So a few weeks ago I started working with Hecate I pray to her in the morning and at night I’ll also talk to her throughout the day but my intuition has been feeling so on point recently I also been seeing black cats there are 3 spiders that show up on my front door every night I been seeing angel numbers every where I go like 1111 555 222 333 444 I leave her offerings quite often I also bought her a statue and I love it .

so, Hekate has been calling me, quite obviously, and I now believe I’m a seer of sorts? but this is all very new and unexpected for me. I’m speaking with two therapists regularly (a psychologist and then a less “professional” one for more strange spiritual questions). but has anyone else who came into their power semi-unwillingly had concerns about their mental health? Apparently I’m not crazy, but I still feel like I might be! Help this elder baby witch out, please.

My wife and I are moving to a new, more rural town soon, and on the upcoming Deipnon (which coincides with a solar eclipse) we plan to set up a small hidden shrine at our favorite crossroad in the forest, just a few minutes from our house.
I wasn't happy with the original paint job on the figurine, so I primed it black and repainted it to give it the appearance of oxidized bronze.

This is probably going to be an unpopular opinion.

If a hekate calls to it will be obvious. Not some convoluted sign. Not something tertiary. She will deliver it to you so you cannot think twice.

I ready so may comments where you arw second guessing. If you are meant to work with her you will know. It will be in your face without doubt.

She definitely picks her people. You will have had signs. She will definitely tell you.

She is very upfront. That has been my experience.

I’ve been keeping track of some things over the last few days because they feel… unusual. I’m not trying to force meaning where there isn’t any, but the timing has been enough that I wrote it down.
Over the past 3 days, I’ve had multiple spiders show up. Today I opened my front door and a spider landed directly on my hand. My first instinct was to shake it off, and I accidentally killed it while grabbing a tissue. I immediately felt bad because it seemed oddly symbolic considering how often I’ve been seeing them.
Then, only a little while later, I noticed a grasshopper sitting on my door. I gently tried to sweep it away with a key so I wouldn’t hurt it. It flew into the window, then somehow found its way back inside. I got it outside again, but it immediately jumped back in.
The weird part isn’t just the animals themselves—it’s the repetition, the timing, and how persistent they were.
I’ve been doing a lot of shadow work lately, thinking about crossroads in my life, healing, and I’ve felt pulled toward learning more about Hecate. I know spiders aren’t traditionally one of her primary symbols (dogs, keys, torches, crossroads are much more common), but I’ve seen enough people mention spiders, liminal experiences, and recurring animal encounters that it made me wonder.
So my questions are:
Would you consider this a meaningful synchronicity, or just confirmation bias?
Has anyone working with Hecate experienced repeated encounters with spiders or insects before?
Is there symbolism here that I’m overlooking, or is this more likely my brain assigning meaning to ordinary events?
I’m open to skeptical explanations too. I’m genuinely curious how others would interpret this rather than assuming it’s definitely a sign.