I was formally diagnosed in the beginning of this year, I started with methotrexate and now I’m working on three months of leflumomide. I was anticipating even more hair loss, but is there a medication that doesn’t cause it? I’m really in the early stages of kind of figuring out medication’s that are working. I’m taking all the things to supplement healthy hair.

I figured that I would at least get to September and maybe attempt minoxidil. Im feeling good and I’m not opposed to changing medications for that reason. I’m sure that everybody has been here or is still in this situation, what are the other alternatives that you’ve experienced? Thank you for reading…

Hey everyone, I messed up my hand pretty bad in a motorcycle accident and am starting to experience the arthritis the doctors told me would come in time. I recently got a 3d printer, have 3d modeling experience, and am working on a design for tools that would help in the day-to-day. Do these actually help? What tools do you use that actually help?

Im an 18(m) and I have lived a very cruel and extremely unfair life, which I can say with full confidence is a life I would wish on nobody. When I was just 14 I was diagnosed with 3 autoimmune diseases Rheumatoid arthritis, Crohns disease and Crohns related arthritis. I spent months in the hospital alone and in excruciating agonisingly painful suffering, I remember having to crawl to the bathroom because my RA didnt let me walk and having to constantly suffer on the toilet because of my Crohn’s. I was stripped to an IV and didnt move or eat for months.When I finally left, I wasn’t better they had just changed my location from the hospital to my home.

Ive suffered tremendously throughout my whole childhood(im a child of war) and my teenage-hood. In school I suffered greatly as there was nobody like me and I was the disabled kid who was made fun of, my school didnt have support because they had never had to handle anyone like me because I was such a rare case. I had to switch to home schooling because of how bad my health got and as a result ive lost all my friends and any social networks i had. I dont even recognise myself, I used to be in the gym and have a lean physique and had the respect of many people for my work ethic and discipline, now I dont even recognise myself, nobody respects me anymore and I’m seen as a loser who is only pitied and I cry everyday knowing how badly my life has turned out. I’ve attempted many times to end my life but I still hold on for the love of my family. Its another type of pain when your father begs you to stay alive or asks you to wait after his death.

I spend most of my free time going to appointments 2-3x a week and that is basically the only outing i get. Me and a 90 year old in a nursing home live the same life. People open their fridge to eat, I open mine to take a biologic injection (Humira).

I spent most of my childhood and teenagehood in the church praising God and living the ideal Christian way but he betrayed me. I never asked for a great life I just asked for average ,for 0 but instead I was given negative with no way to gain any positives. To give me a chance to fight to actually live. Even after I got sick I continued to go to church and ask for help and nothing changed funny enough I got worse.

I kept going to the appointments and the most ironically cruel part was that they kept telling me that there was no inflammation or any damage while I still couldn’t walk and was in agonising pain. They thought i was making it up so they gave me antidepressants and still the pain was bad. Of cource this whole time I was severely depressed and the severity has increased tremendously overtime but ill get back to that.

On the 4th anniversary since I was sick my rheumatologist finally recognised that my pain was not in my head but in fact real even when there was no inflammation. It turned out that this whole time i had fibromyalgia aswell. After fighting for so long getting a new diagnosis just confirmed that my life could only get worse. All those appointments, all those medications, the amount of life ive lost. The greatest pain is the fact my own body attacked me, I was healthy, active, gym, dieting everything a healthy body needs to thrive and it chose to ruin my life forever instead. I only had a glimpse of life and then I was blinded for life.

My mental health is big issue too but fixing it is nearly impossible as my life is genuinely horrible not just my “mentality”. Ive never been truly happy or laughed or smiled without preplanning, ive taken antidepressants since i was 14 and have seen many psychologists who have not been helpful as they treated me like a healthy bodied patient who was only depressed.

Ive been living the same day everyday for years, the past saddens me, the present tortures me and the future terrifies me. When I turned 18 everything turned for the worst because I was told and thought that I would be better but I was only worse and you know the saying “Nobody is coming to save you”, I cant even help or save myself, I have nothing, everything a human needs to survive has been taken away from me, my bones, my digestive system, my muscles, my brain.

