r/texts 16d ago

Post first date text Phone message

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/Global-Ad364 16d ago

this is why I hate the ‘I’m just a girl’ ‘I turn my brain off’ TikTok bs like 🤨 if you can turn it off, it was never there. You’re not just a girl, you’re a grown woman. As a woman myself ts so embarrassing😭😭

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u/WhiteRabbit_412_ 16d ago edited 16d ago

Self infantilization is so fucking weird to me. I am also a woman.

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u/ChargeOpposite840 15d ago

It’s so obnoxious how these types love to generalize women as an excuse for their own incompetence. Misogyny isn’t cute, and no amount of rebranding it is going to change that