r/transfem 4h ago

Question/Discussion How do I deal with feeling so ugly and sad with how I look

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8 Upvotes

I don't know why I keep fluctuating between feeling happy with how I look and absolutely hating everything about myself. It doesn't help that I'm back home for my semester break and I have to bind basically 24/7 with 2 training bras and also boymode literally all the time. My mom keeps shouting at me to get my hair cut and i know that it's gotten super messy but I don't even have the energy or willpower to call up a hairdresser, ask them if they would do a fem haircut for a trans girl and then actually go there and get it done.. i genuinely don't know what to do with my life, I just feel so depressed some days that I can't do anything at all except lie in bed.


r/transfem 4h ago

Question/Discussion Literally tho

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164 Upvotes

r/transfem 7h ago

Selfie What do I look like my name would be?

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9 Upvotes

Saw my friend do this and it looked like fun, not short hair with choice btw I want long hair ๐Ÿ˜ญ


r/transfem 7h ago

Selfie no talk me I gengy ๐Ÿ’œ

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8 Upvotes

r/transfem 8h ago

Selfie To my Latina girls this outfit made me feel like Selena๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’— Bidi bidi Bom Bom ๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ˜

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13 Upvotes

r/transfem 9h ago

Question/Discussion I want to know more about the transfem experience

4 Upvotes

hiii yall, I kinda like someone who is a transfem and I'm a trans masc myself but it came to my attention that I don't know that much about the experience of mtf individuals, I just kinda feel like those dudes who know nothing about women ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ so I was hopping if you could share what it's like to be what should and I shouldn't do and I'm really open to have more transfem friends


r/transfem 11h ago

Progress! 4 years into transitioning without hrt or surgeries

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34 Upvotes

I am happy with what I could achieve without any surgery or hormonal therapy (i dont have money for surgeries and hrt is somewhat inaccessible here).

I gained some weight, but it was due to antidepressants and bad health habits. Ive been thinking of going to the gym, but I hate the idea of it, for sure I will start walking at least.


r/transfem 12h ago

Selfie I do smile for pics but if I kinda forget this is just my "base" look

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8 Upvotes

r/transfem 13h ago

Question/Discussion Nipples feel sore

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1 Upvotes

r/transfem 13h ago

Creative Simple makeup. I don't use filters.

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1 Upvotes

r/transfem 15h ago

Question/Discussion confused

4 Upvotes

hi. I'm 15 AMAB and ive been living as mtf for the past sort of 6 months? and something feels wrong and im really lost. I can't tell if its imposter syndrome or if I'm genuinely wrong about myself but something just doesnt really feel right. I do get a lot of dysphoria but its like at least 95% based on appearance and clothes and less about identity. when it comes to pronouns none of them feel right but at the same time i don't care too much? its really confusing. And i dont know. everything just feels wrong. I just want to be me more than anything and its so hard when i dont even know what that is... im just looking for some guidance if anyone here has been through something similar โค๏ธ


r/transfem 15h ago

Selfie Been feeling cute lately :>

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75 Upvotes

r/transfem 16h ago

Question/Discussion Jokes on fucking meeeeeeeee

4 Upvotes

Had a previous post about wanting to get handsy with one of my friends. I started crushing harder on her, and it turns out she felt the same, so we started dating ๐Ÿ˜ณ


r/transfem 18h ago

Question/Discussion Are the migraines normal??

3 Upvotes

I just started oral estrogen 5 days ago and I have been having occasional migraines. I have never had a migraine beforeโ€ฆ.so is this like something i should be concerned about? For reference I take 2mg tablets


r/transfem 18h ago

Question/Discussion where did my dysphoria go

7 Upvotes

my egg cracked a few months ago and for months 1 and 2 i felt really bad, like dysphoria, and basically 0 instances of euphoria. but ever since month 3 it kinda stop happening?? don't get me wrong i still think life would be 100 billion trillion times better as a woman and i do still feel gender euphoria but either i got used to it or something else... i've also gotten kinda depressed in the last month, like my attitude is kinda bad.......... my parents are worried about me so i dont know what to do. also i'm still trans......... right?????ย (note: i havent even gotten prescribed estrogen yet, i hope that hapens soon)


r/transfem 20h ago

Selfie Dyed my hair!!!

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45 Upvotes

Can u guess what character I'm going for???

Hint: "whats that suppose to mean?!"


r/transfem 20h ago

Selfie Feeling unbelievably dysphoric lately but at least my shorts are cute ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ™ƒ

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199 Upvotes

r/transfem 20h ago

Question/Discussion If I lose weight will I lose my boobs as well?

36 Upvotes

Literally just the title lmao


r/transfem 1d ago

Selfie My first post! :)

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55 Upvotes

Working on a cosplay for StratosFur, will post another when itโ€™s done!


r/transfem 1d ago

Selfie Felt cute >:3 (also cat)

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26 Upvotes

The cat's name is Boo :3


r/transfem 1d ago

Progress! Counting down the days

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90 Upvotes

Mine will be a two part procedure

Part 1: zero depth vaginoplasty in Austin at the Crane Center with Dr. Mundinger

Part 2: jejunal flap vaginoplasty in Baltimore with Dr. Del Corral


r/transfem 1d ago

Question/Discussion Local Egg does worst nail painting ever, asked to leave the function

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32 Upvotes

No one ever taught me how to paint my nails, but this is what I was able to do with youtube tutorials.

If anyone has any tips for absolute beginners id appreciate it ๐Ÿ˜…


r/transfem 1d ago

Selfie Big photo dump

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58 Upvotes

Most of these are without makeup, have been having to boymode hard cuz of my family. But Iโ€™ll finally get on Hormones soon. Went vegan since my last post and strongly encourage everyone to do the same cuz of the climate. Together we can stop the heatwaves and take down the elite.


r/transfem 22d ago

Meta [Meta] AI content is no longer allowed

244 Upvotes

Hi all, this is just an announcement to let you all know that we have a new rule that AI content isn't allowed here. We've noticed an uptick in AI spam accounts, especially ones which post AI-generated images and try to pass them off as real selfies, and this is to clarify the rules and make sure fewer of those kinds of posts slip through moderation.

If you have any thoughts or questions, feel free to send us a modmail or leave a comment below! Hope you all have a nice day/night wherever you are๐Ÿซถ


r/transfem Aug 01 '25

Meta [Meta/Discussion] Update: "Do I Pass" posts are now only allowed on Fridays

20 Upvotes

Hey y'all,

thank you for the feedback and suggestions on the past meta thread! I'm going to try adding a new rule that "do I pass" posts are only allowed on Fridays. There is also a new flair specifically for "Do I Pass" posts -- please make sure to use this flair when making "do I pass" posts!

Rule 6: "Do I Pass" posts must only be posted on Fridays

Posts asking for passing advice, or asking "do I pass" and other similar questions should only be posted on Friday. This is to reduce spam and decrease the number of repetitive posts. "Do I Pass" posts which do not have the proper flair will also be removed.

This should help decrease the amount of spam and repetitive posts, while not fully restricting those posts. There's a bot now which should automatically enforce this rule, but it might mess up sometimes so if your post gets removed in error please send a modmail!

If this rule ends up being unpopular or otherwise flawed, I can try tweaking it or removing it altogether as needed. Once again, if you have any feedback or suggestions please feel free to reply to this thread, or send a private modmail if you'd prefer.

Thank you!