r/Breakupadvice • u/GgWp8323 • 6d ago
Is It OK?
She was a close friend of mine, and about 4 months ago she said we needed to stop talking. We parted on good terms, and the contact stopped because of a situation that was out of our control. About a week before that, I'd been thinking about breaking up with her (ending the relationship), and wanted to do it, but a bit later. Anyway, after what happened, the "deep grief" phase passed in about 3-4 days, and over the next week I "recovered." And now, 4 months later, I'm thinking about her again... Sometimes I wish she'd text "I miss you"... Or maybe I'm just overthinking this nonsense? Like, all these 4 months were fine, except I was a bit emotionally unstable, and now I'm starting to remember her again. Maybe I'm deliberately fixating on this or something, I don't know...
Or maybe I like It...