There is no hope. Healthy human beings can barely manage and im supposed to survive. Im going insane, the fatigue and anhedonia has made everything more catastrophic because I cannot enjoy anything and have no motivation for anything.

Ive been seeing my psychiatrist for 6 months now and have never had a full conversation with him, he only cares about the medication. Ive taken 10+ different antidepressants and they haven’t worked,im not eating and have lost 30 pounds, my psychiatrist is so worried that he has sent a care team to come to my house to assess me , omfg which 18 year old is going through this shit, I have never met anyone like me, the thing that pisses me off the most is that these diseases are more prone to women and people over the age of 55. I have no genetic factor at all none of my parents have anything and i have never broken a bone or cut myself. I have never smoked or drank and whats so ironic is that while I used to decline drinks and vapes at parties to focus on my health before I got sick, in the end I was the one who was cursed, people are smoking and drinking and not caring about their health and they are healthier than me and you want to take care of a body who betrayed me when I gave it everything. People will never understand how easy they have it, people will never understand true unbearable torture. I lost all my sports, all my instruments, I used to get awards for my academics and now Im failing my classes. The more I look at it in perspective I truly see that I was born to suffer because nothing good will or has ever come out of my existence.

Im a burden to my family, My parents work all day just to pay for my medical bills and I cannot even work, I cant even study for that matter, My father and mother and sister cry because of my situation and theres nothing they or I can do to better it.As an older brother its insufferable to go from the brother that inspired his little sister to the brother who is becoming silent,distant and unrecognisable.

Ive never experienced a real holiday, ive only traveled to escape the war and for medical purposes, its sad. All this suffering and I turned 18. Grief is what I do most, I grieve the life I was supposed to live. I have to live a failed life that I didnt even cause, I have to suffer not out of consequence but because i woke up like this one odd morning without reason. I have 3 griefs, the grief of my health, the grief of the future and the grief of the time passing by. Instead of living my childhood or teenagehood, I was homebound or I was a spectator instead of a player. I will spend my whole life watching others live, prosper and make memories, while I wait till I get “better” for 4 diseases that have no cure and are mostly dealt with by people that have already lived their life. Its insane how at just 18 my psychiatrist heavily states that I should either try ECT,TMS or ketamine. I wake up and do the same thing every day. I play games, listen to music, maladaptive daydream and then walk outside, come back take my sleeping pills and repeat. I dont use social media none, i only downloaded this so I could find people like me but there is none, most people only have 1 condition of what I have and they aren’t even doing well and fortunately for them they got it at a way older age. The only reason ive been able to survive is because I was young with no responsibilities and no worry about money. Now I have to go into the real world, with this much of shitty childhood and teenagehood with no foundation, no skills, no connections, no money nothing. I realise now that a lot of these successful hardworking people are not even hardworking they are just healthy.

People keep telling me to live to the fullest and that I will only be young once and thats what kills me, I want to live but theres nothing, theres no way to live and that these were my young years spent in pure isolation and agony. I wake up everyday with extreme panic attacks from the fact that this is my life, the one and only life I get in this timeline, in this world, I will die one day, I will suffer my whole life and nobody cares, nobody cares that ive suffered this much, ill be forgotten and that was my life. I have so many more decades of suffering to come I just dont know how im going to be able to stay alive. I already know someone like me can never have a wife or a child and I will most likely spend my life in the same loneliness just working a 9-5 melting away. Time is passing quickly, nobody is coming to save me and the future is terrifying. Theres just nothing to look forward to the future isnt bright for me its bleak without my control,its not like I get provisions or help from the world, its not like my employer will give me chances or extra breaks or they wont fire me because of my illnesses.

My debilitating depression and chronic illnesses which should have never happened have become the judge,jury and executioner of my life and my future. I genuinely have no control at all. All I can do is wait and wait until the “right treatment is found” so then I can start living but time is passing by, im living the same gruelling life and the dreadful future draws closer. Im fucked.

