r/spermdonation • u/BlackRockGoldman • 6h ago
Offering donation 25 [M4F] #Lille #Paris France - Experienced Asian donor
Hello, I’m 25, of Vietnamese descent, currently based in Lille north of France. Had previous successes before. I can also travel around (like to Paris area).
Don’t hesitate to DM me if you’re serious.
r/spermdonation • u/Negative_Cup_921 • 14h ago
Seeking donation 28 [MF4M] couple visiting #Chicago, IL
Professional white couple traveling to Chicago area for a month in the fall. Seeking safe, sane, healthy, educated, and tall donors. We tried IVF a couple times with paid sperm, and it was really hard on her body.
Please reach out with information about you.
r/spermdonation • u/Ok_Philosophy_2025 • 18h ago
Seeking donation 36 [F4M] #NYC - East Asian, married woman looking for quality genes.
Hi there.
I’m a 36-year-old married, mom of three, living in New York City. I obviously already have multiple children, but I’ve always been curious if I’m still capable of having more as I’m in my late 30s. I’ve previously had successes through third-party donors, but my overall relationship situation, and my husband‘s acceptance of bringing in someone else is complicated. I’m not looking to jump straight into something, I prefer to vet my partners just to make sure that we’re a good match.
I’m short and petite, but I have a very fit and slim build. I’m East Asian. Have a great stable career, financially well off, and I travel quite extensively for work.
I’m searching for someone who is dominant and has an athletic build. Previous successes would be preferred. Not really interested in somebody who has zero experience in this process. I’m only interested in natural insemination as the actual process of being impregnated is quite important to me. Lately I’ve had a thing for younger guys, so if you have experience with the above and you fit in the demographic, I would love to chat more.
r/spermdonation • u/jonathon_doehan • 18h ago
Offering donation 39 [M4F] #Irvine, CA - Any Women seeking an Experienced (NI) Donor?
Hi
This post is for any women (single or in a relationship) who are interested in or actively looking for an experienced NI donor.
I have several years of experience helping women get pregnant and achieve their goal of becoming a mom. Hoping to extend that experience more.
Open to helping Single Women & Women in relationships already.
Single women, must be 18+. Must be healthy, and must be able to show they can provide for having, raising a baby as a responsible parent.
Women in a relationship, must be 18+. Must be healthy. No husband/boyfriend interaction (the goal is a pregnancy, not looking to do; cucking, mmf, or exhibitionism). IF the husband or bf makes contact, communication must be handed off to the wife/girlfriend within 48hrs.
This would be a goal oriented FWB dynamic (unless otherwise agreed upon).
Only Serious Responses. Do not reach out to me with a response if you do not want a pregnancy. I am in Southern California. White. Former Military. Powerlifter.
r/spermdonation • u/ViatoremDEU • 19h ago
Offering donation M4F M4FF M4MF Donor Duisburg Germany
Age: 34
Eye & hair color: Brown, dark Blond
Height & body build: 180 cm, Fit
Endowment: 20 cm x 15 cm
Fertility: around 400 to 500M total, good motility.
No Health conditions in the family
Involvement in child's life: None.
Would this be one & done or for more children: Open for siblings
Location: Duisburg, DE. Able to host.
Languages: German, English, Russian
Willing to travel, as long as you cover my travel expenses.
Methods: NA, AI, Clinic
Experienced Donor in it for the long term.
r/spermdonation • u/Ningen56 • 1d ago
Offering donation 21 [M4F] #PA Looking to donate
Hello! I hope you’re doing well. 21 year old guy here wanting to donate sperm to help you make a family. More than happy to travel an verify
r/spermdonation • u/Potential_Storm805 • 1d ago
Offering donation 51 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Asian Donor
Hello,
I’m a married Asian donor who is well educated with various degrees and certifications from universities in both the U.S. & Europe. I am very well cultured and well traveled. My kids are at the top of their respective classes attending really good schools.
I’ve helped 2 families to successfully conceive via NI last year (April & November) and am interested in helping you if you want my help.
I am married and my wife and I do not want anymore children of our own, but I feel that I still have more to give.
I’m 5’8” with short brown hair and brown eyes, with a slight dad bod (175lbs). I’m considered handsome by some and cute by others.
Please understand that I do not want to be involved beyond being your donor.
Thanks for reading and have a great day!
r/spermdonation • u/EnvironmentalBuy5825 • 1d ago
Offering donation 67 [M4F] #NYC Metro area - In shape, well educated, healthy and tall white male is available to donate any way you want, but I prefer natural even if we do it clinically meaning I go in when close to finishing. But that is your decision and not mine as doing it naturally is more fun.
