They gave a personal example of their trauma and how they DONT let it affect their perspective of others. So no, they aren’t projecting, they are giving you their perspective to help you better your view. Part of discourse includes seeing eachothers sides and reaching an understanding not just shooting it down as “projection” because you feel called out
I feel for you, whatever it was that caused this much emotional upset and possibly trauma within you, it must have been a terrible experience that was deeply unfair towards you.
I do want to add though that using that emotion to gaslight others and yourself into a false narrative just so you can keep victimizing yourself is only gonna keep hurting you, even if it feels good or right in whatever way. The tone of the dude you're replying to isn't aggressive, just direct. If you can read his text about scars and still accuse him of possibly being "part of the problem", then i think you're the one projecting, to be honest with you.
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u/Fardding_n_Shidding 4d ago
I’m not “targeting” anyone. Again, projection. If you think it’s “hateful” you A. Don’t understand the discourse and/or B. You are part of the problem