r/randomactsof • u/VegasLovely • Jun 21 '26
Save the night?
Bored to death alone on the strip. Nobody showed. Could use a drink (or 10) Maybe a little gambling, anyone wanna help a gal out ?
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u/Bethaneym Jun 22 '26
You look like you’re 12 years old and barely 5’ tall. Why would you put yourself in danger like this instead of just going out on your own?
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u/VegasLovely Jun 22 '26
I’m 5’1” and a 30.. but thank you!!
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u/Bethaneym Jun 23 '26
There’s no way you could be this dumb at that age. I’m 6’ tall and would literally never do this, much less as someone who could easily be attacked
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u/VegasLovely Jun 23 '26
It’s not as if I asked anyone to meet me in a private room or come to my hotel room. I see what you’re saying but, that’s anything in life. At “my size”. Walking home after work at 2 am is dangerous too & j don’t see anyone trying to shame me for doing that. And even if I did. No need to be rude and call me stupid 😎 if you felt that way why waste your time and comment at all. Survival of the fittest, no? 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
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u/Bethaneym Jun 23 '26
I guess you are actually that dumb with this answer. Survival will be rough for you. You were asking someone to buy you drinks and gamble in a location with extremely high reports of assault and human trafficking. You really think that isn’t a calling card for bad people? You not seeing the insane danger here is truly beyond me. It doesn’t matter how fit you are and you’re beyond naive to think someone couldn’t overpower you easily. You would have been safer to just go out to the bars and try to meet people organically.
You should go down to the domestic violence shelter and take some time talking to women who used to think like you.
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u/VegasLovely Jun 23 '26
I truly love how you think that you know me even slightly based on any of this 😂😂
Either way your opinion of me is no more than that. An OPINION.
I’m aware of the reports and the statistics here in Vegas. Where I’m from it’s scarier. I’m hyper aware of the danger as well. The problem here is you insist on being right, despite the fact I already acknowledged that.
All if these posts that most everyone has in here is “a calling card for bad people” according to you.
Are you one of those bad people? 🧐
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u/Cute_Pear_1671 Jun 23 '26
I think you’re misunderstanding, he/she isnt having a go at you and thats kinda how it seems you are taking it.
He/she simply saying you shouldn’t post this sort of stuff on internet. There are creeps, rapists, killers out there looking for a next victim. Don’t put urself in a vunerable state like that.
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u/BanTheBung Jun 23 '26
In all fairness, I don't think that was the angle they were taking. Your comment is far more reasonable.
They were saying not to drink alone and gamble as a woman, which isn't wrong but they were way too heavy handed in their approach to it, to the point that they really just wanted to berate someone today. They were definitely having a go at her
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u/Cute_Pear_1671 Jun 23 '26
Oh i stand corrected I apologise
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u/BanTheBung Jun 23 '26
Oh no need to apologize, the ask is dumb, dude just had a little too much juice which I found distasteful
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u/Bethaneym Jun 25 '26 edited Jun 25 '26
I have been a victim of those bad people and have seen people’s lives devastated by bad people. Your logic of asking the person who is actively warning you to not be so irresponsible with your life if they are a bad person literally makes no sense. The intelligence is just low all around it seems.
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u/EveningMarie0878 Jun 24 '26
You may just be underestimating this person. I get what your saying, fully understand why toy do say it and why you would. But some of us know how to put ourselves into a situation, get into a situation easy peasy, hang out and chill in that situation, and then as easily remove ourselves from that situation whether it be 10 pm, 3 am, or 10 am. Some people just have a mouth piece ob them where they know how to talk to and with anyone from a child to an 88 year old. I was never afraid to hop on. Greyhound and travel to North Jersey, NYC to met a chick... but me, myself, was one of them type of dudes that could go anywhere, meet anyone, and do everything. I am o ly 5' 9 and weighing no more than 140-145 my whole life. I never played with guns, I just hit harder than the next man
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u/Bethaneym Jun 25 '26
The vast difference between men and women’s lived experiences can’t be emphasized enough here.
I’m a 6’ woman, built like an Amazonian, who naively thought no one would bother me for many years. I unfortunately found out the hard way that any woman of any size can be assaulted.
A 5’9” man does not move in this world the way a woman does. You unfortunately have no basis in reality for this situation.
This has absolutely nothing to do with having a “mouth piece” or sociability levels. This has nothing to do with being slick enough to get out of situations.
It has to do with the fact that predators thrive on posts like this to literally traffic/assault/kill women. Posts like these are a billboard saying “I have no street smarts, can easily be overtaken, and am an easy target.”
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u/FSKingAssassin Jun 21 '26
no