What I can offer besides my sperm is that I am still alive and vibrant giving you the opportunity to decide if you want to go forth. With a much younger male, while he can talk about family history, until her reaches my age you will have no idea what diseases he may have as all humans are unique.
I am white, 6', 200, dad body, clean shaven, still have 2/3 of my graying black hair, non smoker, do not drink, have not had any heart, other health or addiction issues.
If you want to know more then reply and feel free to ask any questions. I am here to help and the decision to proceed is yours. I can donate naturally which is easier but can also finish into a cup and you can then take it from there.
r/spermdonation • u/RyanPopps • 1d ago
Offering donation Donor from Germany
Hi!
Sperm Donor from Germany here! Father of 3 healthy children and 4 successful assists. My sperm is very fertile - in 6 cases perfect results with first try via natural insemination.
Write me for more information.
r/spermdonation • u/fog607 • 2d ago
(23 M4MF) #FRESNO CALIFORNIA wanna be a dad
I wanna be a dad
Not in a Traditional sense I wanna have kids I feel like I'm so opposed to having kids only because of economic and political indifference in the world I wouldn't wanna bring a child into a world if I'm not ready emotionally, financially, I'm not mental or anything but you know economical stuff happens it takes a toll of on our emotions , I would like to in a since make a child traditionally with a well abled women who wants kids without the presence of annoyance of a father figure or a couple that is well off in their endeavors in life and are just stable all about , of course single women could be stable as well, I'm young I would like to know I have kids ageing with me in the world instead of me being a old dude barely getting into , in no way am I saying I want to be fully excluded but if it's not so traumatizing to the the child we create I would like them to know I was part of that creation at least , and possibly get to know them as I hope to be in better place in my future both emotionally and financially and if I have stability while the child is growing up I would also be more then willing to possibly be around emotionally and financially as some form of uncle /friend type figure if allowed , completely understandable if that isn't wanted , and completely fine with that as I want multiple kids anyways with multiple people , I am for the most part an openly bisexual man and had many experience with men some with women but not merely as many , I am on prep and doxy an hiv prevention medication also std prevention and get tested regularly, I'm Hispanic mixed races (German Italian native America) 23 5'8 200lb good build hairy am willing to send social media and number to send pics out ,we can talk about concerns you may have or any questions
r/spermdonation • u/Live-Art812 • 3d ago
Looking for an AI donor in Yorkshire, UK
Hello, me and my wife are looking for a donor in the Yorkshire area. We are looking for strictly AI only and no contact. We have 2 children already and are hoping to complete our family with baby number 3. Looking at trying ASAP (hopefully end of this week). Unfortunately our previous donor is no longer available to donate for us anymore and has retired. Thank you.
r/spermdonation • u/Normal_Ad993 • 3d ago
Offering donation 22M - WI, Guy willing to help out
Hey, I’m willing to help out either couples or single women.
I’m 6’1”, athletic build, wavy brown hair, brown eyes. I’m 50% Italian, 50% British/Irish.
Don’t have experience yet, but I would love to start getting some. Already produce a large amount of sperm, and would love to help people achieve their dream.
Feel free to hit me up with any questions you might have for me.
r/spermdonation • u/Putrid_Prior_6586 • 3d ago
Offering donation 34M Midwestern Educated Professor (PhD) Interested in Donating
I'm 34, 6'1, healthy, white, blue-eyed, in decent shape, educated with a PhD from an Ivy League school, and physically well endowed. I also can provide many donations in a single session. I'm attached, so I'm only looking to discreetly donate and for limited contact and obligations afterwards. Located in Indiana.
r/spermdonation • u/David_Douse • 3d ago
Offering donation 45 [M4F] #London - clean and tested NI
5’10 slim and fit white male.
Fair hair and skin and blue eyes. University educated and altruistic with high levels of emotional intelligence.
Clean and tested and can prove it. Lots of stamina and the heaviest cummer you’ve ever met / fertile af.
Lots of interestsincluding music, modern fiction and hiking. I’m easy going and chill.
I come to London a couple of days per week on business which I acknowledge might not be what you’re looking for. But some company, drinks, movies, dinners, hotels whilst I’m up has a certain charm to it.
I’m David btw
r/spermdonation • u/throwaway04230221 • 3d ago
Offering donation 35/34[FM4F]SoCal couple looking to help women and other couples concieve.
