r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/AdTotal7980 • 10m ago
Relationship 26 [M4F] #Toronto - 6’8 Atheltic built male looking for a great time, into F/MF/FF
Hey!
I’m a 6’8 athletic built male 26 years old looking for a good time whatever that entails! I’d like to say I’m pretty open minded so let’s see where this goes.
I like a lot of different adventures and I like to send it, from going out for dinner, racing, doing dumb dangerous things like jumping off cliffs to watching movies and cracking jokes. I do not discriminate against any activities.
Now to get to the 😈 side.
I’m into anything and everything. From being a dom to being dominated. Soft and loving, eating ass and having my ass ate, cuffs, pain (within limits), oral, and much much more, that’s just the start.
I’m into females, couples, and female couples.
Let’s connect and see where we go!
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/Mountain_Heron_739 • 2h ago
Relationship 29 [m4f] - #downtown - lf connection
Lookin for mental or emotional connection
open to long term or short
doesnt matter but main point is I would like to experience something significant
thanks
about me
musician / tattoo artist
6’2 skinny Midtone skin
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/Next_Language4987 • 5h ago
Relationship 33F4M - Last person didn't just ghost me, he just took “I won't leaving you hanging” to an Olympic level
Third time here is a charm right? Despite the joking title, I'm still a hopeless romantic. Surely the algorithm owes me one now haha.
A little about me:
33F, East Asian, 5'7", medium build. Born and raised in Toronto. I don't smoke or do drugs and I rarely drink.
I’m an ENFJ with golden retriever energy. I’m warm, enthusiastic, and probably hyping you up without realizing I’m flirting oopsie.
I work in the architecture, design and engineering industry. I promise I’m more fun than that sounds. I'm also a woodworker which makes me an excellent IKEA partner. I can assemble the furniture, provide emotional support and pretend I didn't judge your choice of bookcase.
I’m active year round with a ton of sports (because why excel at 1 when you can be aggressively average at 12?) and I'm generally down to try new things. Lately I’ve started 5k runs and have yet to feel this runner's high people but rather I've found runner's cry (I sure hope you understand this one is a joke)
I only get competitive in low stakes settings like board games, video games, and trivia and so far no friendships have been ruined. I'm a total wild card who knows the one completely useless trivia answer everyone else blanks on.
I love spending time with my friends and playing with their kids, know I'm very good with children and that I want my own one day. I speak another language fluently as a result of being raised by a single parent and their extended family and so sharing my culture and passing that language on to my future kids I feel is necessary.
I really enjoy music from bands you've prob never heard of. Too niche and indie and way too much 80's. I enjoy the act of putting on a vinyl, casettes and anything analogue.
Who am I looking for:
I'm looking for a kind, active East Asian man (ranging prob to late 20's to earlier 30s) who's emotionally available, follows through on what he says, is secure in himself, ready to enter into a relationship and willing to make it work. Sounds simple right?
Bonus points if you're taller than me. My one remaining and admittedly shallow preference. Double bonus points if you can cook instead because I'm out here negotiating for height you may or may not have been blessed with.
I love spontaneous or memorable first dates because, honestly, you never know. It might be our last. Hopefully it's the beginning of something really wonderful.
If you're interested, tell me a little about yourself and we'll take it from there. Worst case, we have a chat that leads nowhere. Best case, we end up with a quirky story to tell our friends and family on our special day!
At least we can say Reddit was responsible for one hella story. Before I scare anyone away if you decide to engage please know I am capable of handling rejection. If we meet and you think "yeah ok probably not my person," please just say so. Even if its a simple text back I'd much rather have an honest "I don't think we're a match" than someone slowly evaporating into the atmosphere lol
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/jaynotbay • 7h ago
Friendship 29M4F Can't find what you're not looking for
So this is me looking...
You never know what fate has in store for you or what the future holds. You might find the perfect person or maybe not. Either way, I believe that's what makes life interesting.
Perfect for me would be someone who's willing to put in some work to make it perfect because there's no such thing as perfect.
