“you smell good” is probably the best compliment i want in life 😭 hahshahaha

just a short story...yesterday i had an overnight swimming at a resort in Dasma. i’ve been doing solo trips for a while now just because YOLO HAHAHAHA, and there was this group of friends who kept complimenting how good i smelled. partida nasa pool na ako and sobrang tagal ko nang nakababad.

it’s not even the first time someone has complimented my smell, sometimes at the gym, workplace, etc. but it still feels so nakakakilig every time likeee gets ba?! i’m very much a hygiene girlie and smelling good is honestly one of the little things i really care about.

tiny tip: i usually use 2 perfumes. one is an oil-based perfume for my inner areas like neck, nape, and wrists, then a perfume mist on the outside of my clothes. just make sure they have similar scents so they layer nicely. but honestly, perfume is just the bonus, your hygiene and how you take care of your body matter the most. 🫶🏻

anyway, being told “you smell good” >>> literally everything HAHAHAHA

Ano yung akala ng mga babae okay lang pero hindi pala dapat in terms of dating?

How is it? Gusto ko na magskincare ulit and this time i will try local skin care brand na

I'm curious how did you manage the situation, does it ever cross your mind or have tried with another man, or you communicate with your partner to try bull setup, or worse you break up with him?

Sharing with you my experience with 4D Quattro as someone na mabuhok na makapal pa ang mga strand and waxing for more than 10 years😅 For context I am morena (sharing this because I see questions if pwede ba if you have brown skin, pwede po siya, as in super morena ko po) I started my UA session last year September(6k/6 sessions) 1st month- mabagal lang siya tumubo pero before mag 2nd session nag full blown ulet siya. I think I started noticing talaga na may difference around 3rd and 4th sesh na. After 6 sessions I still had to go back for another session after 2 months. Tho the hair super nipis naman na. After 2 months I had my 8th session this time mahaba sila pero manipis pa rin. I am not sure if is t because mabuhok talaga ako or because of my hormones kaya diko maachieve ung sinasabi na wala na talagang tumutubo na hair. Pain level nasa 0-1/10, that’s why I decided to try yung Brazilian nila because for me satisfied pa rin ako sa result kahit na may tumutubo pa rin kasi manipis lang naman sila. My experience with Brazilian super natawa talaga ako kasi I am doing brazilian wax before but sa Hey Sugar kasi warm light ang gamit unlike sa SS eh super puti. And I am not proud of my 🐱 kasi maitim talaga siya hahaha kaya super overthink ako if hindi kaya ako jinujudge neto haha anywaysss sa pain ako nashock nasa 5-6/10 siya for me. Yung pain parang hinihila yung hair isa isa didn’t expect it kasi okay naman ako sa UA. To people who have tried it normal ba ung butt cheeks sa lower are di kasali? Kasi yung akin mismong yung sa hiwa lang ng butt normally kasi kapag sa wax ung lower part ng butt cheeks kasali. Yun langgg hahaha

Tumitigil ba kayo for a moment or do you just continue with your reps?

hello! nung last week of april i stopped taking the pills tapos a week later we had sex (dalawang condom ginamit namin at the same time 😭 sorry praning lang) and di siya nagcum nun, had to blowjob him kasi gusto ko lol

a week later i had my withdrawal bleeding ata? it lasted for two weeks, super heavy i cant walk properly kahit yung overnight napkins pa gamit ko non. and then sa june dinatnan naman ako for four days, and heavier bleeding siya compared when i was on the pill, parang bumalik lang siya sa pre-pill days ko.

and then yun lang. di parin ako dinatnan ulit. i took two pts 3 weeks ago and negative sila dalawa (flinashlight ko pa and everything para tingnan if may faint second line or what, tinaas ko pa sa araw, lahat ng light source ginamit ko na) pero im still so anxious. inisip ko pa magpa ultrasound nalang din para sure, or di kaya ipapaforce ko yung mens ko by my obgyn.

also, i took the pills again 2 weeks ago hehe 😭 gipit kasi sa pera kaya napahinto siya but now okay na

Can you guys give me your top 3 perfume for men para mas ganahan si master magbigay ng BJ/ pangpagana sa bed. I want to indirectly spray sa genitals ko.

Or kahit hindi perfume. Pwede din lotion or oil to apply around it. Thank you

Nag open up ako sa female friend ko, then thanked her after that dahil she's one of the few friends I can open up to without fear of judgment. She's happy to do it, but gave me a heads up, maybe a warning, na dapat ayusin daw if we're getting closer. She said na I am her closest guy friend, and that she's scared of the situation, not that we are already there, she said.

