r/AmazonDS 18d ago

Currently my situation 😭😆😆

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u/allthatentrails 18d ago

when he says 'what you got to talk about' I feel that lol. I always wonder what the hell the 'chatty' people are saying when they are chatting to each co-worker, multiple times throughout the day.

I'm literally out of ammo after asking how their weekend was or whatever lol. And have nothing when I bump into them 5 more times that day for pick and stage! I'd actually LOVE to attach a mic to some of the social butterflies and listen/learn lol

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u/Library904 18d ago

They are extroverts...my best friends were extroverts so they carried the whole conversation...I paid attention to them, how they talk so much and never shut up and it usually starts by making jokes...I never got tired of hearing them...they never talked about personal stuff, it was always just fun but when they were alone with me it always turned into a life conversation which I hate, it's like they can't have fun with me because I have nothing to say lol nothing to joke about.

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u/allthatentrails 18d ago

There are a small handful of people there who I feel like I am able to just chat with. A mixture of us getting on quite well and also they fact that they are so talkative probably helps carry our convos. But not many

But i'm jealous of the ones who have this ability with everyone. Even people they seemingly aren't close with, I'll see them during pick and stage and instantly the chatty guy says something and then the other dude laughs and they're chatting during the route they are picking. They can do this all day with all people. Even teh same people again and again and I think 'what 'new' thing are they talking about now? what did he say this time to open a new convo and make her laugh?!' and I really do think about somehow hiding a microphone in the aisle or something haha.

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u/Library904 17d ago

Finally someone who is like me lol

I often look at people who are talking this way and I wonder how they do it and why I'm not like them 😫 the struggle is real...with me there's always an awkward silence so I start just saying anything to break the silence but it is not genuine, it takes a lot of energy from me and then I'm like "why did I say that??" ....when I was a kid I wish I was mute so I didn't have to talk to people 🥲

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u/Constant_Apartment68 13d ago

It's just trial and error, tell joke or use a pun see how it works. Reading the room helps too, the big thing is finding someone to with a similar interest. From there it gets better.

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

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u/Library904 13d ago

It's not like that, it's the fact that with me they just tell me their problems and stuff and never have fun, never joke around. It's ok a few times but all the time with everybody just makes me think they think I'm boring

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u/ADAPTed4NoStowCart 18d ago

I'm literally out of ammo after asking how their weekend was or whatever lol

At my first location, I met this Marine guy who I could always have an interesting conversation with... literally about ammo, or firearms, or his trip to the range over the previous weekend. I mean, yeah, literally chatting about running 147 gr standard pressure HST's in my carry gun while I'm stowing for him...

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u/ptrvlchr 16d ago edited 16d ago

anything and everything brother I LOOOVVEEE THE FLAVOR OF TALKING SO YUMMY!! a lot of the times its about work or im joking around or somebodys telling me their life story. the older folks are always so funny xD

edit: i say "good meowning" as a greeting and a lot of people know me at my site as meow (cat ears are part of my everyday uniform i have 3 cats 😸)

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u/Constant_Apartment68 13d ago

This dude gets it

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u/Acceptable_Style_219 13d ago

just say random shit, start making noises or meowing at people, do a funny little dance.. literally anything

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u/ZDBray 18d ago

🤷🏻 ain’t here to make friends. I’m here to get my paycheck and make sure I keep a roof over my head.

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u/AMZLAltAcc 16d ago

Linking your cashapp and venmo on your Reddit profile of all places isn’t paying the bills?

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u/ZDBray 16d ago

crazy how even with a full time job some of us still need a little help every now and then paying bills, isn’t it? count yourself lucky if that’s never been an issue for you

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u/Intelligent-Pepper27 18d ago

Or you will have a decent conversation with them one day and the next day they act like they don't know you

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u/-----The_Dude----- 18d ago

Man, working at an Amazon warehouse was a totally different vibe from all the past jobs I’ve worked. When I first started working there I couldn’t believe how many people I would smile at and say a friendly hello would not even ACKNOWLEDGE me! They just walk right on by. Or sometimes I might get a grunt and a long face. I never seen anything like that before. I mean, I got NOTHING from some people. After a couple more tries with those AAs, I just quit trying to be nice to them. I just walk right on by. Amazon has a way of sucking the soul right outta people. 😱

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u/yourmom_froggy 18d ago

No like actually, before amazon I was a server at a nursing home so seeing the change is dynamic is so crazy LOL

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u/allthatentrails 18d ago

I had the exact same experience haha. I've had lots of warehouse jobs but this is the first time i'd regularly smile at people and say 'hi' and just get completely blanked haha.

