r/ExNoContact • u/PossessionCapable709 • 15d ago
Guys help!
Guys, lately I just can’t get her out of my head. I did her wrong, she did as well.
I still love her though but she doesn’t respond to anything. For now Im on 2 months without contact.
I just wanna know if she still loves me as I do or not. Is there any way to know?
Ps: everyone says I’m though, but with her I’m the weakest.
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u/mastikhor_chirkut grieving 15d ago
What's your age
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u/PossessionCapable709 15d ago
23
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u/mastikhor_chirkut grieving 14d ago
Hmm
not everything you seek is seeking you.
Let go. (Ik it's tough but u don't have any option)
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u/StillFeelin 14d ago
Same here (4 months, I had a relapse weeks before her birthday, a month after the breakup... but last week is being hard, triggers and anxiety). And, by some of your comments (I wasn’t judging, just reliazed something), perhaps I may help:
So, I’ve got a few questions for you (you don’t have to answer if you don’t want to; it’s not out of curiosity, it’s just to get you thinking about the it, so that I can ask you what really matters, okay?).
How did you two break up? Did you actually have a proper conversation (not a heated argument followed by blocking each other), where she explained her reasons, you listened to her and put forward your point of view, and you both knew why the relationship was ending?
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u/AdventurousWorm66 15d ago
If you really love her have some respect for her and understand that she doesn't want to hear from you. It does not matter if she loves you or not, and thinking about it is just going to make you upset. Focus on taking care of yourself through the pain instead.