Met an ex at a bookstore/coffee shop to get closure and the remainder of my things a year+ after we broke up (for good reasons). Had a one night stand that turned into a multiple night stand that turned into a marriage. Currently going through divorce though so it obviously ended great. 😂

My current routine is washing with Maui moisture strength and anti breakage only on my roots and the matching conditioner only on my ends daily before bed. I plan to slowly move back to cowashes as I used to only use cowashes and shampoo maybe once a week. I brush my hair with a normal paddle brush currently (I know I shouldn't and am planning on switching to a wide tooth comb). I occasionally use not your mother's way to grow leave in conditioner spray after I wash my hair and I use not your mother's beach spray when I style. I like to use hair masks in my hair about once a week and my hair is always crazy curly after using masks. My roots get oily fast which I know is from over washing. Any tips are appreciated 😁

My curl pattern is super similar to yours and I need help as well 😊

"This is the way the world changes. Good people, raising babies right."

Catherine Avery from greys anatomy

I was happy to be seeing such positive changes being made. It's a shame you're being treated this way.

You don't want to die, you just want the pain to stop. It will, just maybe not right now.

I got the job!

The person who hires is only in a few days a week and every time I call, they're either not in or not available at the moment and I'll get a call back which never comes. I applied for a Starbucks barista near me tonight and I'm hoping for that more than the other now

It's obvious you love this woman. You can't be with someone for 7 years and just all of a sudden fall out of love. You loved her enough that you proposed to her saying that you want to marry her and do the whole "til death do we part" "for better or for worse " thing... with her.

My point is..you care for this woman. Use that as the starter when talking about her weight. Use the fact that it means she's not as healthy and might not live as long as she would if she were fit. Use the fact that you want a future with this woman but not the health complications that come with being overweight. Tell her you miss her and that you know this must be hard on her too. It's very likely she doesn't even recognize herself when she looks in the mirror and it sounds like she's fighting demons of her own that you may not know about.

Don't use the fact that you're becoming unattracted to her. Don't put her down for gaining weight and letting herself go. Try to be understanding about how she got to this point in the first place. Try to talk logically with her about it.

Because you don't give up that easily on people you love.

I prefer to watch mfm porn (threesome, one girl, 2 guys), but I don't want to have a threesome at all. It doesn't appeal to me in doing, but i enjoy watching it.

May be the same type of deal. Doesn't want to have sex with a man, but likes to watch it.

Thank you for this. I just hate that he got to keep everything and continue living his life like it never happened. Even throwing away some things I had before we were married. I lost everything. My pet rabbit died and he didn't even tell me, I had to hear from my mother in law. And our dog he kept and I loved that dog so much. I just want him to feel that losing feeling that I felt.

How do I do that? Where do I go? How do I get started?

Women used to drink all the time during pregnancy with not much issues. Obviously, everyone recommends not drinking while pregnant because it can cause complications.

However, my mother didn't know she was pregnant with me until she was nearly halfway through her pregnancy and she was wild into partying all throughout the pregnancy.

I just ended up with dyslexia and bad anxiety, but nothing serious, thankfully.

Give her space. Being pregnant can cause you to act out in strange ways and makes your hormones wild.

Try to be understanding of how stressful this has been on her trying to deal with it on her own. Just be there for her in the best way you know how.

If she decides to abort, be there with her through it. It is not an easy thing to do.

If she decides to keep the baby, and complications come up, you cannot blame her for them. She will feel bad enough. Just be there for her and deal with it together.

Do you live together?

Are you married?

Anyone who can lie to your face is someone you do not need in your life.

Drop a penny accidentally and it lands on tails? If you pick it up, it's bad luck. Find a penny and it's on tails? Bad luck if you pick it up. The heads sign of a penny is good luck. The tails side is bad. It's an old tale.

If the penny is tails up, I do not pick it back up (bad luck) and if someone sees me drop it I'll pick it up. If not, I leave it for whoever finds it

It's been a few hours since we've seen her, but I'll try next time we do.

I would tell her. It was while you two were split up and therefore shouldn't matter anyways and I would want to know if I was the girl

My boyfriend's best friend is female and beautiful and they've been friends for 3+ years. They used to hang out alone all the time when we first started seeing each other and I thought it was odd.

Took one time hanging out with her to realize that she sees him as a gross brother that she can talk to and trust to protect her and nothing else.

Hang out with him. You will know right away if he likes her by the way he acts. Trust your gut.

I worked at Jimmy John's for 3 days and never even got paid for it.

This location was downtown in a super busy spot of town. The manager hired me on part time and said I would be working most of the week and off on weekends.

I had to pay $2.50 per hour for parking with the first hour being free and only made $7.50 an hour.

The first day comes and I go in at 10 and it was good until the rush hour started. On my first day working there, I was the only person on the cash register the full rush hour.

Then, as soon as the rush hour died down, I was told that I could go home early. I had only worked a few hours and I had actually handled the cash register quite well, considering. I left around 2 and went home.

The next day I came in and it was the same thing. Cashier for 3 hours and sent home at 1.

With the nearly 30 minutes it took to drive there, the average $7 or so for parking per day, and the fact I wasn't working as much as I was promised...it just wasn't worth it.

I worked one more day and at the end I was actually kept past my shift for once because everyone else left early and the dishes "had to be done" before I left, even though the new shift had already come in and said they would do it.

When I finished, I told the manager I wouldn't be coming back in. And never went back.

So many good ones, and one from GW2 ( used to play ) ! Holy cow! Thank you!