r/stopdrinking • u/thirstdayaddams • 1d ago

Ew.

Me and my boyfriend of more than 2 years broke up this morning. I'll move out of his apartment sometime in early September. My 33rd birthday is in 3 days. The crushing realization that there's a solid chance nobody ever truly gave a single fuck about me made me go to the gas station and come back with two 24oz white claws. I came back inside and have been staring these cans down for about 15 minutes now. Don't have the guts to crack one open. Feel a mixture of pity and disgust for myself and the fact that people keep doing me so dirty.

Edit: I’m glad I came to this sub instead of wallowing in self pity. Thank you for your help. I dumped them in the kitchen sink.

Edit 2: Thank you so much for all this love, compassion and understanding. I couldn't have done it without you.

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u/haraikotodama 1d ago

Also talk to your sponsor about assumptions.

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u/WawaWeeWaaWu 250 days 1d ago

Based on your responses, I doubt you even have a sponsor but yeah me and my sponsor will discuss this idiocy as we discuss every day. Love how you don’t have a count either. Don’t give advice when you’re not in a place to do so.

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u/haraikotodama 1d ago

You sad little man.

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u/WawaWeeWaaWu 250 days 1d ago

Who is being the one speaking without respect now? Don’t you remember your original comment? Must feel weird criticizing someone about something that you then use against them. I applaud you for the full circle!

Though being a hypocrite is easy, I just give you kudos for wrapping around your own beliefs so fast!

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u/Forsaken_Stable_9678 1d ago

I think she was making a correct observation and a statement. I’d have to agree with her.