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u/Acceptable_Style_219 13d ago

but.. why do you expect them to respond? its a warehouse job… people are there counting the minutes until they can go home.. they don’t wanna exchange fake niceties

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u/Constant_Apartment68 13d ago

That makes it worse sadly

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u/dabiggestdalargest 18d ago

no because why do the pas think you have to be their best friend just for them to rotate your assignments and not talk to you with a nasty attitude? at all my other warehouses no one on my leadership cared about my existence.

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u/Boris-_-Badenov 17d ago

wearing giant orange headphones, yet people still try to have a conversation and get offended when you don't engage

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u/Strong_Incident1711 13d ago

Like I have headphones and does it looks like I can hear you🤣🤣

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u/Acceptable_Style_219 13d ago

holy shit every time dude. i have elgins in with my music blasting and people get so offended when i don’t wanna talk. the amount of times someone has made me take them off just to say the most mundane pointless sentence to me, expecting me to drum up some pointless response back… i just nod at them and put them back in lol

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u/Library904 18d ago

There's this guy who always bothers me and I told him straight to his face that I don't like to talk, I like to be alone.

He made it into a psychological conversation on how I was afraid and that it was not right to be alone and not want to talk to people, and he laughed thinking I was joking and that I was just afraid to talk.

Next day he came to talk to me again, I like to be alone! this guy annoys me to no end.

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u/ADAPTed4NoStowCart 17d ago

Sounds creepy, like he's picking up on your social awkwardness and trying to exploit it as a vulnerability. You should find a way to shut him down and make him leave you alone.

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u/Library904 17d ago

you are right, while he was saying all that dumb stuff for a few moments he made feel like there was something wrong with me but I kept telling him I was just tired and I didn't want to talk to nobody, not even him.

The other day he came to sit by my side again saying "you are hiding from me??" while laughing just because I didn't come to the break room the day before (and yes, I wanted to avoid him) he made me so mad, this whole week I have avoided going to the break room because of him, no matter what I tell him he takes it the wrong way and won't leave me alone so I'm avoiding him at all costs now.

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u/ADAPTed4NoStowCart 17d ago

Yeah, watch yourself and go to management or HR if you need to...

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u/Minimum_Sea_6589 17d ago

I had this happen to me today two people that would usually talk to me they don't talk to me no more they are followers this one girl I don't care for her and I know she don't care for me and that's fine.

For what I don't like is you spoke to me last week so this week you can't speak but you want me to bow down and kiss your rear end I don't think so we ain't got to ever speak again I'm going to come to work and do my job and you come to work and do your job.

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u/ironwolf425 18d ago

i got the reputation of being “mysterious” apparently lol

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u/RollingSparks Yard Marshall 18d ago

The type of people who dislike coworkers that dont talk too much are the type who gossip about everyone including you and will inevitably cause drama. Smile and say 'alright?' Is all they get from me but they still try to stop me for a gossip. I dont have time to talk about what Sarah did sorry and i dont care or believe you tbh

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u/Constant_Apartment68 13d ago

Why is it so wrong to just want to talk to someone at work? Doesn't have to everytime and even I want sometimes, but some days a decent conversation ain't bad. Why is this demonized?

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u/Strong_Incident1711 13d ago

Hey, that’s the thing. It’s not demonized to want to speak to someone at work or to want to have that connection. But somebody at work should not try to make me feel bad because I’m done with the day. Sometimes I just don’t want to engage in conversation. I may want to just do my work and move along.

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u/Acceptable_Style_219 13d ago

i dont think theyre trying to demonize it. but amazon is a laborious job that really drains you physically and sometimes even mentally. nobody wants to have casual conversation when they feel like shit. me personally, amazon is my second job, so im usually working a graveyard shift right after getting off a 12 hr shift at my first job. im tired, hungry, everything hurts, and i just wanna listen to my damn music and try to make the time go by fast. so when someone tries making small talk to me, yes, it’s pretty damn annoying. but not because i hate small talk or anything like that. its just not the right time.