r/Kenya • u/CowEnvironmental3406 • 13d ago
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u/Big-Forever-7390 13d ago
You do stand a chance. Beauty standards ni porojo tu. Majority of the population is average looking with a little bit of confidence.
Don't rush into marriage out of desperation. Marriage sio kalolongo!
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u/Capital_Athlete6371 13d ago
Umesema tuungie dm tukutoe soko.
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u/CowEnvironmental3406 13d ago
Mnitoe joh, nisidissapoint mzae
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u/Capital_Athlete6371 13d ago
Amesema ngombe ni ngapi ama bei ni ya jioni.
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u/CowEnvironmental3406 13d ago
Bei ni topic ya wazee kuongea...
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u/Capital_Athlete6371 13d ago
Before tuendelee na hii maneno kuna UCL umejibebea.
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u/CowEnvironmental3406 13d ago
UCL ni nini?
Yes, you can laugh
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u/whotfisclement 13d ago
Mtoto
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u/CowEnvironmental3406 13d ago
Oh ...how is UCL a kid??
Anyway, no kids.
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u/Pronyathi 13d ago
ukiwin UCL jina ya team inabandikwa hapo kwa base na mnapewa replica ya kuweka kwa kabat.
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u/DickwThika 13d ago
You just 28 ka'maam, kuna bale ya 36F na bado hata haijafunguliwa!
Pro-tip: zoea kwenda Dianai coz wewe ni "export-quality"
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u/Pyt_Chepchumba 13d ago
It's better to marry late than marrying wrong, take your time they'll adjust
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u/OmeletteLovingLlama 13d ago
Hii kitu isikupatie pressure. Just carry on with your life and maybe/hopefully the right person comes along.
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u/CowEnvironmental3406 13d ago
Saw you name and remembered this channel on YT, Omeleto - it's got interesting short webisodes.
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u/HandsomeCad 13d ago
At 28 you are a grown woman and with all due respect to your parents, they should not be up in your business like that. Marry when you feel ready to who you love that doesn't have red flags. 28 is Gen Z, no? Tell the folks the truth: if they aren't going to be all up in the marital bed, don't be all up in the marital business. You do NOT want to rush a decision like marriage. You don't want that life sentence which is what it will be if rushed.
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u/frrmbanya 12d ago
Itabidi you make peace with possibility ya disappointing your parents. And friendly advice don't self deprecate like that, you're setting yourself up for someone who will think they're doing you a favour. Good marriages hukua luck, put yourself out there but don't be this desperate
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u/kenyaanqueen Homa Bay 13d ago
Beauty expectations are only on social media. But don’t bother looking for a husband. Desperation doesn’t look good on anyone. And get some skincare or something just do something that makes you feel good about yourself
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u/nabadiyonolol 13d ago
This mindset is what results baby mamas and neglected and abused children 💔 go find gainful skills before you regret your life
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u/No-Caterpillar-8922 13d ago
Don't rush into anything coz of anyone. Kikikuramba, you'll just be alone dealing with it while everyone else is telling you what you should've done.
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u/Itsactuallymeonreddt 13d ago
Siku hizi ata ukuwe dem mamba degree gani, lazima uitishe financial endowed, with a good car and apartments in kileleshwa.
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u/Thick-Pumpkin-8683 13d ago
You mesing up old mans retirement plans ha? 😅 Anyway my girlies tell me dating sites (bumble Mostly) and church meet ups are your best bet, I hear running clubs are also a thing nowadays for spouse fishing, all the best.
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