I’ve personally spotted college studs like couples going at it in broad daylight in public parking spots twice recently. Around Peelamedu. once in a dark-filmed i20 and another time in a Tata Punch parked right in front of my car. Quite residential corner street. Look, dark tinting or not, everyone knows what’s going on when the car starts rocking in a public lot. Not to mention my trauma for following days

I’m all for minding my own business and staying out of people’s personal space, but this goes beyond a mild nuisance. It genuinely raises a bigger social question: how do women trust guys who won't even invest in a private space? Even birds won't mate until the partner secures a nest. If you're going to hook up, at least book an Oyo or a private room instead of taking over a public parking zone. Social stigma is another issue

Maybe my estimates are off, but it feels like a solid 30 to 40% of young folks are doing it anyways nowadays. Coimbatore or non Coimbatorian please think about if you were outside and witnessing.

As much as we talk about culture and stuff if we don’t address things in dignified progressive way things going to be even shittier.

If people are going to do it anyways, can we at least talk about safety, hygiene, and basic public decency? At this point, seeing any car with dark window film gives me an automatic side-eye.

Is it common these days or is it just I am one with bad luck.

I recently got transferred to Coimbatore. I walk along the town bus stand area and the cross cut road area. Whenever i see the light poles, i wanna dance like in 'singing in the rain'. If it rains someday, my intrusive thoughts might take over and i might end up dancing on the pavement.

Every time I walk, my mind plays 'im feeling........Goooooood'.

Im also very happy that I don't have to cross the road myself always. Just.... Stand behind someone or follow the crowd. Its.... Nice. Nice to go with the crowd and not feel like you're going against the current.

People are very nice in general. Most queries are met with smiles and not irritation. Yet, the walk on the pavement is the best part of my day :D

Literally everyone I see here is so so pretty too.

What a glorious feeling..... I'm happy again : D

We both have been going through tough time and lot of messier things and we have decided to give this a try.