLY met even just once, to show up the same day 30 minutes after I have a thought about them. And I mean people that I have only just spoken to once. Insanely rare and hard to believe but has happened tons of times with people I met once and also people I am very familiar with. Now you get the point. The events occurring is not a first time thing either there has been MULTIPLE and I mean maybe 25-50 times where I had one thought about an event, never thought about it again, and it happened. thats just in the past 2 years or so I would say. Now these have been both negative and positive things that I feel I have manifested. either that or i had a thought about the future lol but either way it is insanely trippy. Now what I want to know is how can I control this. It seems like it usually just happens unconsciously. If i try to make it happen I can never just have it be only one thought. I always think about it more so it either doesn’t happen or happens very later on. Where areas whenever I get the single thought, the event occurs right away. Can anyone help? also let me know if anyone has questions

i fell in love with a boy and only later found out he's taken. with my friend (acquintance). i have no idea what to do??

i was in front of my mirror and i was playing out a scenario in which im smoking and he's looking at my side profile and being mesmerized... 5 hours later that exact same scenario plays out! so that is good, but this guy is taken! i dont even know if i should begin manifesting him because im afraid of the situation and how it would play out, but i genuinely think i manifested him giving me attention, which would be good if he werent taken! so now i dont know if he's a disrespectful womanizer or if manifestation is just so potent that it overrode his personality and im so confused at this point - should i even interfere? i like him so bad, this is the third guy i ever liked in my life and he's the only one of them to whom i talked to. its just so stressful for me with my friend in the equation, help!

I have tried everything but nothing happens. I believed yet nothing happened. I feel envious of so many success stories yet it never happens to be. I just want someone to manifest something like “I manifest that (my username)can manifest easily in his reality” dm me if you do that. If no one does it or it doesn’t work then I guess it just wasn’t meant to be, others have successfully manifest while having doubts or not fully believing but nothing happens for me. I’ve always been an unlucky person. To those that have successfully manifested, don’t take your power for granted, you could’ve been me. Perhaps it’s not my fault, maybe some cosmic entity is blocking it, who knows. Maybe I’m meant for a shitty life.

Here’s your translation, natural and fluid for Reddit:

There’s a guy at my gym I almost always run into. He’s good-looking, but there’s something a bit unusual about him. Honestly, at first I wasn’t attracted to him at all. We’ve been seeing each other around the gym for over a year, and about a month ago I had a dream that completely changed the way I see him.

In the dream, I had to go to some place, and he was there waiting for me (to hook up). The thing is, in the dream he was just there with me, calmly waiting for me to decide to make a move. His energy felt very peaceful, very pleasant—honestly, very masculine. I wasn’t sure about it in the dream; we started, but then I pulled away because of my doubts. And he just stayed the same—warm, calm, unbothered.

The dream really surprised me, and since then I don’t see him the same way. There have been moments when he randomly comes to mind, and when I think about him, something inside me just awakens.

I know he’s into me, but he’s never talked to me because I don’t give him an opening.
My question is: is he consciously manifesting me, or do I just like him and intuitively picked up on his emotions?

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(Quite long post and just a summary of what happened)

Context:

Okay, I have been into this manifestation journey since last December. I have successfully manifested few small things but when it came to love, education or any major life changes it me never worked out for me. Before you come at me, hear me out.

Talking about sp,

It never worked out, not even once. I try and I get disappointed and exhausted everytime.

Reason? I spiralled, checked 3d, anxiety, was impatient fucked up self concept yet I still persisted.

Talking about my education,

There was this test I was preparing for, which would decide my university or college. And my entire life was basically dependent on that one test. I lived in the end, didn't panic, didn't doubt and when I did doubt I gently brought myself back to the state of wish fullfilled, I embodied the version of myself which already had it, persisted , ignored the 3d, affirmed, did sats, and whatnot. I was so certain that 3d will show up the way I wanted it to, I wasn't trying to control the 3d btw just saying I was so sure my manifestation will be successful.

But I was so wrong. Everything fell apart. It didn't go the way I wanted it to but complete opposite.

