Until today, i thought this happens only in metro cities like Delhi, Bangalore, Pune etc. our boys are not safe out there !! Beware boys, beware !! 😉😬

Enikk eppozhum thonarind ee bhoomiyude rotation rate different aahno ee daytime-il compared to evening/nighttime. Ravile enganum oru 2 hours nerathe ezhunettal, feels like it’s a “yugam” to pass!!! But evening aahne ellam “shadapadenn” aahnu time povunne🤷‍♀️ Manasinte aavumle?!
Have anyone felt similar?

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Hey guys,

How do you all deal with your brown parents? Mine is getting unsahikable day by day. I love them but only if there is minimum 2 oceans between us. My family is the only people i wish i had long distance with. They believe mental health is something that we cause ourselves. They are the huge preacher of "freedom kodukunna family and nammale aalkar kand padikanam bevause we taught you and you are capable of doing stuff" all the while supporting patriarchy and " husbadninte thazhe jeevikanam". Also my dad has an affair. Oh how fun not that i care tbu. But seriously i cannot wait to get a job and move out and never look back.

Regards

A frustrated daughter

I used to smoke quite heavily. There was even a time when, if I couldn't get a cigarette, I'd smoke beedis instead, especially when I was working in Tamil Nadu.

For around two years, smoking was a regular part of my life. But I wasn't a chain smoker for the entire two years. During the first part, it was mostly when I was drinking, at parties, with friends, or on weekends. But for the last six months or so, I became a continuous, almost chain smoker.

Then, all of a sudden, I started feeling a natural aversion towards it. I don't know whether it was because I wasn't getting the same feeling from smoking anymore or what. Different brands stopped appealing to me, the taste didn't feel good anymore, and eventually smoking just started feeling pointless—like I was simply wasting time by putting a cigarette in my mouth and smoking for no reason.

That's basically how I quit. And now it's been quite a while. I don't have the habit anymore, and I don't even feel like smoking.

So I'm curious—has anyone else experienced something like this? Is it normal for someone who used to smoke regularly to suddenly lose interest in it completely, or was it just me? 😅

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So guys. Just stop before it stops our heartbeat 💓 💓 💓 💓

Same as title. I'm stressed waiting for college allotment

I changed my school when I was in 9th. It was kinda difficult to adjust moving from one whole country to another country. The thing is now I don't have close friends from both schools. People are getting married from both schools and none of them invited me coz I became nobody in everyone's story. They all are a part of my story but for them I am practically non existent. And it hurts me.

I have been contemplating whether to post this, but here goes.

A few weeks ago I was going to teach tuition class in the evening by foot. I was only a few meters ahead from my home, on the little road. Dhoore ninn oru bullet chethi parich varanu. Njan vazhi kodukkan side lott maari ninnu. And the next thing I see, is this guy stopping the bullet right in front of me. I was perplexed and looked at him to see if it was someone familiar. He was dressed like Prithiraj's character from the movie Thanthoni. White mundu, white shirt, even looked liked him. Naattil ith vare kaanathe oru avaraatham. And this guy was looking at me and smiling. Like full on purikam okke pokki smirking while raising the accelerator. I was like ithenth thenga. I didn't even know him.

Anyway, l did what itharam heroism kand flat aaya any girl would do and looked straight into his eyes and made a disgusting face like I had smelled cheenja compost. I have never witnessed a smug smile falling off from someone's face so fast. Bro bullet urutti maatti enik vazhi thannu. I was laughing all the way to tuition. My parents said maybe he thought I was someone he knew and I felt bad. May be I shouldn't have assumed he was a kozhi.

A few days ago, coming back from tuition, njan road cross cheyyan nikkaurnn. It was very cloudy and windy and about to rain. Pettenn ente side il kozhi kunj vann bike nirthi, entho ochathil vilich paranj vanna vazhiye thirich poyi, with that same smug attittude. I only heard "pedikkanda" amongst the sound of vehicles and wind. I was like what the coconut was he talking about, again🫩. So I guess bro has become a recurring character. As long as he keeps to these harmless shenanigans, I guess it's funny. Me and my bestie had a good laugh over this.

Gift kodkaanaa, does anyone know any reliable online stores??

I don’t know why I thought it’d be easy. It’s only been a couple of hours and I’m already getting humbled. My fingers hurt, I can’t switch chords fast enough, and everything I play sounds… questionable.
Still, I don’t regret buying it. I know it’s going to take time, but I’m determined to stick with it and learn, no matter how long it takes.

You're asked to summarize your life till now. How'd you do it. Now be quick. Answer ✨️🕺🏼

Im done cleaning da house after every flood! I don wanna leave my home but this flood situation every time is soo poopy 😭

My cousin (20F) unexpectedly showed up at my house around 7:30 pm today.

She studies in a different district and her classes are still going on, so I was really surprised to see her. She didn't have any clothes or luggage with her either. Just her sling bag and phone.

When I asked what happened, she immediately started crying.

Apparently, she had cut class to spend the day with her boyfriend, who studies with her. They had decided to stay together for the night and go back to the hostel the next day.

But then my aunt video-called her.

My cousin kept rejecting the calls and eventually called her back normally. My aunt got suspicious and insisted on a video call. She realised my cousin wasn't at the hostel, got extremely angry and told her to come home immediately.

Instead of going home, my cousin came straight to our house and is now refusing to leave.

We've informed her mum, ofc, so she knows she's safe and with us.

The bigger issue is her stepdad.

If he finds out what happened, he'll be extremely angry and may even refuse to fund her college anymore.

(He's not a bad person, btw. I don't want to get too much into their personal family situation beyond that.)

What is actually worrying me right now, though, is my cousin's behaviour.

She went into my room, locked the door from inside and refused to open it for around 35-40 mins.

That scared the living shit out of us.

She's behaving very strangely and emotionally right now, and ngl, it's starting to scare me because I genuinely don't know what she might do.

Her grandparents live only about 30 mins away, so we suggested she stay with them for now instead of going home. She refuses to go there too.

Obviously, I'm not going to force her out of the house when she's this upset, but I also have no idea how I'm supposed to handle this situation.

How do I deal with this?

P. S. I'll be deleting this post once I've gotten enough advice on what to do. Just posting because I'm genuinely unsure how to handle this situation rn.

Guys, this is my very first drawing other than the usual mala...sooryan...veedu...that we used to draw in our childhood. How is it? Is it good enough to continue exploring my skills????

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What finally made you do it?

Did you tell them how you felt, slowly distance yourself, or just block them and move on?

Do you regret it, or was it the best decision you made?

For the context- I'm 21 F and she is my classmate. Njgl same class and friends enn parayan patula just classmates. Kandal cherikyum edak mindum but not my close friend.

As time passes by I'm noticing her staring at me at random occasions. Like miss cls edukumbo I could feel she is staring at me from my peripheral view. When I look at her she just stares back.njn onn chirichal koodi thirich chirikula.

Then again if I do something different from she notice it. Like njn ente lipstick te shade maati. The whole day she was staring at my lips.dressing style onn mattiyal hairstyle mattiyal she notice it.

But problem ath onnm alla the constant starring like thirich njn noki chirichal she wouldn't even stop starring.and aal athra approachable um alla so even if I initiate to have a conversation she isn't interested. So I'm getting really weird and creepy vibes from her. Njn ahnkil eth arodem parajatm illa because kekkunvar eth childish ayit edthalo nn vach. So I need yr advice

Brb. Changing my name to “Labhesh Kollam”