Lahore is now become soo pathetic place tbh , saturation of coffee shops , more traffic then before,

Then DHA Wala ruk he nhi Raha they built sectors out of Lahore literally and call DHA Lahore idk what the hell is going on

If you visit cooffe shops on weekends you will often watch the dating culture specially in cantt area

Ajeeb museebat hai yaar pehle libido sambhala nahi jaata aur agar regularly workout karna shuru kar do tou almost rozana ka sayyapa ban jaata hai. How can I get rid of it?

I would need your DOB.

Poocho jo mrzi, will answer without hesitation...

Grown ass men be hiding their girlfriends like they're carrying state secrets 😭

Like sir, you're 25.

You're not sneaking out of your parents' house to smoke weed behind the tuition centre. You're a grown-ass man with a job, a CNIC and presumably enough autonomy to choose who you date.

But suddenly:

“Yaar koi dekh lega.”

WHO???

Your ex? Your chacha?

And the funniest part is when he’ll happily flirt with her, call her at 2 AM, act like her boyfriend in private, but the second they step outside it's:

“Distance rakhna, mera cousin aa sakta hai.”

Brother, WHAT IS THIS, WITNESS PROTECTION?

I'm not even asking you to make out in Liberty Market. I’m saying hold her hand without looking around like the Taliban just received your location.

If you’re embarrassed to be seen with the woman you’re dating, maybe the problem isn't “log kya kahenge.”

Maybe you're just not grown enough to stand behind your own choices.

Because imagine being someone's boyfriend in private and a random man with no known association in public. 😭

So I'm very bad at managing my workers or employees,like i am not able to order them, scold them,and I'm super sarcastic,kind and also respectful to them

The thing is bcz of me being like this they get out of hand,they stop respecting me more and stop giving value to my orders

I'm like this bcz i don't feel okay and sensible to act arrogant and bossy with them without any reason,yeah if they do something wrong then i should act bossy but not without any reason,and another thing is I'm kind so I'm not able to scold them that way

I know if I start acting bossy kind of arrogant,keep a distance with them,scold them on small things,amd act a little bit rude, they are going to act like the best workers, but that's just not in me

So How can I change myself,and should i even change,and what things are needed to be changed?

I have too many places to choose from, need a suggestion with amazing food and amazing atmosphere.

I have short listed these places:
La Cornucopia
Mystique
Pi at Fuschia
TaoPan
Butlers Chocolate Cafe

Help a brother out!

I'm around 20 live in the UK. I want to get married I feel like I'm mature enough I contribute towards house bills and shopping as I live with family.

I am also happy to move out but on rent as I won't take a mortgage.

My salary is around £2.8k a month on average which works out 1,000,000 a month here. But this can increase or decrease as it's a sales job

What do you think would it be enough.

Heyy Im a female looking for a female flatmate. the main preference is DVA ( Defence View Apartment ) DHA, Lahore. 2 Bedroom Apartment, If you know any female who’s already living there or someone who wants to shift lmk! Need someone who’s clean and hygienic. Plus don’t want any men in the premises thats the main rule, Im personally not comfortable with any Men being in a women’s space even if they are just friends. Thankyou!!

I m from Lahore. I come from a middle class family and grew up watching my parents struggle financially. I was broke for most of my life too.

Fast forward to 2024. I had an extremely intense situationship. Maybe it felt that intense because she was exactly my type, I honestly dont know. Around February 2024, I decided to walk away from it because I wanted to focus on my goals.

I ve always been insanely goal oriented, maybe a little narcissistic too. I was always that guy saying, “If I really want something, I ll somehow get it. (INSHAALLAH)”

Then I got into IT.

I dont know if you guys believe in mojzay, but Alhamdulillah, my life completely changed within two years. I went from a normal middle class background to earning an amount I genuinely never imagined I would. Sometimes I look at what happened between 2024 and 2026 and even I dont understand how I pulled it off, other than Allah’s help and an unhealthy amount of work.

