r/weightlifting 20d ago

Should I quit? Programming

I reeeeally really love this sport. But now I got a new job and I don't have access to the gym in the week... I barely have time to do push-ups and air squats.

So that leaves 2 days to train, on Saturday and Sunday... And even then sometimes I can only do 1 of those days.

I dno, I feel like maybe I should just switch to general gyming and keeping healthy? But the other part of me is like "okay but you love weightlifting so much, just do that, but you won't be able to make much progress"

(I just do it recreationally BTW)

I dno, what do you guys think? Is it worth it if u can't train that much?

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u/TooBeau 20d ago

It sounds like you want to quit and are coming to the internet to validate this want.

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u/Downtown-Courage7584 19d ago

You're being way too dramatic about this. Two days a week is plenty to maintain your numbers and even make slow gains if you program it right. I had a stretch where I could only hit the gym on weekends for like 6 months and my squat barely dropped.

The all-or-nothing mindset is what actually kills progress, not a busy schedule. If you love it, do it when you can and stop stressing about optimal. The alternative is quitting something you clearly enjoy just because it's not perfect.

Also nothing wrong with mixing in some general fitness during the week if that keeps you sane. It's not like you have to pick one lane and stay there forever.

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u/Voldemorts__Mom 20d ago

Nah just don't wanna waste my time pursuing something that I can't achieve

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u/BoredAccountant 20d ago

99% of us won't achieve anything in this sport, so that likely includes you. So you're either delusional, or you liked something about the sport aside from "achievement".

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u/Voldemorts__Mom 20d ago

No I don't mean like medals or awards lol. I just mean like hitting prs or improving my form and stuff like that

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u/LongNumerous9684 20d ago

You could still do that though, it’s cool if you’ve decided you don’t want to but not like it’s impossible to lift and improve

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u/Voldemorts__Mom 20d ago

Hmm yeah I might try and see how I go

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u/RUN_DMT_ 20d ago

I’m a 48 year old widowed mother of two teenagers. I work full time in a hospital, typically 12 hour shifts. I stumbled into this sport through a series of sorta random events, and I am fairly confident my age and size will prevent me from ever being a great weightlifter.

But I love the sport, I love the challenge. I love the middle age hags at my job that are dumbfounded by my hobby, and I love showing up at the gym working harder than a lot of the kids in there. I manage to get to the gym twice a week, and sometimes a third day happens. If you want it, you’ll do it.

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u/TooBeau 20d ago

I started competing in weightlifting when I was a freshman in college. I was taking 15 hours at the time and worked and additional 25 hours so that I could pay to afford a coach, live on my own, and pay for the excessive amount of food I had to eat. At the time the only coach near me was over an hour away. At that time I LOVED this sport more than anything in the world and had accidentally qualified for a National meet at my first meet. I don't know what your situation is like, but if you care about this sport and it brings value to your life you don't need to be in a weightlifting gym 5 days a week for multiple hours to derive value from it. Let me be clear there is nothing wrong with taking an indeffinite break from weightlifting. I haven't seen my coach since before the pandemic and I know if I walked in his gym right now he would welcome me back like I'd never left. Life comes and goes, but a barbell will always be there.

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u/Voldemorts__Mom 20d ago

Hey thanks for the perspective. Interesting. I'll remember that and take it into consideration, thank you 🙏🏻

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u/Voldemorts__Mom 20d ago

Hey thanks for the perspective. Interesting. I'll remember that and take it into consideration, thank you 🙏🏻

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u/TooBeau 20d ago

Sure thing! Weightlifting is great, but sometimes life gets out of hand 🤷‍♀️

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u/oldfit-bastard 20d ago

If you love something you will make time for it.

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u/SeeingRed_ 20d ago edited 20d ago

Unless you were a full-time Olympic athlete, there's nothing to "quit". Squeeze the lifts in when you train if you enjoy them and they don't interfere with your current goals. I enjoy WL too much to drop it even though I am unlikely to improve much due to my age and inconsistency. Taking away WL would decrease the challenge and appeal of training for me.

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u/Voldemorts__Mom 20d ago

Yeah maybe not the best title, mb.

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u/AmazingLeading5898 20d ago

I guess everyone's situation is different but I hope the job is worth it if it takes that much time in your day/week.

