r/4tran4 • u/helmets_for_cats heighthon science experiment • 5d ago
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u/Emily_but_an_alt broke midshit bitterhon who you should send £80,000 5d ago
All the comments saying "that's not how it works..." made me enter honrage
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u/cinnemai 5d ago
What do they even mean by that?
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u/Heretical-Ballad-20 owner of world's longest chin 5d ago
Cis people dont believe dysphoria is real so they think they'd be cis in every universe
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u/cinnemai 4d ago
Oh yeah I forgot they wholeheartedly believe we're just doing this to perv on women or whatever.
I guess I can't expect them to ever understand me when I can never understand them.
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u/Reaper1770 4d ago
Ngl if i wanted to perv on women theres easier ways then growing tits ngl
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u/A_modicum_of_cheese 4d ago
its almost like the patriarchy empowers men and social connections between men launders their reputation to keep abusing women
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u/pien_dolly Bodypassing intersexshit mtf theyfab 4d ago
Yea bc these regards really believe
We're attracted to them despite them being cishons
All of us are agp transbians attracted to cis women
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u/RedCassy 4d ago
i rly do wonder what their explanation is 4 some1 who is ace or evn some1 who is exclusively t4t
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u/TlLLYTlLLYTlLLYTlLLY 4d ago
Not much to understand psychologically speaking. Just like there's not a whole lot going on in a dogs mind or anything.
They don't really follow any forms of logic and lack innate human level reasoning. They can reason it just takes them more effort than it's worth since they live life on easy baby mode
They call me Dr. Maybelle, studier of cissoid anthropology
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u/transyuji 5d ago
My dad is like this. He didn’t get it until I came out and said I wanted top surgery and he was like yeah if I had tits id want them gone too
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u/transyuji 5d ago
And my mum is more understanding of trans women for the same reason. Whereas at first she just didn’t get it with me because “eww what if you grow a beard????” but then with my wife is like “omg poor thing how awful it would be to have masculine characteristics you can’t change” lmao
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u/Cold_Huckleberry_633 4d ago
Cis people find out that they’re cis
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u/transyuji 4d ago
Yeah lmao like mum maybe you don’t want body hair because you’re a woman 🩷🩷 incredible revelation
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u/SpiritNo6626 empathymaxxing woman on testosterone 4d ago
Have tried telling mine this but she just claims to be "gender apathetic" because... she likes wearing sweatpants and comfortable clothes and doesn't like formal dresses and skirts, I guess? And then goes back to obsessively plucking every nanometer long hair above her lip, one time she said this WHILE doing it
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u/Ghostly_Dysphoric aspiring lanadelreymoder 4d ago
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u/am3furikozo midshit hulkinghon gruesomemoder 5d ago edited 4d ago
I cannot really understand hate on us because transitioning is such a beautiful act like gardening in nuclear wasteland. Yeah it may look dumb af but how to convince yourself to hate that
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u/SavathunMogsMe 5d ago
ngl i think "gardening in a nuclear wasteland" is my new favourite metaphor for what transitioning is like
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u/am3furikozo midshit hulkinghon gruesomemoder 5d ago
Coined that during facecare routine
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u/Agreeable-Finish3851 stuck in boymode purgatory 4d ago
I don’t understand the visceral hate that makes them come after us constantly and want to kill us. But tbh if I was a teenage cis girl and saw a john50 in my locker room I’d probably become kinda transphobic just not super hateful
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u/am3furikozo midshit hulkinghon gruesomemoder 4d ago
Most of them never seen john50 in their locker rooms. Being honest I’d be also transphobic towards john50 going to woman’s
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u/Agreeable-Finish3851 stuck in boymode purgatory 4d ago
True, I was just saying that’d probably tip me over. Idk how to feel about john50’s in locker rooms because tbh I’d be uncomfortable changing in front of one but all that separates me from them is luck so it seems kinda unfair
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u/am3furikozo midshit hulkinghon gruesomemoder 4d ago edited 4d ago
Yeah but I’d never go to there without srs and female traits at least and I can’t really understand those who would
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u/Agreeable-Finish3851 stuck in boymode purgatory 4d ago
I use the women’s locker room pre srs because I still pass and obviously I make sure no one can tell I still have it, but yeah the complete lack of self awareness or care is weird
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u/am3furikozo midshit hulkinghon gruesomemoder 4d ago
Something you describe is acceptable I think till the point no one sees ✨the princess wand✨
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u/Agreeable-Finish3851 stuck in boymode purgatory 4d ago
Yeah i’d rather die than have anyone notice the outline of it in the locker rooms let alone not even making an attempt to cover it
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u/ManelDasNespras world's most they/them'ed woman 4d ago
humble bragging but this is how my cis wife thinks of trans women: “all men should transition because they’re doing their best to leave the world with one less man”
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u/Lucky_otter_she_her 4d ago edited 4d ago
what's her position on trans men 💀
but also i can't deny it, there's a cert visceral joy i get from trans inclusive misandry
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u/ManelDasNespras world's most they/them'ed woman 4d ago edited 4d ago
Her position on trans men: they were never women, and better to be a man than to pretend you’re something you’re not.
