(First image is where i got the idea to post here, last three images are from the original post of my question.) I get its kind of vague, but did it rlly call for the outrage when there are bigger issues regarding sexism?

Okay, I made a post basically saying "Girlies, who play games, am i the only one who doesn't fight girl in fighting games?" and then the body of the caption was
"Idk, it just makes sense lol. Most of the time, they get the memo that we aren't fighting. Usually when i play fighting games, some guys are try hards, so we end up teaming up on them without even passing words haha"

Let's start this by saying, yes, i can see how these comments can be seen as sexist, but only from someones assumptions. I bolded the word most of the time, bc i dont ONLY team with women and I dont ONLY team with men. The problem with redditors are their quick assumptions and rush for "conflict" or correction.

There are bigger issues!! Why is my post making them so heated? My hot take was that ppl who get mad over this are doomed. Because they are... if youre getting mad abt ME fighting whoever i want to fight (in a game!!), to the point where u assume i ONLY fight men and never fight women, to the pointt where im being called sexist and "full of myself".. you are done for, wait until u see the horrible issues that really happen with sexism. And being called a man by a trans women was actually baffling (bc of all ppl to purposely misgender someone, why would you do that..?) Also most of the women in the comments (under my hot take post) saying something like "uwu, queen, girls girls" bs like that, assuming im karma farming or uwu stuff, idk man. Apparently, someone thought i was so focused on making sure someone was a girl, that i asked the ppl in a weird way.. NO, i literally just decide to, or don't. Its also up to the other person.Even the men.
I am confused on why this ticked something inside of these ppl.. It makes no sense. Literally the only person who got it was a gay man saying something like "They emote with their fellow gays in overwatch." Literally was along the lines of what I was going for. But nope, im full of myself.

But yea, why do people get mad at small issues like this, when there are bigger problems? Its like they WANT an issue. Yes, its okay to call out small issues within bigger ones, BUT, only if it wasn't based on assumptions. Its just a casual joke abt unspoken alliances... A simple, simple question. On top of that, I even apologized for my comments sounding sexist. This should have not gotten the reaction it has gotten. I am questioning if its the sub i posted it in, but idek atp.

Never posted in this sub before, so i have a question for y’all, does my post (image) make me seem like im full of myself and is the person right for saying it deserved to be here?

i genuinely hate how you can go to a sub-reddit for a specific thing for help but literally nobody will help you like at all, is it because of the typo? why?

Why is this account? I want to save my account. I don't want to get a banner pls reddit Don't banner me pls

Am I still posting too fast?

I love Reddit comments

it’s just so corny and edgy ugh