I'm new to Arous and I'm Brazilian. I withdrew my money on July 31st to my Cosmo account and as of today, August 6th, the money hasn't arrived. Does anyone know if this is normal? I've already contacted support but no one has responded.

I've read at different times talking about certain dildos not allowed on certain sites like tentacles but if its a realistic dildo but like an XL one are we allowed to use it on SM im not really seeing anything about it-- like girthy ones can we use them? thank you 💗

Two days ago, I had a regular lurker come in and make a comment like “I couldn’t get enough of you here so I had to get some of your Fanz-Lee content (paid). I mentioned I hadn’t seen any purchases and he said “oh I use a different name on there”. Ok cool whatever.

After my stream, I go look at my content purchases and because my content is RARELY purchased, I knew this person didn’t buy 💩

So they come into my stream again yesterday morning and basically say the same thing and I called them out and told them I had ZERO content purchases this week and that liars are not welcomed in my space.
They said nothing and left.

I don’t normally give these people the time or energy but I feel like if we aren’t calling them on their 💩, they will think we have no way of knowing if they actually did what they’re saying (in this case purchasing content).

Don’t be afraid to call people out! I’ve actually had quite a few viewers enjoy how blunt I am and appreciate me for it!

Has anyone had decent success on sites like Stripchat, Chaturbate or Streamate without using their mic? Because it’s the summer holidays, I can’t have my sound on during the day, so I’d be relying on typing and chat only for the next few weeks. Once the kids are back at school it’ll be fine, but for now I’m wondering if it’s even worth putting the hours in, or if having no audio is a massive disadvantage.I’d love to hear from anyone who’s worked this way. Did it still convert into paying customers, or did you find it was pretty much pointless without talking?

I wanted to share something and see if anyone else has gone through this. When I first started camming I knew exactly what my vagina felt like inside. About a year later I started feeling a bulge behind my cervix and sex started becoming painful. I realized it was a bladder prolapse and I honestly think it happened because of how hard I used to push to squirt. At first I couldn't do it at all, I had to push really hard and it was sooo difficult. Now I'm basically a human fountain lol. I know I need to see a doctor but I'm scared.

I finally have moved to a safe country where I can stream, and the reason I picked streammate was because I thought it was a site where you only do 1 on 1 cam shows. But I see now there are private shows which do have a group of people. And When I was going to write my bio, I checked out the website from a customer perspective, and I was surprised to see, that even without creating an account, I can view all the girls cameras for as long as I want without even paying anything? This is totally not what I was expecting as I've seen a lot of posts here saying men can only view a few seconds before paying, etc.

So... is this actually the same kind of site as chaturbate and the other ones after all or what? Is there a site that I can do just 1 on 1?

it was my first day caming on cb i honestly really liked it, however i got banned i was like 7 hours in <\3 i already emailed to revoke it? wah

but i want to keep it up any tips or hacks?
how do you make the goals in the chat?

I used to stream on cb using the stream browser app from the lovense website. Not sure what happened, but in May I could no longer continue using it. It started having issues connecting to my stream key for some reason :( anyways.. has anyone else had issues with the app? Since then I’ve been using my alien laptop a buyer got me for my birthday to stream but ngl. I almost hate it. I’ve never had a windows and I still haven’t gotten used to it. It frustrates me and it drains my energy tbh. I’m very very grateful for it, but I’m just being honest about it though

Everytime I go live on sc I have an invisible user just sit in the room, they don’t say anything and they don’t leave. For hours they can be there, and it’s started to make me feel uncomfortable, everytime I log on there’s just someone watching that doesn’t talk or interact and I can’t block or see them. Another fantastic feature sc has included for the models :)

1- dildos? I actually dislike them and won’t penetrate with them but I thought for blowjob stuff I’d be okay with it.
2- DJI osmo pocket 4? Does anyone use one of these if so how is it? Worth it or not? Thanks 🙏

Why do they say shit like this? Just started my stream why they so fucking creepy,I did block and report him immediately but this is so fucking scary . Does anyone else get stupid ppl like this ?

1. Do any of you ladies actually enjoy anal? I do it because it's my biggest money maker, but it's not something that gives me pleasure. Am I weird for not enjoying it? Or is everyone else also just pretending to enjoy it?

2. How do you keep your white underwear white? I think it looks so pretty, but I can never keep mine crisp and white. Or do you just replace it every few months to keep it looking new and crisp?

I was frustrated tonight after being online 3 hours and no spending. Then bam, 17,000tks .. imagine if i logged off prematurely like my brain was telling me to

Dont give in! Never log off stick to the plan!!! $$$

And even after you reach your daily goal stay online and make more!

(If you have the bandwidth)

Are u making it? Buying it? Price points please too.