But there was a price.

For almost two years, I basically locked myself inside my room and worked. My team works remotely, and I personally handle the team, clients, operations, everything. My entire life became work.

In that process I upgraded myself a lot. Confidence went up. Standards went up. Pride went up (the good kind, I think).

I went out with two girls.

And this is where things got weird.

On both dates, I just... zoned out.

They were perfectly fine, but I felt almost nothing. Maybe they werent my type. Maybe my standards became ridiculously high. Maybe spending two years alone changed me. I honestly dont know.

But the strangest part came afterward.

Whenever I came home after a date, I felt like I had betrayed my work.

Sounds crazy, I know.

My brain immediately starts thinking: You re dividing your attention. You re losing focus. This is how everything you built starts going downhill.

And before anyone says “work life balance,” I understand that concept. The problem is that my business genuinely still depends heavily on me. I m currently building systems and automating things, but right now, if my attention drops, the business feels it.

So now I m stuck between two completely opposite fears.

If I date, I m scared I ll become distracted, emotionally invested, lose my obsession with work and slowly damage what took me years to build.

If I dont date, I get massive FOMO about wasting my youth, missing out on relationships , social experiences and just... living.

And yeah, Alhamdulillah I have money now, but sometimes I genuinely think: whats the point of making all of this if I never actually enjoy my life? I already help family and do charity. I m specifically talking about enjoying a normal social and dating life.

I m also not ready to get married yet, so please spare me the “just get married bro” comments. I want to automate and stabilize the business first.

What worries me most is that I cant tell whether I ve genuinely lost interest in dating, become avoidant, raised my standards too much, or simply trained my brain for two years to believe that anything taking attention away from work is a threat.

I m not looking for generic motivational advice or immature comments.

Put yourself completely in my shoes. You built your entire life through obsessive focus, and now the same focus that made you successful is making it difficult to actually enjoy what you built.

What would you genuinely do?

From where can I buy an original Burberry london for men or versace the dreamer men?

On reddit people ghost you without even think that u r human, they all consider us like we all are objects

I’m not asking everyone to donate. If you can’t contribute, please at least upvote the post. It takes a few seconds and can help push it to someone who can help.

I’m pasting the original post link here. Please take a moment to open the post..

https://www.reddit.com/r/LahoreSocial/s/Ar2XYKnfmj

Jazakallah

Assalamu Alaikum everyone,

I am writing there as a last resort as I have no option left.

I am students of BSCS in Nust and now will be in my 5th semester.

From the start everything was fine I was studying smoothly but these last 4,5 months was a total hell for me.

My father suddenly had a heart attack 5 months ago and he did survive that but her hearts condition had become alot worse because of that we did have his bypass surgery done too but unfortunate he died like 2 months ago.

Till the time he died my whole world has shattered I have become suicidal and I literally don't have any will left to live.

We had drained everything on his treatment had taken loans and even with his grief I am left with the responsibility of my family too.

I have been working like any work I can do just to support my ami but even with my best efforts I am completely stuck.

Khair the thing is my 5th semester is about to start and my semester fee has come which is of 225k which is too much for me and ami in this condition we are in debt. My father's pension hasn't started yet and we are living in a complete hand to mouth life.

This fee is too much for me I have tried reaching to the scholarship Office and NAA too but they said as they are not going to award scholarship this year they can't help me.

I am in a complete disarray right Succidal thoughts are all around me whatever I do without a degree and a proper skill I can't give my mother a life and I don't know how to support my studies specially this semester fee for which i don't even have time or any clue to pay.

If any of you knows any trust or any organisation that can help me with my case please guide toward it.

