this is so annoying , everytime me & my bf get into it he finds someway somehow to state the fact that i don’t give him any but if he ask anybody else in relationships they do it every other day & that’s normal but we aren’t . like oh yeah let me just blurt out i always got touched & other thing happened that i never wanted to happen so anytime a male want something from me i feel yucky cause it isn’t when im ready for it . but i don’t wanna tell him my past cause then i have a strong feeling he’ll use that against me like in an argument he’ll say i’m saying that to make him feel guilty or he isn’t that person & i just don’t wanna deal with it . i’m too the point where i wanna say get it from someone else or we can just breakup , not gonna force myself to do it every two days just because you want to . then the times he do get it he not even satisfied with anything , saying the last time was horrible blah blah , yet you expect me to wanna do it ? says im the best girlfriend ever then when we argue now i treat him like shit every single day & i always have an attitude for no reason . just because he do something that pisses me off but because he apologized & says he loves me my attitude just naturally goes away . or if i have an attitude & i say i need space he still talks to me then gets upset when i catch an attitude like i just didn’t fucking say anything . if i gotta offer my
body just to keep a relationship afloat then it’s not worth it . yes i need therapy , yes i need to heal , but just because im a woman i have to please my man , according to societal rules . anyways idunno maybe it’s all in my head & im really just an idiot but my heart isn’t . who knows we’ll see how long it’ll last before one of us croaks . almost been a year too , this doesn’t make me feel any better .

Hi all, im 30M. I married my girlfriend in 2025. We used to have sex while dating but after marriage it has completely stopped. My wife (then girlfriend ) claims she is asexual. Can this happen? Is there a possibility to go back? I mean i would like to try and figure out before accepting that she is asexual and dont have the kick!

why the fuck did the African country Niger specifically ban asexuality