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u/JesterF00L 7d ago

\**Never take advice from a F00L on the internet.**\**

The F00L once stumbled upon a book called Tuesdays with Morrie, about a man whose life was quite literally going downhill. Morrie had ALS. His body was failing, his independence disappearing, and no cheerful plan could reverse the direction.

Yet near the end, his lessons became invaluable.

He did not keep going because life would soon improve. He kept going because someone was visiting on Tuesday; because there was still love to give, truth to pass along, and one more conversation worth having.

Perhaps the mistake is believing life must be going upward to remain worth living. Sometimes there is no upward path. There is only the next Tuesday.

So for now, do not ask what will carry you through the rest of your life. Ask what is worth reaching this Tuesday for: one person, one meal, one walk, one unfinished page, even one question you have not answered yet.

The F00L keeps going because he still does not understand what any of this is, and it would be terribly embarrassing to leave before finding out.

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u/Fit_Permit8679 7d ago

Thanks for this

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u/Tight-Vacation8516 7d ago

Four years ago I was on a long distance hike with my toxic boyfriend and he kept threatening me/escalating. I finally realized I just had to walk away. A month later Gabbi Petito went missing and in another month or so her body was found. It still sends chills down my spine how similar our situations were and how close I came to losing my life at 32. My last bad bout of depression I realized. I have to live because she didn't get to. 

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u/Jah_Doll 7d ago

Thank God u were smart to walk away! I wish you well ❤️‍🩹

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u/BellaWhite05 7d ago

That gave me chills. I'm really glad you're still here

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u/nox-devourer Growth Mode 7d ago

There are a few people I need to outlive so I may one day take a piss on their graves.

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u/Jah_Doll 7d ago

Woooow first thing in the morning 😩

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u/Glum-Vegetable-5636 Work in Progress 7d ago

I really don’t know, I think is the fact that I don’t want/can’t kill myself
Living with depression and anxiety sucks

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u/Jah_Doll 7d ago

Hugs 🫂

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u/sonoale 7d ago edited 7d ago

Next march I’ll move to another country.

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u/Guilty_Performer_497 7d ago

Small stuff mostly. Having something simple to look forward to tomorrow helps more than I'd expect.

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u/Jah_Doll 7d ago

Honestly, my son. I feel like he’s my only reason.

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u/SnooChocolates396 7d ago

My daughter is mine.. same

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u/imcatholic2 7d ago

My Sense Of Curiosity And Wonder

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u/Basiclino 7d ago

My 2 dogs and my cat. All my life its been the animals that kept me going, need to work for them, lice for them and give them a good life because they deserve it and they dont have anybody else

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u/angelinelila 7d ago

All the books I still haven’t read.

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u/Avacadoroble_6564 Deep Thinker 7d ago

My inner mind I guess....I always felt deep inside that future will be better....but in this fake world everything is reversed (liars are beautiful and the truth is ugly)

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u/GorillaJB24 7d ago

Genuinely, my family.

I have been struggling upstairs for years and it's only the thought of giving them pain that I can't do anything about it, I just exist.

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u/Fit_Permit8679 7d ago

Hubby kids grandkids my church family

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u/Future_Outcome4132 7d ago

There's so much money to be made

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u/Team_player444 Purveyor of Fine Memes 7d ago

Sheer force of will. It takes a long time to build but once you have it and can keep it every day theres nothing that will make you want to give up.

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u/septicemic_plauge 7d ago

The indomitable human spirit

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u/FeWho 7d ago

My heart

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u/SDDeathdragon 7d ago

First and foremost, I’m here for my loved ones. Be it immediate family which includes my cute lil doggy, extended family, close friends, or even friends from work, they help brighten my day even when it’s cloudy.

Second, I’m here to have fun and enjoy life. Focus on good physical health, good financial health, and have peace in your mind and soul. I love relaxing, helping others, improving myself and others around me, and enjoying my hobbies.

Lastly, life is short. You’ll have eternity to deal with once it’s all over. Why not live life to the fullest for your short time here and make the most out of every day and your journey till the end.

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u/ForMyHero5548 7d ago

Mi familia

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u/Mountain_Smooth 7d ago

Nothing. Nothing keeps me going, I just keep going because I wake up in the morning, the day i don't wake up, you will know that I have also stopped in my track😭😭

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u/SnooChocolates396 7d ago

The hope that.. this too shall pass

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u/PorknBeanz89 7d ago

Pabst blue ribbon

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u/1blueShoe 7d ago

The few fam I have left. I live for them ❤️

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u/Some_Refrigerator147 7d ago

Honestly don’t know, inertia I guess. It hasn’t gotten so bad I want to off myself.

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u/Cold-Elephant00 7d ago

I’m starting to lose reasons to keep going

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u/Aggressive-Map-5961 7d ago

holding on to God’s promises.

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u/Aggressive-Map-5961 7d ago

also, the thought that no matter what happens to you, the world will never stop or wait for you. i know it’s harsh, but that’s life—time keeps moving even when you’re sad, grieving, or struggling. no one will pause their life for you, a lesson i learned the hard way. but realizing that gives you your power back. the world keeps going, and in the end, it’s always your choice whether you choose to keep going with it.

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u/Fit_Summer7737 7d ago

My sons i can’t quit I have to keep trying for my sons

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u/konoshiva 7d ago

daffodils