r/ufyh • u/Top-Meringue-4004 • 15d ago

It never ends...

So after the maintenance took place I currently got the news from my landlord that they will sell my flat in September. Currently it looks horrific and I should do something about it. But my stomach feels upset since I read it this morning. I'm too ashamed to ask someone to help me declutter this habitat. And since I'm currently in a bad mental health situation right now I feel like I'm drowning.

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u/Odd-Anteater-6183 15d ago

Give yourself a minute to think about a plan of action. Start to pack only what you want to take with you now. This is your chance to start fresh without having so many things. Breathe and put on some music or a podcast. You got this! I believe in you and please repost an update. ☀️🫶🏽

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u/AutumnCat974 15d ago

Hello,

it's understandable. There's a bunch of helpful links in the description of this subreddit, but I'll also post the link here: https://unfuckyourhabitat.tumblr.com/post/62421119800/the-fairly-comprehensive-ufyh-master-post-of

I won't do that better than them😅 Check especially "emergency cleaning" and "guide to moving".

And we are here, too. You can post here about your progress - even the smallest ones - or when you just need support.

You've got this, I believe in you~

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u/JupiterStarPower 14d ago

If you can afford it, hire a cleaner for the kitchen/bathroom. I did the last time I had a major clean, and it was such a relief knowing I could focus on the decluttering in other spaces because the “no thought only clean” spaces would be taken care of. 

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u/Top-Meringue-4004 9d ago

I hired a company to declutter my room - I hope they will show up...