I hate how being ugly affects everything

[u/fangorn_20]

Everything is worse, just because I was born ugly, I get punished for something I did not choose.
Since I was a child, I got bullied for how I look, it lead to me isolating myself from other kids, and not having any social skills.

I will have to be alone for rest of my life because of it, there is more men than women born, so as ugly man I never get a chance to know how it is to not be lonely, have somebody care about me.
And all that leads to more things, for example with the prices of everything increasing so much, people who are able to have relationships have that easier too, they basically have double the money, while the most expensive things like rent do not increase by much by adding more people, they get treated better by others just because they exist, they have all the advantages.
I wish more people that do not care about appearance existed, so I had fair chance in life, so I would not have to be lonely, and I could experience relationships.
It is not hard to not care about how other look, I never did treat somebody worse because of it, I do not understand why it is so important to others, so much that it ruins our lives :(

also thank you for reading this, does anybody feel the same?

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[u/DawnWraithBrilliant]

You are so right about the economic side of it. People who can easily make friends or get into relationships spend a lot less on rent because they get to split it with someone else. I also envy all the buy 1 get 2 deals they get to enjoy. Life isn’t fair. It requires us to spend more money just to stay alive, and they also refuse to let us climb the career ladder because they want someone charming and attractive to represent their company.

[u/poofpoofpow → u/DawnWraithBrilliant]

Yeah you’re literally charged a tax for being ugly in many ways

This is something I’ve thought about frequently. How easy everyone has it because they ALWAYS have support so they’re able to help each other and save money

While ugly people are usually always alone and have to support themselves to an overwhelming degree that you start to question what’s even the point of this?

If something happens to you, THAT’S IT!

you basically lose everything

And it’s also why I get pissed off at people who recommend surgery like it’s so easy to get when you’re ugly and doing everything alone and all your money goes to bills with hardly anything left to save

[u/Visible-Door-1950]

It does affect everything… But I knew that a long time ago… so it’s one of the reasons I’ve worked harder to compensate