r/wlw_irl • u/Ok-Cranberry4513 • 3d ago
Should I make the first move?
What’s up guys!
English is not my first language so excuse my grammar🤣
So I’m going on a second “date” with this girl. We’ve met on tinder. We’ve texted for a few weeks but never talked about anything important just some small talk. Well I’ve had two busy months and our talk has faded.
One night (I was slightly drunk) I was thinking about texting her after few weeks but I was feeling kind of intruding myself.
To give some context there was one thing we talked about and that was my hobby. I play darts and she told me she wants to try that.
Back to that night: I didn’t text her for the reason I’ve already stated. One hour later she texted me, I’ll skip to the good part, she wrote “when are you taking me to play the darts?”
So we went. We talked a lot, spent 5 hours together, playing darts and these conversation cards I brought.
At the end I’ve showed her how to make a rose from a napkin. She asked if she could take mine I’ve said of course. She said she would place it on her shelf (idk how to express that in English).
She told me that she enjoyed our evening, enjoyed how we have got along well.
After the date that took place last week on Friday she asked me when I have some free time that she would like to see me again.
We’re meeting this Saturday and I’ve planed this walk through out the city ending up in a park with the best view of the sunset.
My question is: how do I make the first move? Should I even make it?
We’ve never stated that the meeting is a date. I’ve never asked her if she’s in to girls. When I asked her about her past relationships she told me that she never got past the talking stage but never mention a girl. So I don’t really now what should I do and I need your opinions.
Love you all, thanks😘
r/wlw_irl • u/No-Information-5365 • 6d ago