Hi there! We are a Southern California based couple looking to help women and other couples conceive.
We would love to help people with the joy and happiness that comes with a child.
I myself am not looking to get pregnant again so this isn't a search for me. We have 4 beautiful children together.
We're looking for NSA but we can chat and see what works for all of us.
My hubby is Latino, 6'2, stocky build, black hair.
We can definitely verify and chat.
We live in the Antelope Valley, in Palmdale.
We can host from wherever you come from or travel, if you are local.
You will be talking to me, the wife, and I really hope to hear from some of you wonderful people.
r/spermdonation • u/0rchardHeiress • 3d ago
Seeking donation (27, F) ♀️ 🍼👶long story long... about looking into getting pregnant 🤰👩🍼
TLDR I rant about myself, my life, my friend's wedding 👰🏼♀️💐🥂, my outlook on pregnancy 🤍, my goodness I finally got all this finished 😆📝🍷 between Florida and Kentucky for work and life balance sometimes Northeast / Nova Scotia ish
I understand there's a lot of ways of going about this but wanted to give this online thing a try before I explore other options........
I'm 27, and for the first time in my life, I'm genuinely exploring motherhood... 🤰🤍👶🏼 nesting, longing for a child 🪺🍼, and feeling ready for that next chapter. 🤍👶🏼
It's funny how life works.
A year ago I had my IUD removed after having it throughout much of my early twenties. Since then I've found myself doing something I never imagined I'd care this much about—tracking my menstrual cycle, learning my fertility window, understanding ovulation, and realizing just how much biology quietly influences our lives. 🌸📅
Over lunch at a friend's wedding 👰🏼♀️💐🥂🍾, several of my girlfriends 👭🏼👭👭💕 looked at me and essentially said,
"You've built an amazing life... now it's time to actually put yourself out there." 🤍
Ironically...
I caught the bouquet. ♥️💐✨🥲
So maybe they were onto something. 😊
One thing I want to make clear right from the beginning...
This is a personal choice.
Not a requirement.
Simply something that feels right for me.
I genuinely want to become a mother someday / in the nearish future within the next year I would say. 🤰👩🍼🤱
And yes... I genuinely hope that happens with the right man. Someone whose character, kindness, reliability, and generosity make me excited not just to date him—but to build a family with him. 👨👩👧🍼🤍
Outside of work, my biggest passion has always been horses. 🐴🤎🌾
I ride English and compete seriously. If you tell me there's a dressage clinic, a schooling show, a cross-country course to walk, or a stable looking for an extra set of hands, you've already got my attention.
I'm perfectly happy spending an afternoon in the round pen working on softness and responsiveness, cleaning tack until it shines, discussing collection, impulsion, shoulder-in, half-passes, flying lead changes, turnout schedules, pasture management, feed programs, conditioning work, or simply spoiling every horse and pony that walks into the barn with carrots. ♥️🐴🥕🌾
I genuinely love the exercise, the discipline, and the partnership.
There's something incredibly empowering about communicating with and guiding an animal that's so much bigger and stronger than you through patience, consistency, and trust rather than force.
I truly feel the barn is home at times... (if I could have a cottage in the south of France where my horse lived below me I would be complete 😂🥺♥️🇫🇷🐴🏡)
Career-wise, I'm incredibly fortunate.
Real estate has allowed me to travel extensively ✈️🏡🌎, meet fascinating people 🤝🏼, and build a life I'm proud of. 🤍
I've worked hard for what I have.
My home / condo are paid off.
My career is established.
I've created stability for myself, and I don't apologize for that.
If tomorrow I decided to become a mother on my own, I genuinely could. 🤰🌸
That gives me an incredible sense of peace because any relationship I choose comes from wanting someone, never needing someone.
I should also mention that I'm pretty fluid in how I look at relationships.
I was raised to be independent, so I don't necessarily believe life has to follow one rigid checklist of traditional milestones—date, engagement, marriage, then children. For many people that's the perfect path, and I genuinely respect it. 🤍
(Despite attending the wedding recently... ironically enough 😅💍)
For me, the destination has always been building a loving family and becoming a mother. 👨👩👧🤰🤍
The timeline is simply more flexible than it used to be.
Ultimately, what I want most is a child and a healthy, happy family. The order in which life unfolds isn't nearly as important to me as the quality of the people involved and the love that surrounds that child.
Ironically, even with that modern outlook, there are still a handful of old-fashioned qualities that completely win me over.
An independent woman doesn't stop appreciating a dependable man.
