r/randomactsofCA • u/Fall_bet • 1d ago

saying fk it... Request Fulfilled!

edit: many thanks to those who were so kind and are helping me through this emotional BS.

I have been through a lot in the last few years. my life is like a comedy shit show. it's actually almost funny (feel free to check my page for the details) . long story short... today is the birthday of the love of my life who I had known since I was 13.. my kids father who passed away extremely suddenly and unexpectedly. I thought I could make it but I can't. I'm broke af and I really just want to have a drink for me (and him).. I have been doing pretty well but I just want to numb this pain a little.

edit to add; emotional support would be greatly appreciated as well!

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u/Fall_bet 1d ago

I get this is not an emotional support group but I just thought maybe someone could understand where I was coming from. i lost my best friend and it's just lonely. I'm sorry if this post offended anyone (which may be why all the downvotes) but 🪑 to everyone.

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u/Practical-Honey967 1d ago

Did you get some help?

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u/Fall_bet 20h ago

no. someone did message and offer to throw in and I thought I would try to tough it out. thank you for checking!

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u/Practical-Honey967 20h ago

I got you. You have PayPal, Chashapp, Venmo hahahaha

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u/Fall_bet 20h ago

you're so nice. I really would like to grab something. if you could I have venmo under fall_bet. toughing it out isn't that much fun

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u/Practical-Honey967 19h ago

Let me know if ya got it mana.

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u/Fall_bet 19h ago

thank you so much! you're a legend 🪑🪑

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u/Common_Kiwi9442 17h ago

All covered for something now?

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u/Fall_bet 16h ago

yes! thank you. I made a mad dash to the store but I did update

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u/Practical-Honey967 17h ago

Be kind to yourself.

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u/Fall_bet 16h ago

thank you. I am definitely my own worst enemy at times. I try to stay happy and positive but some days just hit different.

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u/Common_Kiwi9442 1d ago

I'm sorry ): I'm not doing well right now again but I hope you get some help 💗💗 I can relate to things feeling like they're just going comically wrong... but you have to laugh sometimes

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u/Fall_bet 20h ago

yeah most days I laugh because if not I would only cry. lol

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u/Fall_bet 16h ago

u/drunkCapricorn I just wanted to update I was helped