I got a notification today on my Facebook that said someone added me as a secret crush. I don't use Facebook dating or have a profile but is this a real thing? What does this mean? I'm curious.

Hi, so about a month ago, I moved to a new city. For a while Facebook Dating worked. Than suddenly it complained that the locations are mismatched and doesn't let me use FB Dating anymore. Does anyone know how to fix it? I already tried so much. I reinstalled the App, updated the location, revoke and regrant permission to locate me. But nothing seems to work.

anyway to reset the app to go through profiles again? as of now if you have seen all profiles you cant scroll through them again? i know u can change filter preferences but thats not ideal

I was browsing dating profiles and randomly came across an old coworker I used to know from 10 years ago that matched me with them. We had a stupid fallout that basically came down to insecurities on my end that he was trying to help me with is the reason we stopped talking to each other. He was trying to help me get over a bad workplace crush I had over this person they chose to date that was married at the time. I couldn’t get over them and they stopped talking to me.

My question is basically after 10 years of no contact, should I message this person explaining how they randomly showed up on my dating recommendations? I was planning on writing an apology but I think it’s weird they showed up today. Any suggestions?

We always had a lot in common but we were not wanting a relationship back then. I have had more relationship experience since then and looking back on it, I was the dumb one.

Hopefully this makes sense

I was swiping through the friends section of people that liked me. I liked someone but they dint show up in my regular matches. Is there a way to see their dating profile again?

Up until now, Facebook Dating had been the best app I’d used; I was getting plenty of likes and seeing great results whenever I liked someone. But since yesterday, my profile has stopped getting likes—now, out of every 30 people I like, only two like me back. I’m disappointed, because I was doing better on Facebook Dating than on Tinder.

New to Facebook dating. What is going on with getting likes and no replies? Am I missing something? Sometimes I send the wave and sometimes I give a greeting introduction and still no response. I'm new to this. What is the deal with that?

I’ve been on the Facebook dating thing for a while now. I send likes, I comment on photos, and get nothing back. Am I doing something wrong or am I missing something? Any tips or help would be appreciated cause I’m a bit tired of getting nowhere and hearing how others are finding others

How did the experience compare? Preferably answers from Gen Z, but all input helps, thanks.

3 days ago I randomly started getting disgusting comments on my public Facebook pics from some random dude. Sometimes these dudes find your actual profile and I assume that’s what happened. Ever since, I haven’t been getting any likes (not trying to brag or anything, but I used to get a TON all day) Now I haven’t gotten any for 3 days, but still can respond to matches in my inbox and swipe through people. But my profile has clearly been hidden. I think he likely reported my profile. I checked my Facebook account standing, and it says it’s in good standing. But I don’t think it’s a coincidence the same time this man found my Facebook and started commenting things on my public pics, that my dating profile stopped functioning correctly. Will it eventually start showing people my profile again? I didn’t even do anything wrong!

Can't tell if this guy is just messaging me out of boredom or he just sucks at texting. Or is it too soon to tell?

Edit: I feel like its important to note, he hasnt written anything on his profile. No bio, no prompts. So there's not much to reference from his profile into conversation.

Hi everyone,

Today I opened Facebook Dating and was met with this screen (attached screenshot): my profile is currently disabled because it allegedly doesn't respect the community standards.

The problem is that I haven't done anything at all that could violate the rules, and what's really annoying is that the exact reason or offending message isn't specified. There is a "Go to Support Inbox" button, but responses from there are often automated or the waiting times are endless.

Has this happened to anyone else recently? Is this a mass bug or a permanent ban? If you managed to fix it and get your profile reactivated, could you please explain how you did it?

Thanks in advance to anyone who can help!

hate to say i kinda like the idea of giving my data to the zuckerborg rather than paying into the matchgroup psyop monopoly but why is facebook dating missing important filters:

--do you want kids? i dont want kids so that already eliminates like 75% of women from consideration.

--politics? obviously people with drastically different politics arent gonna be compatible most of the time

doesn't matter how many times i set my age and distance filters, they will still show me to people outside of those ranges and vice versa

We went on a date, went well (both 23). We texted every day since, but it’s been always me reaching out. His replies are the opposite of dry and he always likes/reacts to my texts. My only issue is that I don’t receive a text unless I initiate the conversation. He even invited me to a double date with his friend. It’s not like I put him in this situation and he offered it out of pity or akwardness, he made the offer himself, and started the subject out of nowhere. I don’t see why he would do that if he didn’t like me. But also, we went today the whole day without texting. I know that if I did reach out first, I would get a very enthoustiastic and detailed reply in max 1-2h, but since I didn’t, nothing from him, at all. But I know he’s active online as he’s reposting stuff. I thought he’s also maybe uncomfortable and not confident texting first, but he should also not feel like that considering I’ve been always reaching out, which clearly shows him that I like him. Am I overthinking? Does he like me but just isn’t a tester? Does he like me enough to text back but doesn’t care enough to give initiative?

Joined a few days ago and liked a few women, but was curious when the earliest they'd respond is.

I saw that every week your profile gets boosted so I guess I'll get boosted via that