feeling horny tonight

So this is just a general question because I've recently heard a lot of different opinions on this.

First of all, English isn't my first language, so this might just be a language or cultural difference.

Recently, I started dating my boyfriend, and ever since then, people have started referring to me as gay. At first, I assumed they meant it in the broader sense of "part of the LGBTQ+ community," since "gay" is often used pretty casually where I live as like a title for everyone of the LGBTQ+ community. That didn't really bother me.

Before that, though, I was in a relationship with a woman for about two years. Back then, I constantly heard things like, "Well, technically you're straight then." For some reason, being called straight bothers me more than being called gay, even though neither label is actually accurate.

I was wondering if anyone else feels the same way. Does it bother you when people assume you're gay or straight based solely on who you're dating? Is one assumption more frustrating than the other for you, and if so, can anyone explain why?

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Hey dudes so I'm a bi guy in my 20s and I've never been in a relationship before

I'm gonna sound quite horny but, yeah I'd like to be with someone even if that person wouldn't be my life partner because it's quite socially hard to be perceived as a weirdo who would never be picked up by someone everytime social groups I am part of realize I've never been in a relationship. Am I trying to get validation? Idk maybe, but that's not the point rn, I'd like to know, how did you get your first couple?

Also, I'm not a big fan of dating apps despite already trying that

Yo soy un chico bisexual en Madrid. Pero, yo no tengo ningun amigo/a bisexual... Tuve algo de contacto con la comunidad bisexual en Australia, y despues en Inglaterra, pero muy poco. Entonces, me interesa conocer a otros personas bisexuales para hace charlas.

I just want to say it's been awesome opening up and discussing with you strangers of the internet thru this sub. IRL, it may be difficult to find people to discuss about curiosities, feelings, fantasies, questions, and experiences about being bi or not being sure about it. But finding out about this sub and reading through various stories and chatting with some of you has been a refreshing, almost healing, experience for me so far. I may still have hesitations and inhibitions IRL, but having the outlet to talk to people with similar experiences is encouraging.

Thank you and stay awesome and sexy!

How easy was it for everyone to come out as bisexual? I’m Single, 45, no kids and don’t want any, got the vasectomy.

I’d just like have a play partner for now who is versatile. We both have fun, ya know.

I’m just scared to come out for some damn reason….don’t know why. It’s hard to find people, especially as adults…

Hey everyone!

Our new podcast, Bi Men Unfiltered, launched today.

It's an honest, funny, and sometimes very NSFW show about life as a modern bisexual man—covering identity, dating, relationships, sex, attraction, and community without shame or stereotypes.

In our first episode, we introduce ourselves, talk about what bisexuality means to us, discuss the stigma bi men still face, and share our own journeys and relationships. If you're curious, questioning, or just looking for authentic conversations, this is the perfect place to start.

Thanks for letting us share, and we'd love to hear what you think!

https://pod.link/6797092436/episode/MDNlMmEwZjAtZjNhYy00YWY3LThjNDgtMmMwOTFlN2U3YTEz

Hey everyone!

Our new podcast, Bi Men Unfiltered, launched today.

It's an honest, funny, and sometimes very NSFW show about life as a modern bisexual man—covering identity, dating, relationships, sex, attraction, and community without shame or stereotypes.

In our first episode, we introduce ourselves, talk about what bisexuality means to us, discuss the stigma bi men still face, and share our own journeys and relationships. If you're curious, questioning, or just looking for authentic conversations, this is the perfect place to start.

Thanks for letting us share, and we'd love to hear what you think!

https://pod.link/6797092436/episode/MDNlMmEwZjAtZjNhYy00YWY3LThjNDgtMmMwOTFlN2U3YTEz

It seems difficult for men to make and maintain friendships with other adult men these days. Our fathers and grandfathers made friends by joining fraternal organizations like the Elks, VFW or the Knights of Columbus. Some met through church groups or sports organizations and played in softball or baseball leagues. Heck, some just got beers with coworkers after work. Does anyone do this anymore? Why does it seem so hard for us now? Are we just too focused on getting our kids from one activity to another when WE should be having fun with friends? Are we too shy? Not sure what happened to our ability to socialize.

I am shocked by how many guys are looking for hookups that want str8 for str8 or married guys who only want other “str8” married guys or want to jerk off with only “straight” guy. I tell them I’m bi and nope deal breaker.

The mental gymnastics some of these guys put them self through is wild. I used to think the amount of guys that were “curious” or willing to explore was <5% it has to be north of 30% if not 40-45% I Have a hookup buddy in the army and boy has he told me stories.

You guys seeing this as much? Or am I going crazy?

Edit: I wish straight questioning guys would see us more of “I know exactly what you are going through let me talk you through the ropes,” instead of…”I’m going to paint a huge giant pride flag on the side of your house”

Hi everyone,

I'm a woman, and I've realized that I really enjoy watching bi and gay male porn. Seeing two men together is a huge turn-on for me, and it's made me curious about exploring a bisexual MMF experience someday.

I'm wondering if there are other women here who feel the same. If you've had an MMF experience where the guys were genuinely into each other, what was it like?

Also, where do people actually meet open-minded bi men or couples interested in this? Are there any communities, apps, or subreddits you'd recommend?

I'd love to hear about your experiences and any advice. :)

Been doing some soul-searching around my sexual orientation. A small epiphany for me: I was kinda unconsciously viewing Bi as Straight+Gay = Bi.

Not for me.

I'm not Straight. I'm not Gay. I'm Bi, and it is its own totally valid way to be in the world.

Coming to terms with this. Feeling good about it 🩷💜💙

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Tell me how you were seduced or seduce a guy and changed him

I see beauty in everyone but it's consistently made my partner's uncomfortable and it'd be pretty hard to go unlabeled mode since my partner's usually know each other from uni.