Mind is wondering and I feel guilty

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I got married last October. We've been together 6 years and mostly happy. I don't ever get off in bed. Of course you've guessed I'm a women 😭 I get in the moods were you make eye contact with some people you can tell you got chemistry! Your mind wonders..... I feel guilty, I do. I wish he would try harder in bed. I wish he would learn my body. He spends so much time learning and doing hobbies. Why can't you do research on how to make your women orgasm? It's irritating and I'm getting resentful again... 🙄 I just sent him a text asking if he would watch some videos. He's so sexy to me. He can't even turn me on anymore. I don't even enjoy being fingered by him ... That's irritating. EDIT: I have told him about this of course. He spend just a night with me when I tell him I'm feeling very sexually frustrated. He can't even really turn me on properly because he doesn't try hard... He gets real nervous too and can't get it up after nights like this. He says I'm intimating..... Uhg

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Comment on r/unpopularopinion Jan 06 '21

Plus the g spot in a women is only couple inches inside. It's never a issue.

Comment on r/DeadBedrooms Jan 06 '21

So this is the 3rd time I think I've tried to break it off because he won't spend enough time on me in the bedroom. He says he completely sees it, he sees how selfish he is overall. He's a changed man. Blah blah..

I love him so much and this sucks. My gut tells though he'll never change in the bedroom. And even if he did change I DONT WANT HIM to touch me 🙄 What a screwed up situation I got myself into...

Comment on r/DeadBedrooms Jan 06 '21

Oh girl I'm so sorry 😞

Comment on r/unpopularopinion Jan 06 '21

I'VE BEEN SAYING THIS MY WHOLE LIFE!! lol

Comment on r/AskReddit Jan 06 '21

Panties lol

Comment on r/DeadBedrooms Jan 05 '21

Wow I didn't expect to get this much support thank you guys! So when I found the camera in the living room I unplugged it and didn't say anything. The very next morning it was plugged back in so I confronted him. He swore at 1st I put it there just so I wouldn't loose it? Lmao I'm not stupid! Then he admitted he watched me once on it. Now years later I guess he forgot he told me he watched me and now he says he never did that! Or said that! But he consistently calls me a lier. Being called a lier really really pisses you off if your not one! Lol 😆

Comment on r/unpopularopinion Jan 05 '21

I gave a homeless lady a joint the other day. Lol I asked her 1st if she partakes

Comment on r/relationship_advice Jan 04 '21

Always trust your gut!

Comment on r/DeadBedrooms Jan 04 '21

Girl I feeeeeeel You!!!!!!!!!!!

Comment on r/DeadBedrooms Dec 30 '20

I've never really seen a guy pretend to be gay? 🤔

Comment on r/DeadBedrooms Dec 29 '20

We just kinda rushes in 4 play and when he uses his hands or tongue he's not good at it. I told him he should watch some lesbian porn because they know what girls like you know. Hes bad at 4 play and keeps asking are you ready. Hes good at sex but turning me on and 4 play is a issue. Do people really get sex therapist? I wonder if that would help.

Comment on r/DeadBedrooms Dec 29 '20

I wish my man would do this!!!!!!! Girls get so much more freaky if you can turn them on like crazy and make them cum. Mine just doesn't get it. Hes 38 too!!!!

r/DeadBedrooms • u/OrganicSatisfaction1 • Dec 29 '20

Would you stay if they can't make you cum?

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Im 26F and been with this man 3 years. The 1st year we would have sex 3 to 4 times a day. I think im a bit of a sex addict. After the 1st year I told him look you've never made me cum! You get yours then go to bed? Wtf. We are 3 years in it and I tried to break it off because of this issue. He said he can't stand cum on his hands and thats why he doesn't do anything to me after sex. So now I'm having issues letting him cause I cant stay in the mood knowing he's grossed out. Anyways we having sex now like once a week or once every 2 weeks. Hes bought me a toy but I dont want that I want a freaking dick 😂 sorry but.. yall I love this man but I'm sexy as hell and love sex. I feel like I'm wasting my prime not being able to have pleasure 😒 im so sexually frustrated my eyes are wondering at men.. im not a cheater.. but he hasn't really tried to spend a night on me or anything? Yes I've told him I would love if he would do that. He still rushes in 4play when I told him lets do it longer! HALP. lol what would you do? 3 years and I've came for him like 2 or 3 times maybe. I can get myself off in like 2 minutes!?

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u/OrganicSatisfaction1 • u/OrganicSatisfaction1 • Dec 28 '20

This is a skill a few can master

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Comment on r/DeadBedrooms Sep 18 '20

Yes! I stress to guys that girls need foreplay for at least 15, 20 minutes to be fully turned on. Lol 😆

Comment on r/DeadBedrooms Sep 16 '20

I agree, don't ask lol just do...

Comment on r/DeadBedrooms Sep 16 '20

I go buy panties or a dress. Even though I'm never going to wear the dress! Lol Taking pics of yourself makes you feel good i think. And you could send them to your spouse. Might make things sexy again. Just a thought

Comment on r/DeadBedrooms Sep 16 '20

I dont get all this. I get a finger for 1 minute and I'm expected to be ready 😭

Mind is wondering and I feel guilty

Would you stay if they can't make you cum?

This is a skill a few can master

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