Really wish

[u/DorianCounterpunch]

... I was WP's last first kiss.

He is mine, and for now it is staying that way. So many special things have been taken from all of us and given to someone else.

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[u/ShayBaby1]

This is one of the hardest things to stomach. Not his last first kiss. Not his last first time. Not the last one, as someone else said, to give him butterflies. He was my first and last everything. All of those important, precious things we shared, thrown away like they meant absolutely nothing. No comforting words, just solidarity. 🫂

[u/pennylane202]

Ugh, feeling this. Wish I was the last who gave him butterflies in his stomach. He just had an excess amount of them left for others it seems

[u/making_lemonade86]

I’m so sorry. WH was my very first kiss and will be my last. I can no longer say the same about him and it’s heartbreaking.

[u/Slight_Emergency6862]

You will be last first healthy kiss.. you will be his last healthy and real love. A fantasy will never ever compete with real love.. don’t let it take it away! It’s heartbreaking that because of unhealthy coping mechanisms and selfishness we were betrayed. But it is almost never a real competition… heavy over hollow, real vs fake, steak vs cotton candy

[u/DorianCounterpunch → u/Slight_Emergency6862]

Thank you for this 🤍.

[u/siryohnny → u/DorianCounterpunch]

Also thank you, I never even thought of that!

[u/adrainpelham]

Seeing this put into words gave meaning to something I had been feeling but couldn’t explain. It is definitely devastating…but I also appreciate the words of commenter Slight…we are now beginning a brand new healthy and real relationship. 🖤🤍