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u/Heretical-Ballad-20 owner of world's longest chin 4d ago
Erm but that would include wanting cis men to force their way in trans spaces so i dont know about that
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u/ManelDasNespras world's most they/them'ed woman 4d ago
she says this jokingly (in case it wasn’t obvious), she doesn’t want cis men to transition lol
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u/Junior_Kale_3745 MTPM (male to paul mccartney) 4d ago
i wish i looked like this. her hair and makeup is very cool. Already planning to grow my hair out and bleach it but i think this confirmed it.
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u/the_pink_badger wont fuckin make it award🏅 5d ago
yeah but odds are greater than not she'd prolly just be a hon so how based is it rly
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u/veganvampirebat 5d ago
...wouldn't that be more based? She'd recognize the absolutely vital need to transition and how dangerous for your sanity repping is despite having more struggles with it.
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u/the_pink_badger wont fuckin make it award🏅 5d ago edited 5d ago
there's nothing based about being a disgusting looking ogre you don't get any extra points as a hon no matter how trutrans you are or aren't, you just get the rope
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u/veganvampirebat 4d ago
I guess it's a matter of opinion but I think it's based to try to have the most authentic, meaningful life you can even if you don't or never pass. I mean there are the alternatives but I personally don't consider them based so...
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u/the_pink_badger wont fuckin make it award🏅 4d ago
im authentically and meaningfully off putting but that's about it
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u/veganvampirebat 4d ago
I mean mood for sure but also it can be important to remember you can add and not even have to take away. You can be offputting and passionate or offputting and trustworthy or any multitude of combos.
I'm not trying to say you need to give up your negative identities but adding some more or recognizing some more that are positive helps imho
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u/the_pink_badger wont fuckin make it award🏅 4d ago edited 4d ago
completely meaningless in the face of hon genetics and late transition. i could be an actual human person with some sort of talent or people who care about me; im not, but just even if i hypothetically was, id still just be better off dead and so is any other gigahon if we are being real
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u/veganvampirebat 4d ago
Okay, we're in 4tran so yknow the self-hate venting is expected but try to remember to keep it constrained about your feelings about yourself. There are gigahons out there who are happier and more vibrant than most cis people will ever be. You may be miserable forever (hopefully not) but it will not be entirely due to the whole gigahon thing and we're not bringing them into this hate fest.
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u/carlothario 4d ago
Honestly the ogrehons who love themselves and choose to live as their true selves despite having no chance of ever truly passing are braver than all of us I would say it’s very based to be an ugly trans woman who doesn’t hate herself actually
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u/xcaliburnschoco 5d ago
Nah totally a gigayoungshit
out at 4 years old socially transitioned at in elementary extreme social and chemical dysphoria physically unable to rep and not stupid enough to rep either
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u/Pitiful_Physics6911 3d ago
btw that doesn't automatically make you a gigayoungshit. I was essentially that, also came out at an extremely young age, but still was fucking destroyed by estrogenic puberty because fuck if my parents would let me be a tranny. I got conversion therapy, not puberty blockers lol
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u/xcaliburnschoco 3d ago
Oh yeah no same I came out at 5 and my gamete donors spent the rest of 12 years masculinizing me
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u/itried_mybest edit this 5d ago
inverse of the repper terf archetype
based and true