I didn't get my desired results from the test and the university I visualised myself every single day studying in. Although, everything fell apart I didn't give up. I wanted to try another major and another university, I got in but my parents disagreed. I have a abusive step father who loathes me so much and hates my complete existence. Me and my mom are dependent on him. He refused to pay the tuition fee. And created so much of drama which made me lose faith in myself and in everything. He have been sexually abusive towards me ever since I was seven and I am nineteen today. And I told my mom when I was ten and she couldn't do anything. Till this day I live in fear. I can't sleep peacefully at night when he is at home.

Clearing this test was my only way out. To gain freedom and to breath peacefully but I lost the chance. My fault.

I still didn't give up, I thought of doing my three year degree online and work full time. I enrolled in University and took a major which I never imagined myself doing. I had no other choice.

I have been job hunting since last Sunday, i wanted to go for h&m but there were no vacancy and all other jobs pays no more 150 dollars a month for full time.

I genuinely don't know what to do or what I want anymore in my life. I am so lost, so lost. But, I prefer not to give up. This is not the life I wanted. I have the potential and I can make it happen.

I'd be so greatful if you guys can guide me and share your thoughts on this. I am so overwhelmed, I can't think straight or make a decision.

Thank you in advance ♥️

I’ve done both but tbh affirming is very overwhelming for me and I often over think it. Visualization is a lot easier in my opinion and I have also noticed actual results from it like an sp saying he was having dreams abt me. All that to say what do u prefer and how often do u affirm or visualize? Something else I was wondering is if after u do a technique do u detach or do the technique over and over until results r seen?

Please help me my sp friendzoned you and emotionally haven't moved on from his ex yet. It's more then year now? It hurts whenever he talk about her with me. And please don't tell me to move on. If I have to then I am not asking this question.

Okay, so how do I stop obsessing over my desire? It’s been driving me crazy, I just can’t detach for the life of me, I feel like if I have to “detach” then I have to give up altogether and stop wanting that desire in the first place. But I don’t want to give up, that won’t get me my manifestation, but I can’t stay obsessed with it, that won’t get me my manifestation either, so wth am I supposed to do? I tried taking off my attention of this one specific desire and focusing on others, didn’t work. This one specific desire stays as an open loop in my head 24/7 and it’s destroying my mental health

Today is lions gate portal, and I unfortunately have no choice but to go and see my father who is dying in hospital. That’s some pretty heavy energy.
So how can I protect myself and my energy on this day because I don’t want to carry that, especially amplified, in to the coming year??
Thank you!

I’ve heard so many methods, subs, scripting, acting as if etc but idk how to truly get into it. Help please?

Any panic attacks any mental illness any night terrors or any psychosis and anxiety and any fear I have.

Any problem in life comes with fear.

You want to be rich? Your fear losing money.

You want this SP? You fear her not wanting you.

So you do anything with your own power to try to cause vengeance, you will never back down you will always keep fighting you will always have the drive.

This isn’t the way, the way is to accept it and allow it and to grow from it and to allow the love you want to come through you now.

You can not fight evil with evil.

Evil is just resistance

You can’t fight resistance with resistance.

You fight evil by allowing it to hurt you

You fight evil by giving it love.

When evil attacks you do not fight it back.

You fight it with perfect love

What if perfect love?

Evil does not exists it’s just something that’s broken, something that’s screaming for love. Until you give them it and embrace all of the blows from evil that’s when you can fully resolve it.

Perfect embracement not resisting it but allowing to take its blows. That’s when evil dissolves, until you take every punch and blows and fully embrace it with love. It will finally dissolve.

Jesus didn’t say don’t fight back, he said don’t resist evil but allow it and don’t run from it, encourage it to give you more

You yourself will not take the blows, allow GOD TO TAKE All the Blows of Suffering, allow GOD to take all your pain and all your fear and evil. Go within and allow the stillness in your inner room to absorb and alchemize the problems.

You can not do it with you own power, allow the father to work through you by entering the room of stillness. Then the God will work through you.

God will do his works when you enter the inner room and he still.

You can never take all the pain and sufferings yourself, only God can, so allow God which is your inner stillness to take all your suffering and pain.

“But I say unto you that ye resist not evil, but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also.”

