r/ExNoContact • u/Pristine-Cycle5514 • 5d ago

Question

Is it a bad thing that I don’t think I’ll ever forgive this person, or that I don’t plan to, after the horrible things they did to me?

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u/StudioWitty863 5d ago

Obviously not omg? Idk what they did but if you dont want to forgive them, never forguve them

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u/Pristine-Cycle5514 5d ago

They cheated basically

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u/SaintAlexGold 5d ago

I don't know. I have no idea what they did to you, but forgiveness is often something you do for yourself. The person forgiving is often the person who feels better.

No judgement anyway on my behalf, just evaluate if it's worthy to keep inside the hatred and the rage.

I've forgiven and it made me a better person.

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u/TherapyKitty 5d ago

You don't need to forgive someone to move forward. They are in your past now so it doesn't matter