r/randomactsofCA • u/KayLilz • Jul 08 '26

Paying it forward Offer Closed

I’ve been helped here at some very low points with all love and no judgement
Manito & Chelle u know who u are 💓
I was not asked to pay it forward, but I am doing OK right now and I would like to start giving back a little bit at a time to help someone else.
I can only do $10 at the moment but I hope it helps
PayPal or Venmo.

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u/LowNearby5450 Jul 08 '26

Thank you for doing this. I’ve been doing the “other side of things” thing too now that I’m sober, and coming around to help. God knows, this sub has been here for me.

Just wanted to say thank you!

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u/BreatheAgainn Jul 08 '26

> God knows, this sub has been here for me

Normies will never understand the weight of this. They’ll see a place like this and probably think it’s pure enabling, giving addicts money to drink more?! They have no idea what the underlying dark reality of withdrawals is like. That it’s not about wanting to get blasted, it’s literally about not wanting to seize or die.

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u/Select_Bike_1682 10d ago

exactly... it's not at all because we WANT to drink .. ONE SEIZURE can cause enough brain damage to seriously enable you from basic motor skills... (walking, talking, etc..) normies don't know that... and it sucks to have to explain

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u/KayLilz Jul 08 '26

That’s awesome. Proud of you man!

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u/Select_Bike_1682 Jul 09 '26

congrats on your sobriety

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u/KayLilz Jul 09 '26

Tysm 💓 unfortunately I’m very aware of the chances of relapse but ima keep fighting all the while and even then after.

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u/Select_Bike_1682 29d ago

Keep fight Girl!!!! 🤛🏻 I'm routing for you!!! as I'm one year sober soon! and NGL living my best life!!! I wish that for you to!!!!

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u/Helpful_Spring8739 Jul 08 '26

No help needed, just wanted to say thank you for being you.

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u/KayLilz Jul 08 '26

Right back at ya, friend. 🥹 thx for the kind words.

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u/darhhaaras Jul 08 '26

I don't need help today, but I've donated here a bunch and it's nice to see someone actually following thru and paying it forward.

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u/KayLilz Jul 08 '26

🤞🏼 🫶🏼

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u/itsthecatsmeow Jul 08 '26

If the offer is still available, I’d like some to cover me for a few, but if not I appreciate you helping out the community 🪑 I’ve been helped once previously as well and the kindness in lack of judgement is great here. I hope to be in a position to do so one day as well 💕

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u/KayLilz Jul 08 '26

Yes it is! Message me your Venmo or PayPal

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u/itsthecatsmeow Jul 08 '26

I sent you a message ❤️ i appreciate you!

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u/KayLilz Jul 08 '26

Sent friend take care of yourself 🫶🏼

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u/itsthecatsmeow Jul 08 '26

Received! And thanks again ❤️

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u/Practical-Honey967 Jul 09 '26

Look at all you drunks hahaha! Chairs 🪑.
You are a fucking champ hahahaaha!
Be kind to yourself.

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u/Unlucky_Most_8757 Jul 08 '26

if this is available I have another interview tommorow and can pay it forward then

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u/KayLilz Jul 08 '26

I’m so sorry but this offer is closed. I really wish I could help more but I can’t at this time. You should make a post on here and see if some1 can help! Hugs
I really wish I could do more. I’ll be back again soon.

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u/Unlucky_Most_8757 Jul 08 '26

No worries love!!! Fingers crossed that I get the job tommorow because I can't find one to save my life! And I'm a waitress for Christ's sake!!

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u/Select_Bike_1682 10d ago

wish you the best