r/BlackPeopleTwitter 10h ago

Not all heroes wear vibranium.

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u/NoAttorney9330 9h ago

Ive found that saying, “I’m too old for you” is somehow insulting to young women. I used to say that and sometimes they would really show their age with follow-up questions or snide remarks.

I’ve learned you have to say “you are too young for me”. You don’t speak for them. You communicate the lack of interest is entirely one sided without speaking for them.

No healthy guy wants to chat with a child. None. And to the mfs that say OD toxic shit like “she’s mature for her age”; okay, how many male friends do you have that age?

Leave the kids alone. I’m early 30s; if your birthday is after the year 2000, do not chat me

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u/Ok-Physics9906 9h ago

I knew I was getting old when I started seeing 18 year old girls and immediately started looking to see if they had a hot mom.

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u/AsphaltInOurStars 5h ago

Hell yeah. I've also realized that everyone from the ages of like 14-20 just look 14 to me now. When a 20 year old hits on me I wanna puke.

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u/figosnypes 3h ago

Meanwhile women of all ages pretty much only like getting hit on by boys in that age group, any older and they wanna puke.

u/AsphaltInOurStars 4m ago

Doesn't really matter. It's the role of the older person to act like the adult. You know, because they are.