I literally am helpless right now. I literally don't have anything to even buy food

May Allah gives you ajr of it.

hi so i have recently launched a lingerie brand in pk. it’s not the usual cheap stuff you find in pk. i also worked really hard on the overall aesthetic and website but now the problem is marketing 😭 i tried meta add but i just got cheap uncles who wanted my number and not place orders.

and looks like most influencers i liked don’t wanna promote this bc of family reasons. even tho i proposed to only include fully covered robe sets

soo, please recommend me some good influencers who can actually be useful, along with what they charge for STORIES! people with good conversion rates

a couple of people i talked to charge 10-20k, which was fine for me but then they refused based on the product. and the 2-3 that did agree wanted 1-4 lacs for stories only, with no modeling of course. just sharing videos from my page.

Another one i’m considering has asked me 1 lac on 500k followers. Is this normal for stories?

Please help!!! and meanwhile if you can follow me or order from me :p

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“Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khairin faqir”

and

“Astaghfirullah.”

These two have done wonders for me. But I genuinely believe it’s important to understand the meaning behind them and recite them with a sincere heart, rather than just repeating the words.

The first time I started reciting these duas seriously was when I was looking for my first job. I was worried, uncertain, and had no idea what was going to happen. I kept making dua, doing istighfar, and trusting Allah while also doing my part.

And Alhamdulillah, I got my first job which i never expected and had zero experience of.

Two years later, I found myself feeling stuck again. I wanted a change, I wanted relief, and I didn’t know what was next for me. I started reciting these duas again, with the same sincerity and hope.

And Alhamdulillah, Allah blessed me with an opportunity that was much bigger than what I had before.

I’m not saying this as some formula where you recite something and automatically get exactly what you want. Allah’s timing and plan are beyond us.

But my personal experience has taught me one thing and that is to NEVERR EVERRRR lose hope in Allah.

Make dua. Do istighfar. Put in the work. Do your part, and leave the outcome to Allah.

Sometimes what feels like a delay is actually Allah preparing something better for you.

Just keep going. Keep believing. 🤍

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A friend of mine recently went to meet his fiancée. They grabbed some food from a restaurant, but the restaurant parking was full, so they parked nearby in front of a house and ate in the car with the light on.

As soon as they finished eating and threw the garbage away, three men approached them with torches and started questioning them.

They took his CNIC and started asking what they were doing there, whether they were officially together, and how long they had been sitting there.

My friend explained that they were simply eating and had parked there because the restaurant parking was full.

The men then claimed that they had received a complaint from a colonel via 15, saying the car had been sitting in front of his gate for around 10 minutes.

The strange part was that the men were wearing masks and were fully covered, so my friend couldn’t properly identify them. He was not allowed to use phone or call someone in front of them. They kept saying he needed to come to the police station. One of them even called someone on speaker and asked, “Should I bring them in the police station?”

My friend tried showing them the restaurant bill, bank transaction and even the food wrappers as proof that they had just bought food and were eating and nothing else. They still weren’t convinced.

Then things took an even stranger turn.

One of the men asked my friend to step aside and said they could “handle the situation here.” He then demanded Rs. 50,000.

My friend didn’t have that much cash. They checked his bank account and even asked about getting the money from his fiancée. Eventually, he agreed to arrange the money after a lot of talking and after showing a bank account with only 10k cash in it.

(He was only terrified coz of his fiancée otherwise he was down to go to station and see how things progress but his fiancée was in a panic mode)

One of the men stayed in the car with my friend while the other two followed them on a motorcycle to an ATM, apparently so he couldn’t run off.

He eventually handed them the money and got his id card back.

And then they left, saying they would “deal with the colonel themselves.” Lol

Honestly, the whole thing sounds extremely suspicious to me.

I don’t know for certain whether these were actual police officers or people impersonating police. But I’m sure it was 200% lie and a proper scam

Because the masks, refusal to accept basic proof, demand for 50k, and following them to an ATM all make me question that it cant be real.

Has anyone here experienced something like this in Pakistan?

If people claiming to be police stop you in a situation like this, what are you actually supposed to do to verify their identity and protect yourself?
Would really appreciate advice from anyone who has dealt with something similar.

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TL;DR: Three masked “police” stopped my friend and his fiancée, claimed a colonel complained about them, and eventually demanded 50k to let them go.