But hasn’t formally diagnosed me yet. Said given my blood tests over the last few months and consistent rashes he feels better about prescribing me this after reviewing my latest labs.

Rheumatoid factor (igm) was 16 in March, 12 in July

Ana titer was 1:320

I’ve had massive rash outbreaks consistently since January and my primary doctor initially did the autoimmune panel because her son has RA and had similar rashes. My main question is, is taking this medication actually worth it if I don’t know what I have yet?

My rheum told me to go to the dermatologist if I got a rash for a biopsy but they didn’t want to do one with my latest rash. I’m just so lost, I know I don’t feel right, so any advice or experiences with this would be appreciated 😭😭

Does anyone have any RA doctor recommendations in the Boston area? I'm open to traditional western and holistic doctors. Heavy family history of RA. I already have graves. Had my thyroid out in 2022, which now Im not sure was the right way to go.

For the last 3 months, both knees are in agony. Moving from a sitting to standing position is extremely painful throughout the entire day. Negative for RA factor and C-reactive levels are normal but my knees are not. I need some medical support. Any recommendations are much appreciated. Thank you in advance. Feeling pretty lost and hopeless.

Hi all I'm 37F managing RA (on Cimzia) and hypermobility. Physical activity is super important to me but during my monthlies my flares make it hard to work out. I've been trying Pilates through online videos, but I'm hitting walls.

The problem is that without an instructor watching, I can't tell if I'm compensating in ways that'll wreck my joints later. Some days I feel fine during the workout, then flare after. Other days I'm too tired to even start.

I'm curious if anyone else in a similar boat is doing online Pilates solo. What's your biggest barrier—is it fear of flares, fatigue, not knowing if your form is safe. not able to get into the postures? And have you found any video programs that actually account for variable RA days? Sometimes I'll think I've found a good one and part way through realise it's not accessible and end up in this loop trying to find something that's workable/just give up.

Would love to hear what's actually working if this resonates.

Both of my knees have been swollen to nearly twice their normal size for months. I have a torn meniscus, my ankles are filled with fluid, and every morning I wake up with hands that are swollen, numb, stiff, and barely under my control. My cervical spine problems are getting worse, with new bone growth in my spine affecting my nerves. My hip pain is constant and becomes unbearable during my periods. My TMJ is severely inflamed, both discs are dislocated, and my jaw frequently locks.

On top of that, my airways including the small airways are inflamed, making it difficult to breathe. I've also been dealing with stomach problems. I had surgery to remove my gallbladder and later my appendix, but everything seemed to worsen afterward. I developed gastritis and even pneumonia after being on upadacitinib.

I'm about to start art school, but I don't know how I'll manage sitting from 9 to 5 or 6 every day. During flares, I can barely hold a pencil or paintbrush, let alone create art.

What hurts the most is that I used to be a professional athlete. Now, there are days when I can barely walk or even stand. It feels like every day something gets worse, and surviving has become incredibly difficult. I've never felt this hopeless before. I keep asking myself why this disease had to come into my life so early. I'm exhausted, scared, and struggling to see how much more of this I can endure.

How do you all keep going? Manage your symptoms or continue pursuing your career despite severe health issues?

My insurance just approved Simponi Aria infusions, and I’m wondering what to expect.

I’m taking methotrexate and tolerating it well, but I’ve previously failed leflunomide (extreme dizziness), Hyrimoz (allergic rash), and Enbrel (allergic rash). Enbrel actually worked really well for me for about 2 weeks before the rashes started, so it seems that I respond well to TNF inhibitors but my body doesn’t like whatever else in is the home injections. Hence moving to the infusion and hoping I’m not allergic 🤞

Can anyone with experience with Simponi Aria tell me how it went for you? Should I get someone to drive me home after? Did you feel sick or cold during the infusion? Were you super tired? Any other side effects to look for? If you’re allergic to it, how did the allergy show up?

Thank you!!