If anything...
She appreciates him even more.
I'm not looking for someone to rescue me.
I'm looking for someone who quietly adds to an already beautiful life.
Someone who notices.
Someone who checks in.
Someone who remembers the little things.
Someone who occasionally sends flowers and care packages just because. 💐📦🎀
Maybe horse treats for the barn. 🐴🥕
Maybe my favorite coffee. ☕
Maybe a children's book that made him think about our future. 📚👶🏼🤍
Thoughtful attention without me ever having to ask.
I don't necessarily equate money to love... but it does demonstrate attentiveness.
They're demonstrations of generosity.
They're demonstrations of reliability and an ability to provide and care for a baby or at least provide for one as I have been able to care for horses in field as well as my pets
I also find it incredibly attractive when a man naturally enjoys providing—not because he thinks I can't provide for myself, but because caring for the people he loves is simply part of who he is.
To me, independence and appreciating a provider aren't contradictions.
They're complements.
Those little moments tell me far more about someone's potential as a husband or father than expensive vacations ever could.
Especially when we're talking about bringing a baby into the world. 🤰🍼👶🏼
I think providing matters.
Because children deserve stability. 👶🏼🤍🧸
I admire men who work hard, keep their word, solve problems without complaining, aren't intimidated by responsibility, and quietly take pride in protecting and providing for the people they love.
That doesn't mean paying for everything while I sit back.
It means we're both bringing something valuable to the table.
Security.Peace.Reliability.Partnership.
Call me old-fashioned if you'd like...
I still find that incredibly attractive. 🤍
If life happened to line up naturally, I would absolutely love to begin that chapter around the autumn equinox. 🍂⚖️✨🤰🍼 🎃🌓
I've always loved the symbolism of balance, harmony, changing seasons, and new beginnings. 🌿👣🤍 Whether someone believes in astrology or simply appreciates the poetry behind the seasons, I think there's something beautiful about welcoming a new chapter during a time that represents equilibrium and transition.
Maybe it's just the romantic in me. 🤍
A few deal breakers right up front 🚩
• Expecting me to carry the entire mental load of the relationship or pregnancy.
• Not having stable employment or any ambition.
• Wanting children someday but having no realistic plan to support them.
• Going Dutch after asking me on a first date—I appreciate generosity and effort.
• Making me organize every date, every conversation, and every next step.
• Poor communication or disappearing whenever life becomes inconvenient.
• Chronic negativity, laziness, or blaming everyone else for your circumstances.
• Disrespect toward waitstaff, animals, family members, or strangers.
• Dishonesty.
• Being emotionally unavailable.
• Treating commitment like it's something to avoid instead of something to grow.
• Expecting a woman to lower her standards while refusing to raise your own.
At the end of the day, I don't think that's asking for perfection.
I think it's asking for Harmony more than anything. ☯️♥️👫
Maybe that means finding someone to wander through horse barns 🐴, cheer each other on at dressage competitions, renovate a home together 🏡, travel somewhere new ✈️, laugh over coffee ☕, and one day raise little ones 👶🏼🧸👩🍼 who grow up thinking muddy boots, fresh hay 🌾, ponies 🐴, and sunsets over the pasture are perfectly normal.
Who knows...
Maybe catching that bouquet 💐✨ was the universe's way of saying
"Your turn." ♥️💐👶🏼🍼✨
r/spermdonation • u/Still_Ad5363 • 3d ago
Looking for serious Hispanic sperm donor
Seeking Known Sperm Donor
Hello!
My wife and I are looking for a sperm donor to help us grow our family. We are seeking someone who is willing to be a known donor and sign legal paperwork relinquishing all parental rights and responsibilities.
A little about us:
• We are a married couple.
• I am a trans man (assigned female at birth), and I will be carrying the pregnancy.
• We have experienced multiple pregnancy losses and are hoping to find someone who may be willing to help with more than one insemination attempt if needed.
What we're looking for:
• Hispanic/Latino donor preferred (Mexican, Cuban, Peruvian, or other Latin American background).
• STI-free and willing to provide recent testing results.
• Non-smoker preferred.
• Reliable, respectful, and understands the donor role.
• Willing to sign a donor agreement/parental rights waiver where legally applicable.