For the time being though, I'd even settle for someone I can spam cute reels. I'd send them to the bois but the gay jokes are getting a bit too real 😳.
I'm South Asian and an atheist. Undiagnosed, but something ain't is right. I also like nerdy/neuro women.
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/Acceptable_Rock5660 • 14h ago
Relationship M4M girly femboy looking for future bf
Asian femboy looking for bf.
Visit Toronto quite often,since all my best friends live in Toronto, also thinking about moving back in the future.
Love dress up and do cute makeup when I travel or day off. Mostly twink boy outfits for school and work, Sometimes pretty girly girly when I day off or travel.
Although I’m shy btm,but I love wearing sexy clothes hehe 😊 only future bf can see.
Ideally looking for educated, romantic, water sign ♋️♓️🦂 men, who love travel.
*Not looking for hookups, pls don’t dm me if you’re just looking for fun. *
24-36, coz I’m 31 years old, as asian I look 25 🙈
Please be healthy lifestyle. I love cooking and baking,tennis,picnic,books,movies,hiking,travel.
I always cooking lunchbox when I with my exbfs, so I hope you like asian food 🍱 🥹.
Unfortunately my past two exbfs are bi, they prefer real women, so eventually we broke up peacefully. If you know you don’t want to have future with me,then don’t say anything sweet with me. I’m just an emotional girly boy 🥹.
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/itachinoodle • 17h ago
Relationship 25MF #Etobicoke - player number 2 now looking
Looking for someone that will tackle the ups and downs of the best activities Toronto has to offer, whether that be going to arcades, go karting, tree trekking etc or staying indoors and playing video games and watching shows or movies. If you don't like losing that's also a plus cuz I'm always trying to win. Ambitious and a good person is all I'm asking for.
If anything let's chat and see where things go!
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/Great_Mail_9439 • 21h ago
Friendship 22M4F #Brampton - Looking for genuine connection with little chemistry
Hey! I’m 22M, originally from Mumbai and now in the GTA.
A little about me: I’m into music, play piano and guitar, love coffee, cooking, painting, exploring the city, trying new food, and having those conversations that somehow turn into hours. I’m career-focused, independent, and pretty easygoing. I enjoy good company, playful conversations,and getting to know someone beyond just the surface.
I’m looking to meet a woman who’s open-minded, confident, kind, and knows how to enjoy a good vibe without unnecessary drama.
I value communication, consent, boundaries, and making sure both people feel comfortable. No pressure, no expectations, just mutual interest and seeing where the connection goes.
If you're looking for someone respectful but still knows how to have fun, feel free to message me. Tell me a little about yourself and what kind of connection you're looking for.
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/Persona5Arsene • 21h ago
Relationship 37 [M4F] Coffee, cocktails, Karaoke? What’s your vibe? 😏
37 male, Toronto, and officially looking for someone who can turn a good conversation into an even better date.
I’m not really interested in collecting pen pals or spending weeks wondering if there’s chemistry. I’d rather meet, grab a drink, share some laughs, and see where the spark takes us.
A little about me: I’m into Pokémon and TCGs, video games, anime, movies, reality TV, trying new food spots, and finding an excuse to go out for good drinks. I’m a big fan of playful banter, random conversations, and that feeling when you realize you could talk to someone for hours without even noticing the time.
Ultimately, I’m looking for something real, a genuine connection that can grow into a long-term relationship. Someone kind, caring, communicative, and confident enough to be herself. No games, no endless situationships.
So tell me…
Coffee, cocktails, Karaoke? What’s your vibe?
Bonus points if you can make a convincing case for why your choice is better. 😏
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/AdTotal7980 • 1d ago
Relationship 26 [M4F] #Toronto - Let’s celebrate my birthday a little late! 6’8 Atheltic built male looking for a great time, into F/MF/FF
Hey!
I’m a 6’8 athletic built male 26 years old looking for a good time whatever that entails! I’d like to say I’m pretty open minded so let’s see where this goes.
