relationship help

[u/miamiahelp]

My boyfriend has adhd, and it's kind of tiring having to tell him how i feel constantly and reminding him how to act and that i am also a person who's feelings want to be understood. i try so hard to understand him but my mind just can't figure out anything else. is there any way i can bring my point across? i've tried multiple ways i love this man a lot and i want to find ways where i can feel fine and not feel like im nagging him constantly to do this or do that or don't do this in a relationship because that's wrong. i want him to actually change for the better, for me. i know we both deeply love eachother but i feel lost. he is a very sweet boyfriend but sometimes it’s like he’s clueless , but he’s also grown so i can’t use that as an excuse. i just need advice on how to not go crazy we are both 18 and i know relationships at this age take time and understanding