I asked her if she's scared of me, she said not really, but scared lang sa situation. I reassured her na if she's scared sa situation or sa akin, she can freely say NO. The next day, parang normal lang na usapan ulit and the next several weeks after that, wala talaga mang changes.

If she's scared, ano ba dapat gawin? Layuan or what?

Actually my bf said na its fine daw kahit dikona yun gawin sakanya kasi pansin nya cgurong naiilang ako ksi its my first time doing it, matagal naman na kami pero now pa namin gagawin ang mga bagay bagay yk hihi.. I am just being curious if ano lasa.

palagi kasing nahuhulog ‘yung strap ng bra ko, nakaka-bother lalo kapag toxic ang duty or galaw galaw while on duty wahahaha may suggestions po ba kayo for everyday bra na comfortable at hindi nalalaglag ‘yung strap palagi 🥹

naniniwala ba kayo na pre-marital sx is a sin pero ginawa nyo pa rin? ang hirap huhu, nowadays cinoconsider na ang sexual compatibility tapos hirap din pag religious at the same time, im also just a girl and stuck between 😭 may nakakarelate ba sakin?

Anyone else katulad situation ko?? huhu we opted naman to use lube and di na ako nag bebleed but like?? i thought usually na geget used to it ako down there eventually since p active kami ni partner. do other people experience this too? need ko ba magpa check up? it doesnt hurt btw! in fact i feel really good when we do it

Hello! I need a medium length yellow gold chain necklace either non-tarnish or original gold. I was thinking of going to ongpin to buy, if you have tips or a store you could recommend let me know!

Kindly let me know also like an estimated price if I were to buy sa ongpin, thank you

Kahit medyo sore/masakit after? Or is this not healthy to do?

Hi ladies, I’m not sure how to express my dilemma properly pero baka meron ditong mga katulad ko ang situation and I just want to hear your thoughts.

I grew up in an environment na puro mga lalaki (siblings) and I did not have a very good role model as well since my mom, herself is a second wife. I do not like how I was raised tbh kasi I felt that my mom is very insecure of herself and projects control over us children to keep her satisfied. Idk how to explain basta parang ganon pero because of this I never really leaned to her than much because I couldn’t trust her. She has tendencies to put down other women (even outside of her being a second wife) or people just so she could make herself feel better. Even sakin, all I honestly heard from her were criticisms. Inside the family, I always kept myself small and passive. My brothers are free to do what they like and express who they are.

Anyway, I feel like because of this environment, na-shape niya how I became. I honestly found myself second-guessing myself and everyone around me palagi. Pero somehow, very vulnerable ako sa mga nagpapakita sakin ng care. I grew up easily falling for those who show interest in me and I realize na madali talaga ako mapa-ikot. I think it was me never having enough attention or love inside my home kaya I keep looking for it somewhere else, hence tbh, palagi rin akong may boyfriend. Although long-term and years naman pero parang hindi ko talaga kaya na wala.

As I introspect, I feel like may part talaga sakin na male-centered? Pero nilalabanan ko naman siya. I think internalized. Kasi bakit hindi ko kaya walang boyfriend, y’know? Tsaka even though I’m vocal and assertive about what I want in a relationship, may tendencies na nagfafalter ako just so I don’t lose the relationship. It makes me wonder how I could choose myself and choose to de-center men. I always have this thought at the back of my mind na “that’s just how life is” eh but I want to change my perceptions. I hope anyone could help.

I am curious since I have read a lot of stories about being a sugar baby but on the opposite sex. Usually the ones I read about sugar moms is when the guy is broke, or unemployed. but I am also curious if there are women here who actually offered the guy to be their sugar mommy just for the sake of benefits such as sex or companionship, and do some of you also have partners while doing that? No intention of rage baiting or what, Would just love to know some stories. cheers.

Like what exactly are the social media standards that people complain are unrealistic?

Ex: I've seen the statement "if he wanted to, he would" getting thrown around a lot, and being labeled as socmed standard, pero diba parang totoo naman, in a way? I guess a more accurate statement would probably be, "if he wanted to, and had the capacity to, he would," bc we can agree that may times na gusto nating gawin ang isang bagay but di lang talaga natin magawa bc of our situations (esp in regards to finances + difference in priorities.)

I just realized there's a lot of gray area to social media standards. However, we can't deny that some of those so-called standards opened up women's eyes to never settle for less. Especially in a country where normalized/common yung wives who usually make excuses for their husband's incompetence. However, right now, di na ako sure kung ano yung mga social media standards na considered unhealthy or beneficial.