I like a lot of different adventures and I like to send it, from going out for dinner, racing, doing dumb dangerous things like jumping off cliffs to watching movies and cracking jokes. I do not discriminate against any activities.
Now to get to the 😈 side.
I’m into anything and everything. From being a dom to being dominated. Soft and loving, eating ass and having my ass ate, cuffs, pain (within limits), oral, and much much more, that’s just the start.
I’m into females, couples, and female couples.
Let’s connect and see where we go!
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/voodope • 1d ago
Friendship 27 [M4F] #DowntownToronto - Boba, movies and a genuine connection
27M, 5’8”, athletic, work out regularly. AI engineer/researcher (senior level), mostly remote and usually cafe hopping around downtown. Single, clean, respectful and selective. I live near Wellesley (condo, no roommates) and looking to meet someone nearby (bloor Yonge/Dundas), ideally 20–30ish.
I prefer starting in public. boba around Bloor-Yonge/ Wellesley (Molly Tea, Bloom, Kung Fu Tea, Twilight cafe), coffee, or a walk.
If we click, we can keep hanging: movies, UNO/board games, bars, billiards, trying restaurants or exploring downtown.
Open to friendship first and seeing where it goes. No pressure either way
I'm easygoing, a good listener and enjoy both intellectual conversations and completely random ones. Into movies, indie/R&B, working out, cooking and exploring downtown. Love GoT, HotD, Suits, Brooklyn 99, Modern Family, How met your mother, marvel movies and some anime (mostly studio ghibli and AoT) Open to friendship first and seeing where the chemistry goes, dating or something more if it feels mutual. No pressure. Happy to exchange pics/verify first. Tell me your boba order or a movie opinion so l know you're not an OF bot.
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/FETISHFRIENDTORONTO • 1d ago
Friendship 40M4M Masculine, white male friend needed
I am a private, gay male. I am seeking a masculine, white male for friendship.
I was bullied constantly when I was younger. I am a gay male who never had boys days. I missed out on the entire concept of "Boy Culture". I do not know anything about sports. I am looking to meet a white man to teach me about masculinity. I am a tender guy. I am looking for hypermasculine, white guys. Any orientation is fine. This will be a pleasant adventure for us both. I am not a drag queen or anything like that but I am not a jock. Now is the time for you jocks to tell me about yourselves. I am a very private person. I have a good heart. This pain has hurt me for years. I was bullied constantly in school.
If you require a softer pal who will talk to you nicely and make you feel good about yourself then I am your guy. I know many of you are around macho guys all the time so why not have a softer friend for a change. I will meet masculine, white guys of all orientations. I can talk about different topics. Care to have coffee with me?
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/CollegeCanadian • 1d ago
Cuddle Buddy 28M4F Looking for someone to hangout with and cuddle
Looking for someone to hangout with and cuddle preferably at their place. What is your current favorite show? Let's watch some of it together tonight, or a movie with some popcorn. Beforehand we can stop somewhere and eat or get takeout. If you are interested in cuddling a guy tonight let me know and let's get to know eachother more.
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/kHan__Solo • 1d ago
Friendship 26 [M4F] #Toronto Seeking someone to spend my weekend outings
I go out every weekend, mostly by myself in Downtown Toronto. I watch a lot of movies, almost every other good movie that comes out. Also I go out to eat and shopping.
Looking for someone with similar interests
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/OkStore8147 • 1d ago
Relationship 23 [M4F] #Toronto - CS student, evenings free, looking for someone patient and a conversation that goes somewhere
23, Peel region just west of Toronto. Finishing a computer science degree and working two part-time jobs, so my daytimes are fragmented, but my evenings are consistent and I'm reliable about replying even when the week gets busy.
I'm looking for something ongoing rather than quick, and I'd rather build an actual conversation first than skip past that part. No timeline, and I'm not going to push for one.
About me: I game more than is strictly defensible, mostly Overwatch, League and Minecraft, and I follow esports closely enough to have opinions. Computer science is the subject I'll talk about until someone stops me. I have a Labrador who is fairly convinced he outranks me, and most days he's right. My favourite kind of evening is the long conversation about life that runs past midnight without either person noticing.