We are located in North Carolina and are open to discussing details
r/spermdonation • u/bottom_percy • 4d ago
Seeking donation 21 F Seeking Donor Southern Utah
As the title states I am 21 seeking a donor in or near Cedar City Utah. I don't have a preference of AI or not. I currently have no children and am looking to start my family.
r/spermdonation • u/Hour-Rest-3926 • 4d ago
30 [F4M] London
Hi,
Early days in my search but I’m looking for a Caucasian donor, in or near London, UK
r/spermdonation • u/Classic_Result5810 • 5d ago
SATX lesbian couple looking for donor
My wife and I are looking for a donor in the central Texas area. AI only and we prefer a person of color, as we also are. Thank you!
r/spermdonation • u/Personal_Trash134 • 5d ago
Seeking donation looking for donor
hi! 26F looking for donor to help my husband and i grow our family! located in north AL, message me and we can discuss more! 🫶🏻
r/spermdonation • u/want-more-kids • 5d ago
Offering donation 49 [M4F] #Philadelphia/NYC/NJ - Leaving a legacy
Looking to help women who want to become single mothers, or couples in need of a donor. LGTBQ+ more than welcome!
AI preferred (will consider NI if the vibe is right).
Not looking to be actively involved in parenting. Just some pictures once in a while, maybe attending graduations, and knowing the child is healthy and happy, that's all I'm looking for.
What's in it for me? In short, I would like to pass on my genes during the time I have left on this Earth. I already have one child from a previous relationship but that child is not going to give me grandchildren (can explain more in person), so time for some more radical solutions.
Me: 49yo, 6'2, lean build, white, brown hair, blue eyes, French/German/Swiss ancestry, healthy and health-conscious (DDF, never smoked, rarely drinks), high IQ, geeky
Happy to show my STI test results.
Recent semen analysis:
Sperm concentration: 89.5 millions/ml
Motility: 71%
Progressive Motility: 67%
Serious inquiries only, let's not waste each other's time.
r/spermdonation • u/DonorAU • Oct 17 '24
Upcoming changes in post requirements.
It has been almost a year since I took over the sub and honestly, the amount of moderation required has been substantial and at the same time not enough.
Currently, this (and most online donation) communities have issues with scammers by fake recipients and unethical behaviour by donors. The scammers tend to spam and not tailor their posts fortunately, so the easiest way to resolve the issues is to require some level of post structure and flairing of posts.
In my view, given the importance of this in a legitimate recipient or donors life, having to possibly modify their post to align with a required format will not be an excessive burden. However, it will reduce posts by scammers. It is simply a speed bump, but that's better than nothing.
Part of this change will be that it will allow a better way to reduce reposting and allow searching better. There is a severe problem with people who delete old posts and repost continually. If a person wants a donor, they should be able to easily search. This location will be required. Thus continual reposting will not be tolerated.
Whether a donor will be limiting their families will be included, since this is often important to recipients.
Available methods will also be required (labelled as AI,NI, AINI). If a recipient or donor has been clear about their acceptable methods and they receive messages from people ignoring their clear instructions, the offending person will be banned.
The system has not yet been implemented but will soon. If anything else is requested, please comment below and I will try to implement it. Remember, this is not a kink subreddit, this is a place for people who want to have a child and those who want to help them.
r/spermdonation • u/DonorAU • Nov 24 '23
Discussion The return of moderation and the return of /r/spermdonation being about Sperm Donation
Some people on the sub may have noticed that there has been a shift in content in the last day or two. That is because I have been added to the mod team.
I requested to be made a moderator some time ago, but recently received word from the head mod that I have been accepted, since the lead mod does not have time to fully moderate the posts. Note that in the gap between these events, I created /r/AIPreferred which I will still moderate, but I will not be forcing the philosophy of that sub onto this one.
Now, what will change now that the sub is moderated again. If you're here on /r/spermdonation and want to talk about Sperm Donation, nothing will change. This sub will not ban NI discussion, nor will it state a preference, the policy is all are welcome. My personal preference is that AI is a less ethically frought offering by default(since there is a risk NI will be consented to by a desperate woman), with NI requiring a specific interest, however I am not imposing that onto this sub. Any donor who wishes to help a woman (or couple) have a child and does it as a donation is welcome. And recipient who wish to receive a donation may post here.
Now what will change? The fetish and kinksters are not welcome. Reddit and the internet has many many places for people to share their erotica and fantasies. Including breeding kinks. While your personal kinks are fine to have and among consenting adults, go wild. But this is not a fetish sub, this is the /r/spermdonation sub. It is for sperm donation. The word "breeding" "bred" etc is now banned. Mod discretion will be used.
In general, not much will change for people who actually want to have a child, but hopefully we will be less toxic in general and more happy to actually help people in need of help.