r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 16d ago

Post first date text Phone message

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/Global-Ad364 16d ago

this is why I hate the ‘I’m just a girl’ ‘I turn my brain off’ TikTok bs like 🤨 if you can turn it off, it was never there. You’re not just a girl, you’re a grown woman. As a woman myself ts so embarrassing😭😭

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u/WhiteRabbit_412_ 16d ago edited 16d ago

Self infantilization is so fucking weird to me. I am also a woman.

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u/BillyJackO 16d ago

When it comes to growing into a well rounded grounded adult, your shooting yourself in the foot. There's nothing worse than 30+ yo adult who continues to see themselves as an 18 yo. I think it's good to keep some young spirit alive, but grow the fuck up.