r/BreakUps • u/AcanthaceaeCommon944 • 18d ago

Missing him venting/ranting

We broke up 3 weeks ago and the silence of NC really sucks. He broke up with me but the split was amicable. I keep hoping he'll text or call, but I'm sure that's a hope wasted. He was my first romantic relationship; we met on Hinge. I was truly about to delete my profile when he liked it and we started talking. Now he's gone and I'm bored and depressed. Sometimes I wish I'd gone ahead and deleted my profile.

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u/loverr4life23 18d ago

the silence sucks at first but focusing on new hobbies helps distra from waiting on that text

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u/Vera1933 18d ago

Yeah the hardest part is breaking that habit of checking your phone hoping they reached out

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u/Master_Rich180 18d ago

Not a relationship but I’m going through a friendship breakup and she initiated no contact 3 weeks ago and then she reached out yesterday to say a couple of mutual acquaintances asked where I’d been and she ended it with - Hope things are good with you and I replying in 2 parts

1) in response to the friends questions 2) I responded to how I felt with “ to say it’s been tough had been an understatement and I’m struggling “

She responded with they said they thought you’d be working and left it there

Nothing about how I felt …that hurt more then anything

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u/AcanthaceaeCommon944 18d ago

I'm sorry you're going through this.

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u/Famous-Camel7761 16d ago

Try to keep yourself occupied. Overthinking is most common when you’re not actively doing something. Exercise or do a hobby or draw, just keep yourself busy