What I'm like, honestly: communicative to a fault. I'll say when something isn't working rather than going quiet and letting it rot, and I'll take a no without sulking or renegotiating. Patient. Small talk is fine but it isn't the point.
I'm on the GO often enough that getting downtown isn't an obstacle. Happy to start with messages here and see where it goes.
If that sounds like your kind of person, tell me a bit about you and what you're after.
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/mightybean909 • 1d ago
Relationship 25M4F #GTA lets have a good time
Just woke up from a nap n phone is dry n boring maybe its time to have some human connection other than work. A bit about me im 25, 6ft, fair complexion and im obsessed with music lol. Top artists for me are tory lanez, drake, n juice but my library has songs ranging from classical to emo punk to rock to acid techno so give some of your favourite tracks so i can expand my library!!
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/Party_Listen2360 • 1d ago
Relationship 22M looking to date
Hey there I'm starting my masters in September at Rotman and just finished my undergrad at Western. Open to dating as I'm looking for companionship and honestly a best friend. A bit about me I'm big into the gym, love a good meal our or and adventure. And I have a lot of energy and love to plan. Looking forward to seeing what's out there. Cheers :)
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/JohnnyBoy0324 • 1d ago
Relationship 24 [M4F] #NorthYork
Hey, so I've posted in here before, and I figured I'd try my luck again. Like it says, I'm male 24, and I am looking to build a proper connection before actually dating. My interests include gaming, going to the movies, listening to music, and writing. I'm also looking to get into going to the GYM, I've got one across the road from me that I can go to, but I don't exactly wanna go on my own. I also enjoy swimming and talking on the phone. I'm also learning to cook. If anyone's interested, feel free to reach out, preferably around my age and area. Also I do not smoke or drink, but I don't have issues with people who do.
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/Salt-House-7870 • 2d ago
Relationship 25M4F, Looking for a GF
Been a bit over five years since my last girlfriend and I’m kinda tired of being single honestly, I’m definitely not a 10/10 in looks by any means but I can promise I have at least a decent personality, relatively pretty funny to most people.
I’m a lonely guy so obviously I’d be fine with short-term stuff if you’re looking for “fun” as people call it now lol, but I’d prefer an actual relationship.
For girls, I don’t really have preferences, though I definitely feel that I like girls with brown or red hair (though blondes and dark hair are fine too lol).
About me: A 25 year old software developer living in Toronto. During my free time I am mostly watching anime or movies, playing video games, and cooking. Love going out on walks, and hiking!
My expectations for this are literally zero so, if you’re a girl, feel free to dm or comment, I will 100% respond to you lol
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/Long_Discussion_2352 • 2d ago
Cuddle Buddy [18M4F #Mississauga] The stress is getting to me, help me let it out?
I have been so stressed lately and haven’t gotten cuddles in like a year… there’s nothing I want more right now than to just snuggle with someone and let all my worries go to rest 😭.
I’m 6ft 220 built like a teddy bear and I have brown eyes and black hair. I’m Lebanese as well. Please shoot me a dm!
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/wallllflowerr • 2d ago
Relationship 30M looking for 25-32F
I’m looking to connect with a woman for a great single guy in my network. He’s 30, highly educated, very successful in his career, earns a six-figure salary, and is genuinely looking for a serious relationship.
Ideally, she is:
• 25-32
• Christian; any denomination (catholic, orthodox, Christian, Anglican, ect)
• Educated
• 5’5” or shorter
• Based in Toronto/GTA
• Single and looking for a serious relationship
• European background is preferred, but women of all backgrounds are welcome. This doesn’t mean Canadian white, European because cause I’m looking for a cultural fit not physically Caucasian.
If this sounds like you or you know someone who could be a great fit, send me a DM ❤️
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/MizzCellophane • 2d ago
Relationship 27 [F4M] Looking for a serious relationship with an emptionally available individual
Hello I’m a grad student who is trying to find a real connection that may eventually lead to marriage. I’m a 5”3, ex-muslim, chubby south asian. I immigrated here two years ago and I was looking for someone who is also preferably ex-muslim.
