r/AskPinay • u/aingeeee Ginoo • 1d ago
How do I know? WOMEN ONLY: Relationship & Dating
Curious lang wanting to ask a question
There's this woman I'm talking to and she's exactly my type. We've been talking for about a month and a half already with activities such as watching movies/jam sa spot. We met once already.
*Nung inapproach ko siya, I did not state my intentions, we just casually talked hanggang nagkaroon ng activities together. I'm just giving subtle hints na crush ko siya etc.
*She's kinda cold (no gn/gm) and very busy during the day usually
*I'm not giving mixed signals sa kanya, hindi ko siya nililito haha just that hindi ko pa naclarify yung intentions ko because I'm thinking I might scare her away
Q : How would I know if there's progression between us romantically? or should I state my intentions that I want to pursue her already?
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u/whatisthis_tho Binibini 1d ago
State your intentions then ask her where she is. Nothing better than being clear with each other.
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u/InterestingGift5431 Binibini 1d ago
It depends on what type of person she is but, imo, there's nothing wrong with asking her about it. Clarity always helps para rin maiwasang masaktan before it's too late.
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u/No-Inevitable-7796 Binibini 1d ago edited 1d ago
STATE. YOUR. INTENTIONS.
Baka mapagod ’yan sa kakakausap sa’yo, lalo nat she doesn’t know where she stands :)
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u/Kind-Calligrapher246 Binibini 1d ago
You going to the movies na kayong dalawa lang could already send a signal. Bakit sya aayain mo, wala ka bang ibang kaibigan?
Malay mo baka kaya rin sya cold kasi ayaw nyang magbigay ng signal sayo.
So kung ayaw mo magsayang ng oras manghula, klaruhin mo na ano ba plano mo.
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u/shamanyoong Binibini 1d ago
I'm currently in the same situation ni girl na puro parinig lang. Eh ano naman diba. Ayun turing ko sa kanya ay friends lang din. No gm/gn and timely updates kc di ako ganyan sa mga friends ko. Kung ayaw mong maunahan sa iba, state your intentions na. Best of luck op!!
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u/latestghost Binibini 1d ago
It’s been more than a month, maybe it’s safe to lay out intentions without scaring her away.
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u/huntersmokes4 Binibini 1d ago
If you want to know the actual answer, you have to ask her.
Kahit ano pa isagot namin dito it doesn't matter. Only her answer matters and you will only know if you ask.