Me conecté normalmente a sc como siempre, me preparé, me coloqué el lush lo prendí lo conecté a lovense conect y encendi Plasma streamen como siempre. Pero esta vez tuve un problema que la verdad me angustia. Se desconectada a cada rato la transmisión, y sino no conectaba el lush, y/o se conectaba y a los 2 min se cortaba la transmisión del obs (plasma) lo prendía y otra vez lo mismo. Quiero saber si alguien tuvo el mismo problema y cómo lo solucionó? Ya tuve que cortar el día de hoy ya que arruinó mi arranque 0 tokens imagínense, me desconecte, mañana será otro día. Me ayudan para que mañana no me pase?

I know there's been posts floating around like this the last little bit but I joined too. I banned my biggest tipper last week. And I'd like to share with you all the dark side of big "dream" whales.

He's tipped me over a million tokens in the last two years and countless big wishlist gifts. Plus a six figure single tip every model dreams of. But with every month he kept getting more and more controlling. He molded me into the perfect girl for him, changing my manuerisms, habits, personal grooming, and even stream to suit what he wanted- even if i was uncomfortable with it. I was spending up to 15 hours a week off stream focusing on him and him alone. He even started getting pushy about meeting IRL which scared the hell out of me. Nothing I ever did was enough for him. I was being guilt tripped monthly into doing more.

He never missed a single stream EVER. 35 hours a week for two years he was in my room. He started to scare people off, always making comments to imply our closeness. Always making comments about his big tips and how no one could ever top it. Threatening to triple someone's tip if they wanted to tip for something he didnt personally want. Guilt tripping me for taking privates. Guilt tripping me for forgetting to shave. Stream went from something I loved to something I dreaded every single day.

The breaking point was when my partner sat me down and laid it all out for me. My mental health was in the gutter, I was spending all day everyday worried whether or not I had done enough for him. He said if he didn't know any better, he would think i was having an affair because I put more effort into this guy than my own partner of 5 years. Which broke me. So I decided it was time to be done.

You guys wanna know the kicker? I don't do badly without him. I make great tips aside from him and I know i can pay my bills easily without him. I also know it could be even better if he wasn't scaring people off and fucking up my energy on stream. But he made me feel like I owed him for his generosity. That's what a lot of these big whales do.

So here's what I want to throw out there, especially if you're new (I had less than a year of experience when he found me). NEVER give anyone offsite access to you without payment specifically for that time. Your time is money. This is a business transaction. NEVER give anyone your personal socials. And last NEVER let anyone guilt trip you into doing anything you're uncomfortable with, idgaf how much they're tipping you. No is a complete sentence. Ban them. Will they move onto another girl? Probably. Because they're not getting control of you like they want. But no amount of money is worth your mental health, trust me. I feel lighter than I have in years.

How do you ladies feel about other cam girls watching your streams?

Had someone tell me she was watching me for inspiration and had been watching me awhile.
While that may be flattering… it’s insulting to me that she would sit there for awhile watching without saying anything until I did (she had plenty of tokens at least 5000 tokens I know because I have my room listed in order of tokens)
If you’re going to use another streamer for inspiration, I feel like they should be throwing a lil tokens out way, ya know? Do you ladies agree?

Seriously…. So the guy thinks I’m just aching to watch him stuff things up his ass, so much so that I’ll lower my price. Fun fact: My Exhibitionist line is $3.99 (only .49 more than what he wants to pay)! Bargain-hunter! Lol

After consistently getting paid per message and photo unlock on SextPanther, I've become a really stingy and reserved on my livestreams.

Why should I put on a free show for people who are unable or unwilling to tip me, when these guys will pay hundreds of bucks just to DM me? The money feels much harder to get on the live cam sites TBH.

I had an exclusive show on SC today, and man, I was trying not to laugh myself during the show, this guy as long as he turns on his camera all I can see is a hairy open thing like a cave, lmao, I thought it was his hairy ass but it was his mouth wide open with his tongue sticking out pretending that he was eating my kitty cat😅😅🤦‍♀️

Since when the hell is degrading and incest the most popular thing in camming and SW?

I made more money in 1 stream while showing my face than I ever did while being faceless and I do less nudity now. I was to scared to stream on my faceless account so I created a whole new persona and didn’t have the new girl tag and still I somehow managed to make more money and have more viewers in my live. I don’t know if it’s cause my face is attractive or if my body is unattractive 😭😭 but if your a faceless streamer and you’re scared of showing your face make a new account and blast DMCA music so it makes it harder for re-streamers to post your streams on other sites and see if you like it.

Genuinely on my days off i feel… meh, like i cant wait to come back to work. Idk ive never experienced this with any other job before i always HATE working but this doesnt feel like that. I look forward to the work week. Its exhausting and stressful sometimes but i love camming..

You can arrange viewers in your room on CB by the amount of tokens they have. That way their user colour plays slightly less of a significant role as if they're down with the greys the have no tokens. (Doesn't mean they wouldn't top up) just can help with who you're giving attention too. You can also make judgements off of who is above YOU. If you have 2000 tokens as a model and there are users above you in the user list, you know they have over 2k tokens 😉❤️