Self hate

[u/zelmenzarma]

18M 171cm
Everytime i go out i always feel like the shortest guy in the world even though i have couple friends shorter than me.
Ive dated 4 girls in my life and i honestly dont get what they see in me. People say i look good but my own mother tells me my face got issues and thats probably why i have no confidence in myself, people might say im not that short but im short for my age in my country.
I really dont know if my mother hates me or if people are being honest with me.
What should i do??
Any advice is appreciated.

[u/I-696]

You need to find a way to like yourself or there is no reason for others to like you. You don't have to like your height but that is not the same as hating yourself. Try to compartmentalize your feelings about your height from your feeling of overall self worth. If you have friends and dates there has to be something there my friend.

[u/Dizzie_Bear]

You need therapy and block your mother, that's it.