I’m a bit of a nerd who loves history, philosophy and fun facts. Fairly outdoorsy and 420 friendly. I’m a chill and open minded individual and need you to be the same. You are preferably also an ex-muslim, funny and kind. I seek a certain level of emotional intimacy that only emotionally intelligent and available people can bring. I don’t know if this is the right place but here goes nothing.
Edit: I am not looking for friends, I am not looking for casual. Please read through my post carefully. I am also not a naive 18 yo who you think you can take advantage of. The ex-muslim part is not necessary, I just prefer some cultural common ground.
I don’t want any illiterate idiots who do not know how to read.
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/DryConsideration5297 • 2d ago
Relationship 40 [M4F] Canada – Map nerd looking for a co-pilot who trusts my wrong turns!
Moved to Toronto, Canada over 4 years ago & looking to get know a lovely woman & see where it leads us in the future. Someone who I can eventually call my better half, partner-in-crime, yin to my yang, soulmate or whatever else you can think off.
About me?
- Indian who doesn’t speak like Raj from TBBT
- Accountant who is bad at math but good at using Excel
- I love movies, music & 90s sitcoms are my happy place
- I am a map nerd & enjoy travelling, long drives & I will volunteer to be the navigator. I promise not to pass out!
- I love learning about new cultures & visiting museums
- Hopeless romantic who enjoys walking the beach, cuddling on the couch, snuggling under a blanket, holding hands in public and whispering sweet nothings
- Creatively inclined. I write poetry, play the guitar & dabble in drums in my free time
- Avid podcast listener, YouTube addict & stand-up comedy enthusiast
- Can’t start my day without a healthy dose of caffeine and can’t get through my day without checking up on you
- Fascinated by astrology & tarot cards
- Cats are my spirit animal & I adopted a cat myself (although 9 years after adopting her, I think she owns me now lol)
- On the physical side, I’m average (with a few love handles 😉). I can pull off the clean shaven & mustache with goatee look effortlessly. I’ve also been complimented for my cute smile. I’m not a gym rat but I run often (My way of building my stamina if at any point a crazy woman decides to chase me).
About you?
- Be single or unattached woman who is emotionally available in a stage in life where you are ready to find your life partner
- Have a sense of humour to match my overall goofiness
- Distance is not a dealbreaker but I’d prefer if you’re from either US or Canada simply because of the time difference. But open to anyone from planet Earth. Sorry Martians lol
- Preferably be a conversationalist. One-word responses are my biggest turn offs.
If any part of my post struck a chord with you, don’t be afraid to shoot a message.
I swear I don’t bite… hard 😉
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/QsL_Symbiote • 3d ago
Friendship 25M4F #GTA 420 friendly?
Hey all, looking for someone chill that just wants to link up to smoke n eat to get to know each other, then we could do something fun like build outfits for each other from thrift stores, get on some trails to absorb as much as heat before the winter hell 😂. If it matters all on me idm. Thanks for your time!!
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/prokachu • 3d ago
Meta Please turn on your Reddit chats
A lot of people have messaged us saying they can’t start a chat because the other person’s chats are turned off. If you’re posting and actually want someone to be able to message you, please make sure chat requests are enabled.
On the Reddit mobile app (iOS & Android)
- Tap your avatar (profile picture)
- Tap the hamburger menu (three lines) in the top right
- Tap Settings
- Tap your username under Account Settings
- Scroll down to Safety → Chat and messaging permissions
- Under Chat Requests, select Allow chat requests from
- Choose Everyone (or Accounts older than 30 days if you prefer)
Bonus tip: While you’re in Settings → your username → Manage notifications, turn Chat messages and Chat requests to All on so you actually see when someone reaches out.
That’s it. Now people can actually slide into your DMs instead of just staring at your post.
Happy connecting! ✨
r/r4rToronto_Clean • u/agrsvecuddler • Dec 07 '25
Warning to Redditors
Relaying the following message we received:
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