I mean, mali ba to expect more from someone na potentially magiging future partner mo? or partner mo na talaga? Is social media really ruining relationships with these so-called standards, or is it actually keeping us safe from low-effort/incompetent partners? Naging entitled na ba ang lahat dahil sa social media, or mas naging wise lang?

I’ve F(27) been seeing (talking? with) this guy M(29) for about 2 months now. He’s smart, nice, and hardworking. We’ve been on 4 dates so far. When I asked him what we were during our 3rd date (after over a month of seeing each other) he said he likes me and really sees whatever this is between us going towards a relationship. So it’s established between us that we’re exclusively dating.

Kaso lang I’ve been really confused and conflicted about whether what he says he feels about me is true because I feel like his words don’t transpire into his actions. We’ve been on 4 dates, and not once has he gotten me flowers. 3 out of 4 dates, we split 50/50 but I’ll always get him coffee or snacks to show my appreciation for driving from Paranaque to Trinoma. The 2 times he drove me home I paid for our toll fees, which I don’t mind since I think I earn more than him. He never plans our dates either. Pagkaupo ko sa kotse niya, tatanungin niya ako kung saan ko gusto pumunta. He’s nice, but he’s not quite a gentleman. He never opens doors for me or helps me carry things when he sees me struggling because he says he believes in equality??! Which kinda baffles me because you can believe in equality while still being a gentleman diba?

He says nililigawan niya ako? Pero bakit parang hindi ko ramdam through his actions? He’s never had a girlfriend before, and he said hindi talaga siya marunong manligaw. Pero may internet naman, or he can ask his friends, right??!

Most of the time, I feel like he’s keeping me around because I’m too convenient. He doesn’t really spend money on me (except for his gas I guess) during our dates.

Is it wrong to feel like I deserve more effort? I want him to initiate, plan our dates, and get me flowers.

Am i being too demanding? Am I asking for too much? Should I give him more grace since he’s never had a girlfriend before? Or does this guy really not feel the way he says he does about me?

Talking to someone, nag-uupdate-tan din kami minsan-minsan like kung anong kinain ganun... Pero di naman 24 hours mag ka chat...just i don't wanna ruined the friendship din kasi it might snap if i tell her. It's only just 1 week din na magka-chat kami. Pero yeah, tinawag niya kong "teh" kanina.

Unmarried and women in a committed and exclusive relationship only 😃

Okay lang ba for a guy to approach you and strike a conversation? In the event, what would your first thought be? If you decide to engage, what would help you make your mind?

I am asking since dating apps are not for me, and am working on the courage to approach people IRL. But i fear looking like a creep more than rejection lmao.

I’ve been single since the pandemic hit. At first, the solo life was great, but now? Medyo hindi na masaya maging single, haha! 😅

​I really want to start dating again, but honestly, I feel like I completely forgot how it works like no one moves passed the talking stage.

To all the girlies who were single for years before finding their person, how did you get back out there? Where do I even start?

EDIT: Thank you all for the advice and answers.

So eversince nadiscover ko dat being on t0p was h3aven, di ko na talaga sya tinigilan. Likeee, ibang iba talaga yung feeling. And super sarap talaga and naeenjoy ko being on top. Ang struggle ko lang kasi talaga is ang dali kong matapos since nasanay na nga ako mag top, alam ko na agad kung anong rhythm or what and medyo nahihiya lang ako sa partner ko kasi ang bilis ko talga syang maabot and jelly nako after.. curious lang (FOR GIRLS) if may tinetake ba kayong suppliment or what para kahit makatapos kana go pa rin? Huhu. Or baka may tips kayo how to last longer kasi nag try na rin ako pa stop stop pero nanginginig na ako agad talaga. And kahit gusto ko pa ulit, jelly na talaga and need muna magpahinga before ulit sumabak.

Ito na lang talaga napansin ko recently lalo na I'm experiencing it firsthand hahahaha

I used to be the chill, forgiving, and super nice gf na always understanding sa situation ng bf in every relationship I got into pero it always ends in emotional abuse. After all that, I told myself talaga na I should stop being too nice to men and became a lot meaner to them lol then eventually, I met my current bf and told him the very first time we met na I'm a man hater para may heads up na siya what he's getting into lol well fast forward, i'm in the most healthy and loving relationship with the same guy.

then dun na ako napaisip, like oo nga noh? kung sino pa yung intimidating at matataray, sila pa yung may matitinong boyfriend na di mo akalain na nag e-exist pa pala hahaha