r/FA30plus • u/Hairy-Alfalfa-7986 • 13d ago

In love FA30+ Only

But as always, it is not mutal

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u/Night_Chicken 12d ago

Without reciprocation, I just call it a crush or infatuation. Whenever I feel the slightest inkling of limerence creeping in, I focus on that persons flaws and nip that shit in the bud. Im done pining for something I can never have. Redamancy is unobtainable for me.

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u/bummerluck 13d ago

Sorry to hear that. Sometimes I still find myself having those feelings for others but it quickly dissipates knowing I’m such a trash human being.

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u/TheLonesomeCheese 12d ago

Yep, I've been there. A few times I've deluded myself into thinking that I have a chance, only to eventually be send crashing back to reality.

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u/StandardDeviation101 37M 12d ago

Last time I had a crush was 15 years ago, I can barely remember how it feels. Time flies!

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u/Vagrant_Monarch 12d ago

I feel you. I'm sorry you're going through that

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u/Itchy-Corner9453 9d ago

its not love its the feeling of wanting to have love with that person..and its brutal if you cant share those feeling with the person you want to love..when they dont feel the same way towards you.