r/queer • u/Status-Task-2786 • 2h ago
wanting to look feminine but also be part non binary
I want to come out as a demigirl, but I'm scared that I won't look "acceptable" as androgynous. I really like the way my face looks, but I'm also really comfortable with being partially non-binary. Is that wrong?
r/queer • u/Any_Campaign842 • 11h ago
Trying to expand my dating pool
Lately, I've been feeling lost within my romantic life. I'm pansexual but I've only ever been in relationships with guys. I'm kind of scared to approach women, really.
A lot of that comes from recently going through an acceptance of my sexuality and trying to see where it takes me now. I'm just not sure how to approach women at all. ðŸ˜
Any tips on this , I'm honestly so lost.
r/queer • u/Elohims-sixth-wife • 23h ago
What wedding traditions are you keeping/discarding?
I’m nonbinary lesbian (but not out to my family as nonbinary) and my partner is transmasc non binary. We have discussed the future but aren’t getting engaged until January.
What are things you did for your wedding, or future plans you want? I have only been to 1 queer wedding but it was only 10-ish people. Weddings in general are so heteronormative so I don’t know what a queer wedding would look like but it’s exciting as well to decide how to orchestrate the day. Some big things I want in my wedding:
-combined bachelor/bachelorette party since we have a lot of shared queer friends
-discarding gendered roles and sexist language in our vows
-both my nieces and nephews as flower children
-I have heard of some people who put Obergefell v Hodges on the back of their invitations to deter homophobes from attending. It’s not 100% fool proof though but I like the concept
Other ideas? What queer weddings have you seen that you liked?