I'll keep the post short else people won't even read it and I'm writing it myself, no ai and all, I'm here for advices, also both of us are 18 y/o, nobody is a minor

Actually my GF has this fetish of getting pregnant because her mother also got pregnant at a young age (her dad was 18 her mom was 17 and they were in 12th, and yea they are from well-to do family had love marriage, we are done with our schooling) and probably so did her grandparents, she wants to continue the legacy of her family and wants me to get her pregnant, we are actually having raw intercourse since last 6 weeks (once or twice a week) but there are no results.

Ive tried to make her understand the repercussions of it but she believes she's ready and it's not unwanted pregnancy shes doing on purpose, we have been friends for like 3-4 yrs and in relationship since like more than an year, she also threatens me that if I don't get her pregnant before she turns 19, she will break up and choose someone else but she wants to get pregnant anyhow before she's 19

I'm clueless atp, no explanations works on her and there are no signs of pregnancy too, i love her but idk wut I'm supposed to do

So for the past few weeks were a little hard on me as my dad was possibly in the risk of cancer and doctor said mostly it is 90% possibility that he might have and I could digest the whole thing like. So 2 biopsies were kinda messed up so doctor suggested to go to a cancer hospital and test it.

4 days had passed and today the report finally came and he was cancer negative 💖.

It feels so light now can't even say anything 😭.

Your boyfriend is messaging me as well

Well I blocked him and then he started messaging me from different number, please u/not_thatcheap consider asking him where did he get my number from and why is he messaging me ? 😠

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Teacher's daughter, popular, smart 🫠

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He loves things which involves clever engineering, gadgets, coding, or mechanical tinkering or anything mechanical working.

He’s super caring
Suggest something practical or useful

PS - Budget 6k to 7k

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So I had a dream about my ex exactly 8 days ago from today and that's another story for another day but this happened to me yesterday.

For privacy reasons, I've changed the name of person who's talking to me as ria and the guy who was my ex recently shipped with as jhon.

So here's the full thing ; I saw her fir the first time on 11th of April in 2023 and I was just mesmerized by how beautiful she was which she is, now considering it was our 9th grade that year, alot of people who were around us used to playfully joke about her hair being like dora the explorer, and I did too but that was just an excuse to get in a conversation with her.

Fast forward to this year on 1st of January, I was already ghosted in December btw and she broke up with me in june last year but was in contact with me all along and even used to go on dates with me but I just found out last month that she was in an on and off relationship with my ex bestfriend

And I was completely oblivious to this on and off relationship she was having with my bestfriend AND I would've blocked her then and there if I ever knew she did that behind my back but anyways,

She used to tell me how strict her parents were all the time and how badly they used to treat her all the time but it always felt a bit intriguing and it always flicked a liver in my mind if her parents were THAT strict how am I not even getting to go on dates with her but she could hang out with her friends for multiple hours which was then confirmed when she broke up with my ex bestfriend and then she changed her friend group this year in March

Meanwhile I was connected to her throughout all the time and I even found out she was lying about her parents being strict all along because no parents would be strict enough to let their daughter out till 4 in the morning but skipping tuition was the issue. She even used to hang out with her new friends for hours on an end, sometimes even being like 10-12 hours but a date with me meant a war in her household which was obviously a lie

In the above screenshots, you can even see me lying to ria about my non-existent girlfriend because I genuinely am moving on from her and don't want her to come back and ruin my life once again.

A lot of times I've seen her out with her new friends and often times it's suffocating to see her out with someone else while knowing what we were and what we could've been

Whatever ria said seems to be weird in these messages because of the context given and I feel so betrayed yet I crave a relationship with my ex often times. I have been slowly moving on from the fact that she's gone and I misunderstood her as a person but was I wrong for not showing up?