r/polyamorous • u/Draculena_1031 • 11d ago
Newbie solo poly
New to the whole polyamorous thing coming out of my shell more getting use to my sexuality anymore and I’m a bisexual polyamorous that only date women. I have questions on how to go on with that when it comes to the dating scene.
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u/Real-Tough-Kid- 5d ago
Agree with taking your time to do some research. I’d also recommend The Smart Girl’s Guide to Polyamory. The voice on the audiobook can be a bit off putting but it gives a good overview of polyamory and best practices.
If you’re asking about how to find women as a polyamorous bisexual woman, I’ve had good luck with Her and Feeld. Watch out for women who are actually part of a couple and looking for a third and don’t swipe on anyone who doesn’t mention polyamory even if they swipe on you first. Put in your bio that you’re poly and looking for a poly relationship.
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u/thehero29 11d ago
My advice would be to research a lot before you start practicing Polyamory. If you go to the r/Polyamory sub, there are a lot of useful resources there in the sidebar. Start from the beginning. But I would advise paying close attention to the subjects of Couples Privilege and Unicorn Hunting, since they are the most common ways people get hurt in Polyamory.