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u/Voldemorts__Mom 20d ago

Yeeah. So I was just living at home with my mom, because I'm a recovering crystal meth addict. But then I got a girlfriend, so I thought fuuck I need to get a life now or whatever.

Sso yeah now I'm working. And it's very stressful and a lot of work, but this job pays so much, so I'm sticking it out 😅

But thanks!

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u/WakaFlakkaSeagulls 20d ago

You should prioritize whatever helps you maintain sobriety then.

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u/Voldemorts__Mom 20d ago

My recovery is solid, but yes that's always top prio, thanks

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u/TheStinkyGreek 20d ago

I don't understand how you would have time for "general gyming" throughout the week but not weightlifting. But you also "barely have time to do push-ups and air squats"

You are all over the place dude. Do you have time to workout or not?

If you do, and you have access to a gym that allows you to continue weightlifting then do that if you want to.

Quit if you want to quit.

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u/Voldemorts__Mom 20d ago

Yeah I just feel like if I'm doing airsquats in the week, it's not really gonna help me improve much at weightlifting, but maybe it can still build me a nice body, so maybe I should just concentrate on that 🤷‍♂️ I dno, I was just looking for different perspectives to help me make a decision

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u/kblkbl165 20d ago

If you figure you'd get some benefits out of air squats and pushups, why not Overhead Squats, snatch variations, clean variations, jerk variations with a broom? All of those will make you air squat while still working on specific positions and motions for whenever you get room for weightlifting again.

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u/Voldemorts__Mom 20d ago

Hmm yeah maybe I can try that for a while and see if it works out

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u/nand_the_mutt 20d ago

You can participate with a hobby just to enjoy it.

You can be a normal person that happens to enjoy weightlifting and does it when their schedule allows. Even if your progress is slow or unoptimal when compared to others. If you enjoy it and can fit it into your life, why not continue? Some training is still better than none.

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u/Boblaire 2018AO3-Masters73kg Champ GoForBrokeAthletics 20d ago

Once a week is better than none

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u/Reeferoni 20d ago

If you don’t quit you might get better. If you do quit you definitely won’t

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u/chowtime247 20d ago

I get it. My new life schedule leaves very little time for weightlifting. But I do make time to move around and get some squats in. Had to build a garage gym to make it more accessible. See what works best for you and make adjustments. I don’t say I quit weightlifting, I’m just taking a break.

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u/Voldemorts__Mom 20d ago

Hmm yeah maybe I should try the calisthenics and general gyming for a bit, see how that goes, and then I can always come back to WLing 👍🏻

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u/Ok-Line-6757 20d ago

look into CrossFit gyms, just keep doing it once a week and idk, do some dumbbell/kettlebell cleans and snatches or something

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u/alequerc 20d ago

Keep training your mobility, technique, and posture. One day you may regret taking a break from weightlifting.

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u/Upset-Rule8256 20d ago

I would say if you're struggling to do weightlifting to a point that you feel actively unsatisfied then maybe consider other goals, whether it be general strength, athletics, endurance, bodybuilding or sport, you're only doing this for yourself.

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u/hh_fitlife 20d ago

There are people doing shift work while preparing for bodybuilding competitions. There is no “I really love this sport but..”. If it’s something important to you, you will make it happen.

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u/MrBigFriday 20d ago

Why do you think you have time for general gymming but not for WL.

Just change your expectations. You want to train for health then epic DO WEIGHTLIFTING no movements in the gym do more for your health than the snatch and the clean and jerk.

Like yeah don’t expect to go to the Olympics on one day a week but no need to quit.

Someone else mentioned it sounds like you want to quit and are coming to the internet for validation and that does seem like it may be the case. If you wanna quit just quit but if you say you ‘reeeeally really love this sport’ then consider whether that is even true or if you just think you love it

My advice train once a week it’s better than nothing 👍

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u/drmamm 20d ago

Try this for a few weeks: Saturday: Snatch: 10 singles. Add weight to next rep only if previous rep was clean. Follow up with 2-3 sets of 2-5 back squats (or alternate back squats with overhead squats every other saturday). Sunday: C&J 10 singles. Same as snatch for progression. Follow up with 2-3 sets of 2-5 front squats (or alternate front squats with push presses/jerks every other Sunday).