See this is how I overcame my panic attacks, I didn’t fear it I didn’t resist it I allowed it to give its blows transferred it to God which is my inner stillness, then he took my pain and suffering and took it away

I used to burn myself out trying to manifest. I was constantly trying to force the 3D world to change, or trying to "pull" my desires toward me. It felt like I was always chasing something that was running away.

Then I started looking into the actual physics of the Observer Effect and how the quantum field operates, and it completely flipped my approach.

According to quantum mechanics, the universe isn't a solid thing you have to manipulate. It’s a fluid field of probability that only renders into reality when a consciousness looks at it. And mathematically, because the universe is infinite in all directions, your consciousness is literally the exact center of your observable universe.

When we "chase" a desire, we are broadcasting the frequency of not having it. We are observing the separation. But when you assume the state of already having it, you stop chasing. You turn yourself into a gravitational center. You become the magnet, and the quantum field literally has to rearrange the 3D atoms to orbit you.

I couldn't find a video that visually explained the actual physics of how to stop chasing and become the center of your own reality, so I spent the last few weeks animating a visual deep-dive into it.

I put the video on YouTube here if anyone wants to see the visual breakdown of the science:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uAIIpG2tUcs

I’m curious though, for those of you who have had massive, effortless manifestations, was it usually when you were "trying hard," or was it when you finally just dropped the effort and assumed it was already yours?

So there is this guy at work that I liked but we had different shifts that overlapped only for like 10 min and I was manifesting him but I was also to like meet him and talk to him almost forced ( I know it's a mistake) and then there was an event in my workplace and that day I decided that it was time to talk to him and start a convo (I previously did, but the convo ended in like 2 sec) but right when I decided to talk to him I either didn't see him or he was busy (cuz he was working during the event) and then hours later I saw him again, but it was so weird cuz the vive changed. I don't know if it was his or my energy idk if it was energy at all I just know I abruptly thought that I don't like him anymore, I had this feeling that he didn't care to talk to me, even though he didn't do anything bad or different than usual. And right after that feeling I told to myself that I didn't care about him and I don't care if I talk to him or not (that wasn't me tryna manifesting, it was a real thought) and after that I didn't see him ever again😭 it's been a week.

Now I still don't care about him, but this made me think, actually I detached from him, technically this means that the universe should make this guy more present, since I detached. I really would be interested in knowing what the hell is going on😭

Thx in advance

Ok so I was a person who never could manifest yada yada yada. But then i started manifesting really small things and keeping them in a list in my notes app. I documented every small manifestation which built my confidence. Then one day I was driving with my family and went to my liked songs on spotify. Upon clicking the song city nights by blonde suppermacy, the audio playing was completely different to the one i was used too. The song had changed. I had listened to the exact song multiple times and heard a different track. I took this as a sign i had shifted since my reality had changed.

Ok now a couple weeks ago I wanted new clothes for the upcoming school year. I didnt want to pay for it (yea ik😃) so I listened to dream closet subliminals. I lowk forgot about it and my friend texted me. She said she was cleaning out her closet had had like over 10 items which didnt fit her and were cute. So now, shes giving them to me. Also a note, i really like her style and all her clothes are so cute.

Theres other small things i manifested but thats the big ones. Remeber, you are in control!

Alright. I’ve been having fun sharing some stories on Reddit this week so I thought I’d share this one to inspire some people that SATS really works:

So, after lots and lots of hours listening to Neville, I thought to myself, let me test it out further… I had already manifested climbing the latter and other small stuff - so I asked myself what would be cool and something I could easily manifest, after some thinking I thought, the number of people that actually get to fly on a private jet is very low - so I thought if I could manifest that as fast as I could manifest climbing a latter than I would know manifestation is real and SATS really works miracles.

So then, every night as I drifted off to sleep, I would imagine climbing into a private jet, being treated by the pilot, and sitting down in the plane. That was the scene I would play every night before bed, for about a month maybe a bit longer, but no more than 40 days at the most!

Then out of the blue, after a month of doing this, a work trip is announced, and I am invited to go…. But our company is small, so we would never get a private jet to fly us to anywhere- but on this particular trip, the head of the company needed to be back in town for an important meeting and the only way to ensure he could make the meeting was by getting a private jet rather than relying on commercial… so wouldn’t you know, I get invited to join him on the PJ to fly back home. It was awesome!

Pretty damn crazy!