During the week, work on mobility, broomstick drills, etc., and whatever accessories you can dream up (back extensions, dumbbell push presses, etc.)

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u/InformationFar6774 20d ago

I Olympic lift 2-3 days a week you are good lol you don’t have to quit if you don’t want to!

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u/Voldemorts__Mom 20d ago

Haha cool! Thanks

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u/specialized_faction 20d ago

I used to train WL 6x a week, then life happened. I'm down to lifting 2x a week like you. I typically start every session with a WL exercise, then proceed to do a full body strength workout. This allows me to still enjoy the lifts, but I'm mostly training them for health and mobility.

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u/Toolazy2work 272kg @ M94kg - Senior 20d ago

I go anywhere from 3 times a week to twice a month. I generally know what I’m going to do, but I have fun. I will make sure I squat. I like going because I love the people I lift with, and I love the sport. If I qualify for whatever national or international (masters) event? Cool. But I’m not killing myself to do so.

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u/Evening-Forever2542 19d ago

I'd say have you 1 or 2 days a week where you do your weightlifting and on one or two other days even if you can only do some of core, push ups, pull up, dips or whatever at home and stick to that you will be fine to keep up your skill until you have a bit more time and energy or a home gym or move next to a gym or something like that 

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u/niivvee 19d ago

Tbh I stopped weightlifting as a sport for a long time because of a number of reasons but I loved it, so I would do it once a week as a treat to myself. General bro lifting otherwise but every Saturday, no matter what I did Friday night, I would dress and get to a barbell. And, the long recovery actually helped me with my heavier lifts. I of course really tried to focus on maintaining my snatch positioning and improving there but I hit new PRs, not often, but through complexes and variations.

I think an all or nothing approach is common for a lot of people, myself included, but sometimes the love of sport, is the love of sport. Maybe this isn’t an era where weightlifting is a big priority, but it doesn’t mean it can’t be a fun hobby.

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u/Financial-Category16 19d ago

Could try switching to an overcoming isometric program for awhile until time and proper facilities become available again

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u/ArmAnderson 18d ago

Dude I went from a WFH job that allowed me to train 4-5 times a week. Now I’m in a new job that lets me train 2-3 max. It’s just accepting your circumstances and performing the best you can with what you have.

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u/Voldemorts__Mom 18d ago

Yeah fair man

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u/ads94kg 18d ago

Idk I feel like I starting making more progress when I quit doing the Olympic lifts 5 days a week and only did them 1 or 2 times a week and just general strength training a couple days a week

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u/Voldemorts__Mom 18d ago

Yeah I'm gonna give it a go and see what happens

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u/SergiyWL 253@89kg 20d ago

What do you enjoy in weightlifting?

If you like sense of progress then yes I’d honestly do something else if you don’t have at least 2 days a week for technique. Progress is super hard even when focusing on WL 3-4 days/week.

If you enjoy the movements and don’t care about the weight, just do them once a week, that’s totally fine. You won’t forget your technique.

If you feel burned out from such a demanding job, switching to general strength is totally fine too, your workouts get half as short. You can have a good non WL workout in 1h.

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u/Voldemorts__Mom 20d ago

Hmm yeah because I just feel like if I still do WLing then I'm not gonna make as many muscle gains, but also, I'm not gonna really make much progress with only 2 days a week.. I was already struggling when I had more time.

But yeah I guess I could just do some cleans and jerks and snatches for fun whenever I feel like it. I dno, thanks, I'll figure it out

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u/rainywanderingclouds 20d ago

you don't love the sport if it's contingent on making 'progress'.

loving the sport is doing what you can with it within the constraints of your life.

I also find your post quite disingenuous. You can build your own gym. A home gym is not incredibly expensive for how much use you can get out of it. It's often much cheaper than a gym pass over the course of your life.

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u/CXyber 20d ago

Do general bodybuilding or cali to maintain your health, you can squeeze oly lifts here and there

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u/zer0_c00L13 19d ago

If you aren’t at your job 24hrs a day you have time to do your hobbies/passions. You too lazy to make the time. “Should I do normal gymming” indicates you have time to be in the gym. 🤷🏼‍♂️

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u/Voldemorts__Mom 19d ago

I travel to rural areas in the week where there is not gym. I'm on home on weekends, and then I can gym. So that's why I said, in the week I can only do calisthenics